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Are You Pushing Your women into the Arms of Another man?
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Are You Pushing Your women into the Arms of Another man? men are often left wondering what went wrong when their relationships fall apart. They don't understand what happened because they don't recognize their role in the dissolution of the relationship. Even if they don't realize it, men often behave in ways that push women away. Suddenly, after months or years of the same destructive behavior, they are amazed that their relationships didn't work. men with low self-esteem and insecurity issues often try too hard to keep a women. By trying too hard, they inadvertently push away the women they are trying so desperately to keep. men who are insecure are usually clingy and controlling. A clingy man may follow his women around never giving her a moment of solitude. he has to accompany her everywhere she goes. he may hold on to her arm with a<b> death </font></b>grip that is certain to push her out the door eventually. Clingy men may also cry right on cue every time his women tries to have any alone time. he may suddenly become ill or make another excuse to keep her home . A clingy man makes a women feel smothered and may push her right into the arms of another man. The controlling man treats his women like a and makes her feel as though she has two fathers. he tells her how to dress, drive and behave. he may even choose her clothes and her friends for him. The controlling man tries to keep his women by controlling every aspect of her life. However, his controlling nature will make it difficult for him to keep any women for very long.. goodbuddy781 |
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Other comments While the reasons given in this article seem OK, I think a respectable gentleman ought to know how to cook and be cooking. Gone are the days when men marry and expect the wife to be the cook, laundromat, house cleaner, etc. Any respectable man ought to do them, cook, do the laundry (including hers), clean the house, shop for her sanitary pad if she is unable to, attend to the baby, etc The motto is, serve and be served, love and be loved, etc. goodbuddy781
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That's right: Men. Cooking is something every guy should know how to do. You don't have to get fancy, but at least knowing the basics is going to be very useful. 1) You won't starve. Unless you have a constant care-taker (as in, you're doing 10-to-life at a supermax prison), sooner or later you'll find yourself in a position where you have to hustle your own dinner. With just a few basic ingredients in the 'fridge and cabinet, you can whip up a nice little dinner for yourself, no problem. 2) You get to fix what you like to eat. There is probably some dish you really crave, but nobody fixes it exactly the way you like it. Or maybe your girlfriend or wife thinks it's a stupid dish and says something like, "You like it so much, then you fix it!" Okay, so you can. 3) You're broke and you can't afford to go out. Restaurants are expensive. Even take-out adds up, if you do it every night. Forget menu prices: The ingredients cost a tenth of that. 4) You can impress your girl. It makes you look self-sufficient and competent. They love that. 5) You have an instant present at your finger-tips. Forgot your mom's birthday again, didn't you? Didn't even get her a card. No problem. Just tell her, "Hey, Mom, tonight I'm going to fix you this great veal over rice dish that I've been perfecting." She'll be impressed. Plus, if you're lucky, she'll even have most of the ingredients, so it won't cost anything. 6) You can take control over your diet. When someone cooks for you, you are at their mercy. If you've just learned that you have this high blood pressure condition and have to watch your salt intake, then you don't have to worry if the restaurant or your wife or roommate is dumping too much into the dish: You decide. 7) You can impress your date at a restaurant. If you order, say, coq au Vin (which is basically chicken legs and thighs stewed in a tomato sauce), you can turn to your date and say something like, "When I fix this dish, I always lightly brown the chicken first. It keeps the meat from becoming too stringy." Add ten points to your score.  You'll never wash dishes again. Unless you're alone when you cook, you can always invoke the most basic law of cooking: "I cooked, you clean."9) You can get creative. Once you know the basics and have a few recipes memorized (and remember that recipes are just general guidelines, not precisely controlled chemistry experiments), you can try out some ideas of your own. Who knows if a few slices of provolone cheese, some diced onion and a couple of jalapenos on top of a flank steak wouldn't work? Has anybody ever tried? Let's find out... 10) You'll like it. Cooking can be very satisfying and relaxing. Take your time, turn on the radio, pour yourself a beer, assemble your ingredients and just start preparation. Slice a little of this, grate a little of that, make sure the other is trimmed just right. Oven's on? Good. Give it a taste. Eh, needs more pepper, so you get out the grinder... It's a whole creative, calming process, with you in control. Plus, at the end, you get to eat. goodbuddy781
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12/21/2021 8:05 am |
I would love to be caught naked bent over with my head trapped between your legs as you were spanking my ass and by other men
