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Why Men Struggle with Communicating Their Sexual Desires
Why Men Struggle with Communicating Their Sexual Desires The demands of rigid masculinity make it difficult for many men to fully express their desires and needs in relationships. Men deserve to be seen, and their emotions validated, without their masculinity being called into question. Men are scared of being judged, put done or frowned upon for being open about what they enjoy and need sexually. In many cases, men believe its up to them to insure the sexual experience is pleasurable for both, an undue pressure that further complicated matters even more. ItâÂÂs a completely vulnerable experience to be naked and let someone see and hear you, to let someone completely understand you. The stress of work, the need to be that perfect idea of what society says men must be - the dominant powerhouse in control - can just fade away when a man can share his desires without judgment, or being considered less of a man. They want to feel that their partner is as excited about the sexual encounter as they are, that she feels her sexual needs and pleasure are of utmost importance to him. Men will say that if she is not mentally engaged, heâÂÂs not interested, BOOM! were you expecting that? Men often feel pressure to be confident, in control, always up for sex. If he shows you his caring, passionate, yet kinky side - by admitting his fantasies and sexual desires for sex or that he feels emotionally disconnected if he shares - recognize that vulnerability takes courage. Listen. DonâÂÂt judge. Appreciate the risk it took for him to share. You may think sexual desire is hard-wired in men, but with every attempt at turning you on comes a threat of rejection â even in the most established relationships. ThatâÂÂs why itâÂÂs such a turn-on when a woman makes the moves introducing something he may have shared in a fantasy, allowing him to skip the risk altogether. And itâÂÂs not just sex he wants: He wants a partner that shares the same desires, wants and ability to be creative and explore sexually. HereâÂÂs a fact: Men need (and want) sexual intimacy just as much as women do. Mutual respect, trust, support, and communication â these relationship musts are just as important for a man's emotional and sexual health as they are for a woman's. |
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