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Caspers  

Thislife6 69F
9 posts
7/24/2021 8:54 am
Caspers

What is going on with all of the guys who want to chat, talk dirty share photos then Disappear when it is time to meet?!? What could someone get out of that but maybe a hand job at bedtime, some satisfaction of building up someones expectations, a hardy har har? Yes you can change your mind about meeting me, just be honest and say so, I don't have one feeling that is going to be hurt over someone I have never met and don't know. I can't begin to tell you how many times this has happened. I am seriously pursuing something on this site, don't waste my time and brain power. !!


OldStandardDudeX 71M
125 posts
7/24/2021 9:45 am

Boys will be boys, I suspect. The aninimity allows one to play a game, tease and taunt, but when things get real, it's time to bail. Personally, as a guy with honest intentions, the fake profiles and noise really gets in the way. I sense a lot of honest longing for that legitimate partner, but we often come up short. I think it's just the nature of the site, and others like it. Sigh.


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
7/24/2021 10:48 am

Seems like a never ending story on this site reading the same comments from so many women all of which baffles the mind since you would assume most would at minimum do the decent thing & come correct. The most obvious reason for so many no shows would be that they are married or involved in another relationship. Life is too short for Liars & Cowards that is for sure.

As for your title I had to laugh a bit as in my youth I was nick named Casper by the mostly black teammates on my school bb team as they had never seen such fair pearl while skin on someone before. Was all in good jest as I got along fine with most of them, taking a ribbing as we all know just one small part of the awkward growing up phase of unbridled youth.


crosstraining 70T  
8367 posts
7/24/2021 11:03 am

I know exactly what you mean . {=}


Unzipmeslowly51 54M

7/24/2021 12:40 pm

It happens to me also...so frustrating grrr😀😀


Realandready103 59M

7/24/2021 3:08 pm

There are a lot of flakes. Don't take it personally


harbor112 64M
1567 posts
7/25/2021 12:15 am

I think a few do meet. Just like finding a needle in a haystack ...very rare


pantsonfiretoo 65M  
22 posts
7/27/2021 1:32 pm

This seems to happen to me over and over. I sent you a email, perhaps we will make a connection !


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
8/1/2021 9:30 pm

Well some are pervs. They just look at pictures and wish. Some are in a relationship and have second thoughts about meeting you. Some just want to get a rise out of people. So I do get down by you often, come chat with me on my blog and lets see where we go from there.


Hunting4Cougar86 37M

2/11/2022 2:49 pm

It could be worse. Most of the females that even respond on here end up being scammers or prostitutes. They either send you to a site to "verify" yourself by providing your credit card information, or they ask for "gas money" to come see you. And they usually don't drop it on you until they've been talking for a while. It's really annoying when it happens.


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