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he freaks out if you don't answer calls or texts immediately A man with trust issues will automatically assume the worst if you do not answer his texts or phone calls right away. he will give you the third degree about why you didn't answer, who you were with, and why you didn't have your phone with you. A man with trust issues will not understand that you can't always answer his phone calls because you have a job, meetings, and other things you have to attend to first. A man with trust issues might not be the right boyfriend for you if you're looking for a healthy, stable relationship. You don't want to spend your life catering to his trust issues and insecurities. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 He may also believe that when you and your group of friends are alone without the boyfriends you are flirting with other men. If he's around he will feel more in control of your actions and who you spend time with. goodbuddy781
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2. he doesn't want you in contact with other women We all have to come into contact with the opposite gender at some point during most days. It could be a co-worker, someone who works at the coffee shop, or a fellow commuter. If your boyfriend expects you to avoid all other men except for him, this is an impossible request. His trust issues should never control who is in your life. If you came into the relationship with male friends, your boyfriend with trust issues may expect you to end your friendship with them. goodbuddy781
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Here are some signs that you have a boyfriend with serious trust issues. 1. he'll call your friends to find out where you are A man with trust issues may contact your friends and family if he can't get in touch with you when he wants to. If you don't answer him right away, he will get in touch with other people close to you to find out where you are. A man with serious trust issues may not be shy about calling people he's never met to ask where you are. goodbuddy781
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Through dating a jerk you begin to get a sense of what you really want in a man. You may have thought dating a quiet man who held his feelings inside was something you'd be happy with. If you date a man who doesn't tell you what he's thinking and seems incapable of conversation, you'll figure out you want a man who talks more. Dating a jerk who won't help you with your heavy bags when he sees you struggling because he is involved in a video game will show you that you want a man you can count on to help you. . You'll be able to spot jerks more quickly Once you decide that you're done dating jerks, being able to spot them quickly comes in very handy. Those qualities that you once found irresistible will now be warning flags. When you're dating in hopes of finding a serious relationship, you don't want to waste time dating the same type of person over and over. . You'll learn to respect yourself Dating someone who isn't very nice will help you discover how much you're willing to take before you stand up for yourself and leave. You will grow a backbone through dating a jerk. You will not let another person treat you badly because you know how much it hurts. How many times will you let him call you names before you walk out? How many dates will he be late for before you feel disrespected? Dating a jerk will take you to places you never expected to be and will not want to visit again. Dating a jerk isn't something you should do for an extended period of time. You also shouldn't do it with the intent of trying to change him. Women tend to have fantasies about turning a bad boy good, but that isn't something that generally happens. Dating a jerk is only beneficial for improving the success of your future relationships in life goodbuddy781
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If you're not exclusive, date other people If he really won't budge but you think he's worth sticking around for, it's time to start dating other people. This may feel like a contradiction, but it has multiple benefits. Firstly, it will allow you to confirm to yourself that you are an attractive woman and are quite capable of catching the interest of other men. This will boost your confidence and a confident woman is a woman who men will commit to. Secondly, by dating other men, you may discover that the guy you've been holding out for doesn't actually measure up to the new guys you've met. It'll give you a new perspective on whether he really is the man for you. If you still want a commitment from him, dating other guys will drive him crazy. He'll be reminded that you're a fantastic woman who other men clearly want to spend time with. It might make him realize that making a commitment to you is the only way to keep you in his life. Don't wait a lifetime for him make a commitment to you. Make him want to commit to you and if you're still left feeling cold, move on and find a man and a relationship that you deserve. goodbuddy781
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Other comments If you're at the stage of wanting to move from dating and into a relationship, you've probably only known each other for a matter of months. Don't expect him to drop down on one knee and whip out a diamond ring. Men often play a slow and steady race when it comes to developing a loving relationship.  goodbuddy781
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Make him want to commit He is more likely to want to make a commitment to you if you are the kind of woman he can see himself in a long-term relationship with. You don't have to take on a new persona to make yourself a more attractive prospect, but you can avoid certain kinds of behaviors that are off-putting. Don't be too clingy. He doesn't want to feel that you are wholly dependant on him to function. Make him aware that you want to be with him, but if he doesn't reciprocate, you are also in a position to move on and find someone else. goodbuddy781
