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Starting CNM - Problems
Starting CNM - Problems My wife and I have been in a monogamous relationship for almost 20 years (if you include dating). We still love each other, but a few months ago my wife and I had a serious talk in which she expressed how her<b> physical </font></b>intimacy needs has changed and presented the idea of polyamory. She has never had a high sexual drive, but even affection has become very limited at this point. As of right now, we both want stay married but I need<b> physical </font></b>touch and intimacy which I am not been getting from her at all. We have not discussed what to do going further which is why my status on here talks about doing this slowly. I essentially have no one to talk about this with and though this might be a good outlet. Don't know if anyone will read this or care, but at least I'm finally putting it out in the world in some way. I crave intimacy and affection which I am not getting, but still am committed to a wife I love. I am waiting on her to be ready to talk again, but this is a real struggle. Not sure what to do next or how to proceed. Even if we get this all figured out, I haven't done anything outside my relationship in 20 years. Talk about intimidating! I would think I would need to develop some kind of relationship with a person before affection and/or intimacy would be possible for me, but I really have no idea. |
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