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Finding the right person for ongoing NSA without catching feelings
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Finding the right person for ongoing NSA without catching feelings It sounds simple but can be so complicated. Tips, tricks, opinions and suggestions, experiences welcomed |
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9/12/2021 4:46 pm |
Lol 
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Very cool and very sexy !!! My hard cock will explode and shoot you a lot of hot cum all over you😍😍 I like you so much I want to suck the whole bod
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for what its worth..i think anyone i had an extensive series of hookups and didnt end up feeling even a little something..would make me both sad and scared..only sociopaths have no true feelings.. woop woop
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I think the whole NSA /FWB is only short term.....we all really want that "One" that provides all that we need. So, the NSA /FWB situation, if it is really good, makes us want the whole thing, all the time.....and if both partners are in sync, and openly discuss their feelings, wants and needs, it's all cool. But usually, those partners are not in sync, and don't openly express their longer term wants and needs...... But hey, what do I know?....
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Not possible. Eventually one or both of either of you gets "Feelings" for the other. Especially if the sex is really good. The only way something like this might work, is if you find a man who is doing a lot of dating. In other words, "Not dependent on you for sex". He has his own, "Little Black Book" , to draw from.
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9/13/2021 1:18 am |
Some great thoughts there thanks guys and girls!
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F : Friend, in regard to male & female, a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual relations: WB ( with benefits), is adding the sexual relations as a benefit to being more than just friends !! NSA, No Strings Attached, relates to not looking for long term or marriage, when it's over it's over !! Just My Thought on it!🤠
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Ideally, you'd find someone who possesses a 'cardinal flaw', from a relationship perspective. A trait that would be a hard stop. For example, one of my FWB's was seemingly humorless, another admitted to being an emotional mess. Unfortunately, both developed feelings for me, partially because I'm a halfway decent catch but also due to my affinity for seduction. The love of my life, Lala, has an excellent point about cuddle avoidance as a tool for keeping feelings at bay. But do you really want a stunt cock who doesn't perform after care? Ooh Ooh, another tool for avoiding the feeling thing! Keep the sex completely vanilla. No matter how much you may want to be tied up, spanked, and used, don't do it with a FWB. Engaging in those activities and being pushed by a partner tends to lead to you trusting them and trust almost inevitably leads to icky feelings.
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9/14/2021 4:36 am |
So very interesting thanks!
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Ghetto_cowgirl74 replies on 9/13/2021 1:28 am: Little black books really exist? Yes they do. At least the smart men [or women] still have a "Book" with names in it. Much better than on the phone, or laptop/desktop.
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