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Let her know that you want commitment If you don't ask, you'll never get. SHe may assume that you're both happily going along with the dating thing and she doesn't want to rock the boat by developing the relationship. It is important to communicate your feelings, but don't overdo it. You only need to talk to her once about your desire to have an exclusive relationship. SHe'll get the message. If you nag her about it repeatedly, she is less likely to take up the offer because you're being pushy. Make it clear that you don't want to move in together at this point but you do want commitment from her. goodbuddy781
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Dating is the point in a relationship when you're learning about the other person, finding out if his lifestyle matches yours. During the dating state you also find out important things that could be deal breakers. Sometimes it's easy to ignore little things that your boyfriend does or doesn't do, but sometimes those little things become bigger things. Here are four things that might seem little, but over time might become larger issues for you. 1. Your friends and family don't like him Your friends and family love you, right? They don't secretly pray that you never find love. They just want you to be with the right guy. Listen to their concerns with an open mind. See if what they say makes sense. Other people will often see things that you don't because they are not as close to the situation as you are. Instead of getting defensive and defending your boyfriend, see if anything they are saying has merit. 2. He lied about something small Lying about something small and silly is a clear sign he can and likely will lie about something larger. Don't be fooled into thinking that a small lie shouldn't be considered important. If he can't talk to you about smaller issues, he won't have an easier time talking about larger issues. 3. He doesn't call you Make sure that you're actually giving him a chance to call you. Don't always be the one to bombard him with phone calls, texts and emails. If he doesn't contact you, he may be used to you doing all the work. If you aren't the kind of woman who constantly calls your boyfriend, then he might not be interested. He doesn't need to call you constantly, but it's normal for a dating couple to want to talk to each other. 4. He's jealous A small amount of jealousy is flattering, but there comes a point when that cute jealousy turns into something much worse. If your boyfriend is asking you to drop all of your male friends, even the ones from your childhood, his jealousy has gone too far. If he doesn't want you to see, speak to or even look at other men, including colleagues, this is no longer simple jealousy. If your boyfriend trusts you, he does not need to isolate you from all people of the opposite sex. Other signs that your boyfriend's jealousy has gone too far include asking you a million questions about a male friend, asking to see your emails with a male friend and accusing you of having feelings for a male friend. It's important when dating to really look at who you're dating and not the person you wish he was. You can pretend that the issues don't exist, but that only means you'll have to deal with it as a larger problem in the future goodbuddy781
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There are two kinds of men in the world. One is those who pretend to be moral (Their behavior behind is immoral and underhand in fact), this kind of men are very boring. Another is those who pretend to be immoral (Their behavior is decent and moral and aboveboard), this kind of men are very lovely. I really know some men in real life, they look very moral, they talk moral they don't flirt with female. It seems they are so decent and prude, but behind they do dirty things just like animals. All my friends agree with that I'm the second kind. I can flirt with female friends and even become very good friends but I know the bottom line. I know what I should do and what I should not do. I never do those not suitable for a decent man. So they say I'm lovely. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 Listen to her The art of listening is a skill that is lost on many people. Asking questions is a good start, but if you fail to respond appropriately, they can feel like empty words. A common mistake is to ask your date a question, allow her to answer and then respond with own experiences. For example, 'Where did you go on vacation this year?' 'I went to Mexico.' 'I went there in 2010. I went scuba-diving...' Your date will only feel that your questions are a set-up for your own responses and that you're disingenuous. Listen to her responses and let her talk about her experiences. Respond with enquiry and not your own stories. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 You look like you don't care Appearing nonchalant is very off-putting. This applies to both physical appearance and body language. The women you date will probably have spent time on looking their best, and it's only right that you do the same. Unless you're on an active date, wear a shirt and make sure it's pressed. Make sure that your shoes are polished and in respectable condition. Your hairstyle and facial hair is up to you, but you have to be clean and fresh-smelling with a dazzling smile. Don't fold your arms or lean back in your chair. Make sure that your body is positioned slightly forward and that you make eye contact with your date. It lets her know that you're interested in her and that you care about what she has to say. