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Increase response  

miserable2019 77M  
5 posts
11/9/2021 3:24 pm
Increase response


What do you do when the response your profile dries up? Add more pictures or ? Lower your standards or embellish the wording in your profile? What drives response, kinks, age, pics, or sexual or preference? Does listing bi-curious increase tour traffic? Are women turned off or on by guy bi-? So if you're French<b> vanilla </font></b>is better than plain vanilla? So many choices in life and more than one is right depending on you are. Pleasure is what we all seek but the road is bumpy and twisty getting . Enjoy the journey !

jjdeek607 60M

11/12/2021 2:17 am

First, I think you have to be honest in your ad. If you are Bi-curious and that is what you are looking for, then go with that. I am Straight, but I get a lot of messages from bi-sexual and bi-curious men. I think men regardless of their sexual orientation are more willing to send emails and IM chats than women are. I think most women on here wait for you to initiate contact. Profile pics do matter. I think we all tend to look at profile pics first and then read what they are looking for. So I do think you have to spend some time on updating your pics or add a video.

I am a VIP member and get way more exposure than I realized when I signed up. It is unmanageable at this point. But it is all national and international exposure. My profile rarely shows up locally any more. I think once you are a new member, be it a Gold member or a standard member, you appear at the top of people’s search results. Over time, you slide off the radar. I login with a fake female account and have to dig real hard to find my profile. I almost bet that if you did the same thing you would find that you don’t show up in search results as much as you think you do.


miserable2019 77M  
17 posts
11/12/2021 5:28 am

Thanks for the reply. I am 95% straight and only play bi when it's a requirement of the couple. I pass on 95% of the meetings when I don't feel sufficiently comfortable with them or their needs. We all have or needs and wants and real world matchups are about 10% by expectations in my experience.


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