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YOUR OPINION: i would like a 'girlfriend', was married and that was a shit show, raised my two children(19 & 25) so a 'girlfriend' is what i want, a nice woman to make dates with, surprise with picnics, send flowers and gifts, spoil with romance, and get down and dirty  all living apart and maintaining each other's personal & professional lives. not a 'have cake and eat too' arrangement but 2 adults sharing the good and removing the fuel for bad 
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This is the end because I've got shit to do!  goodbuddy781
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That is an extremely well written & spot on blog & if I didn't know better would accuse you of getting inside nearly every single Man's head & then some. You've been paying attention, taking down names & quite rightly dishing out some much needed & warranted critiques. I'll just mosey along now nothing more to say here other than a job well done.
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GREAT BLOG! ... I don't have a lot of "shit to do"  I'm bored hence why I am here.My thoughts are the same as yours.. why spend hours on a website looking for a shag when you can hook up with one woman have regular sex and get your dinner cooked for you  .. I think it is "the chase" and I get that if you're in your 20's but not when you're in your 50's ..shouldn't men be past that then!I too say it how I see it... maybe that's where I'M going wrong too!!
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I just answer that no one will have me. Saves a lot of explanation. 💁♀️
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I hope the men on here read your post. I'm the 0.00001% that isn't looking for anything beyond chat or blogs. I will offer this unsolicited nugget: love will find you when you're not looking for it. It's rather rude that way. Lol. I enjoyed your post immensely just in case it doesn't appear that way. Take care and good luck! My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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Wonderful Post EducatedWoman4u, I enjoyed what you had to say and found it interesting. I as well stay fairly busy between working longer then a typical 40 hour weeks and outside stuff and sports. Most women I dated on the M a T ch or zoo sk sites or others are all looking for the eight to four working man that then comes home and spends all his time with them. That is not me, I have much going on that someone could do with me which would make it all that much better but someone that knows I am busy and not a cheater and allows me time to be me is what I seek. I have never been someone to tell a woman I was dating you can not do that or you can not have those friends or you can not go on that trip with the girls as I accept that you are you and that is what makes you , You. I seek just one woman for casual or a serious relationship, plain and simple. I have never sought out multiple people but have run into women like the men you mention that seem to constantly seek more or better and for the record, I have not met anyone from the site yet but would like to for sure if we were a match. I agree that I have went to meet a lady or two from another site and found that the photos they had were yearssssss old and I was really disappointed they would lie about that. My photos are within a year and the ones I trade with someone are current. You should be able to say your peace and express your thoughts and feelings with the person that you are with as communication is key. No one that I know is a mind reader and if you do not talk to each other, how would you know what the other person is thinking and when an issue comes to the table how can two people solve it without communication. I have met and or spoke with women whom were still hung up on the ex or multiple ex's and talked about them a lot. At times I thought I should be a therapist as they had a LOT to work out and should not even be in any relationship with anyone as they were toxic ! Almost all of my ex's and I ended without drama or bad karma and if I run into any of them , we chat like old friends laugh and continue our days. LOL the married person case ... yeah I have run into a few of those on other sites more then here and it surprises me that people think they will get away with that or that I would want to be a part of it or risk having someone with a gun come looking for me. I had a friend on a site that was wronged by a guy and she would seek out married men and expose them. I am sure there are men out there that do the same to the women. Dangerous situations, they should just get a divorce and do it right instead of sneaking around, that takes too much energy. Well I think I commented on most of what you had to say and would add that everyone is looking for something different but that they should lay those cards on the table and be upfront about what they are seeking and what they offer instead of being deceptive as it would save a lot of time, stress and heart ache all around and maybe they would find themselves happier. THANK YOU again for your posting and allowing me to add my thoughts. I hope that everyone finds what they seek. Have a blessed day everyone!
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