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Tips for guys #2 first contact  

Tru524 55F  
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8/22/2021 4:06 am
Tips for guys #2 first contact

First contact sets a tone and makes either a positive impression or can ruin your chances.
1. Don't start out an email or IM with "I want to fuck you" or something about a certain body part. It makes you sound like a creep. Women don't have sex with creeps (unless they are working girls and maybe not ever then)
2. Complement her photo in nice way. "I saw your photo and I was attracted can we chat?" "I am very attracted to you. I know you must get many emails, but if you would consider me I would love to talk to you"
3. Reference her profile. "I saw you like dancing. I love to dance. Would you like to chat?"
4. Don't give out your phone number or ask her for hers at first. This is way too pushy. Have some patience. Rome wasn't built in a day
5. Unless she has no photos on her profile don't ask for photos at first. It presents as you are only interested in her looks (which may be true but again be patient). If you need to ask say "I would be interested to see more of you do you have any pics to share. I understand for privacy if you don't want to share your face at first."
6. DO NOT contact her off site unless you are given permission. For a women this can be VERY<b> creepy </font></b>to have a stranger try to contact her off site. It says "NO BOUNDARIES" and "STALKER". These are words that do not get you meetings with women. This is you getting blocked and possibly reported. Don't be stupid.
7. Finally if someone tells you you are not their type accept this and move on. Some men like red heads, I am not a red head so if a guy tell me I am not what they are looking for I wish them good luck and move on. Do the same
8. Don't be cheap. Get a membership. It does not cost that much. Then you can send and receive emails. If you don't want to use your credit card get a gift card from that big W store and trade that for days. Cheap doesn't get you anything
feel free to email me if you have any questions

Vintageguds 54M

10/1/2021 8:06 pm

 Thank you for all the advice.


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