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Blogs > CaryGranite1 > Cary On!

Starving for a "good conversation"  

CaryGranite1 68M
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10/4/2022 11:47 am
Starving for a "good conversation"

In the movie The Last Samurai, early on when Algren ( T. Cruise) is being questioned by Katsumoto (K. Watanabe), Katsumoto asks about his warrior past to which Algren replies "read a book". Katsumoto say " I would rather have a good conversation"!

Yeas,.. this is indeed a sex site and I'm all on board for that. But I'm starting to perceive as not much more than an internet glory hole.Grab your Bud Light and look for anonymous<b> encounters </font></b>in hopes of getting off.

I'll admit to being a bit snobbish. I concede I seek a bit of cerebral enticement as well as erotic. And that begins with a " good conversation",.. something very lacking here.

i.e,...4 lines into a greeting and it's Hey! I'm 17 inches cut and I'll give you the ride of your life" Really dude?
or Hi, hru?
I should be enticed by such compelling dialogue? Lordy!, not ever...

Had a dude write me recently:.. "Hi, how's it going. I'll be in (nearby town) tonight."
This was sent by a faceless profile with about 5 lines of profile read . Why would I give it a thought?

Wanna know how to engage a person in conversation? Read this, a very enlightening read.
https://www.orbitmedia.com/blog/start-conversation-online/

Now if that faceless dude had said something more like:
" Hi,.. sorry to intrude, but (your excuse here).
I'm going to be in town near you this evening and I wonder if you could recommend a good place for drinks and food?"
There,.. now he's taken the curse off the unsolicited greeting by apologizing for intruding and followed up with a great line to further the dialogue. At that point I would be rude by not replying.

Good chat is like a ping pong game. An opening volley followed by an answering volley. And if you're good, it gets more interesting and fast.

I hope this bit of info helps a few conversationally challenged a better success..

Cary on!

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