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 Plan how you'll fill awkward silences You go on dates to get to know one another. You have very little information before meeting a woman, so it's only natural that there will be some silences between conversation topics. Although this is completely natural given the amount of time you've known each other, it can feel awkward. Don't resort to speaking about the subject you know the most about: yourself. She will only think that you're not interested in what she's got to say and that there isn't room in your life for anyone other than yourself. When there's a silence, ask her an open question instead. For example, 'What made you want to do your chosen career?' or, 'How do you like to spend your weekends?' Keep it light so it doesn't appear that you're interrogating her. She will appreciate the opportunity to get the conversation going again and if she's a good date, she'll reciprocate and ask you questions in return. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 You simply cannot rely on dating as many women as possible and hoping that one woman will connect with you. The law of averages rarely applies to dating. Just like any subject, successful dating is a skill that can be learned. It's time to be self-critical and break bad habits. Don't think too much Tasks are often marred by over-thinking them. When learning a new language, you have to let your words flow and not think about every single syllable that comes out of your mouth. The language of love is no different. Stop playing out scenarios in your head according to how you think she'll react. 'If I ask her if she wants another drink, will she think I'm trying to get her drunk?' 'If I talk about my achievements, will she think I'm egotistical?' If you plan out every single sentence to avoid anticipated offence, you'll lack spontaneity and exude nothing more than dullness. Trust yourself and let the conversation take its natural course. goodbuddy781
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Have your own life A secure man doesn't need to cling to his girlfriend and her life. If you're insecure you will want to be with your girlfriend all the time. You'll want to join her and her friends for activities that you don't particularly like just so that you can keep an eye on her all the time. A confident man knows that his girlfriend is into him and won't go chasing after every man that crosses her path. Know that she's with you because she likes you and wants to be with you. Acting like an insecure man is one of the quickest ways to turn a woman off and ruin a potentially good relationship. If you have insecurities, it's a good idea to deal with them before attempting a relationship. No one else, not even a girlfriend, can give you the confidence you need and deserve goodbuddy781
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Don't go digging into her past If you're curious about your girlfriend's exes, resist the temptation to dig into her past to see what kind of men she dated before you. Don't ask your girlfriend about her exes and the details of their relationship and breakup or how many people she has been with. Doing these things makes you look insecure and you probably don't really want the details anyway. Leave the past where it belongs and enjoy your relationship with your girlfriend. goodbuddy781
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You Don't Feel the Need to Talk About the Big Stuff You should feel comfortable talking about tough topics with your significant other. If you don't feel like you can talk to him about anything but superficial topics, you're likely dating the wrong man for you. Over the course of a few months plans and topics that are important to you should come up, and you should feel comfortable discussing them honestly. If those topics haven't come up in conversation you may be afraid of rejection, or you may, subconsciously, not see your man in your future. Either way, it's a big red flag that your man isn't the man for you in the long run. goodbuddy781
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You Aren't Comfortable Being Yourself Around Him It's completely normal to feel like you have to be on your best behavior for the first few dates, but if you still haven't relaxed a few months into the relationship you might be with the wrong man. The right person should make you feel secure and comfortable, not like you have to put on a show. If you haven't relaxed into the relationship over time, you may want to evaluate whether or not your partner is the best fit for you. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 Keep a few things in mind as you fill out your profile, however. For starters, never lie about having a child. It's an important fact about you, and potential dates need to know that you're a parent up front. Check the yes box, and then incorporate one sentence about your little one in your biography. The rest should be about you – what you like to do, what you're searching for, and the things that make you a fun, independent, rockin' individual.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 Drunk texting is just as annoying as drunk dialing, and you are sure to say something you'll regret in the morning. Do yourself a favor and put your phone away when the party starts. goodbuddy781
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Let her have her own life too Even in the early stages, relationships are about give and take. If she loves the fact that you have your own social life outside of dates with her, then you have to return the favor. If she's hitting the town with the girls, resist the temptation to turn into a jealous boyfriend and assume that she's going to start kissing every handsome men in sight. Your jealously will only push her away. SHe needs to spend time with her friends, both male and female for the same reasons that you do. goodbuddy781
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