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| This is a safe place for me to write what's in my head and heart. I'm on a quest to explore and expand my sexual path ... each day it evolves and fluctuates.
I think humor should be everyone's best friend. Sometimes I'm serious and sometimes I'm silly.
I find the most efficient way to get around blogland is on my tricycle. I kill three birds with one stone ... quickly visit more blogs, get some well needed exercise and at the right level to miss flying objects or the low hanging fruit.
I encourage everyone to speak their mind, respectfully. I can always learn from healthy debate. All opinions are accepted unless they're attacking, inflammatory, chauvinistic or misogynistic. If your agenda is something other than engaging in a meaningful discussion or to have fun, I will ask you to not visit my blog.
I hope everyone enjoys their journey throughout A*F*F. Everyone is welcome within the walls of my blog as long as they conduct themselves as an adult. No bullying, manipulative or trolling behavior will be tolerated.
Open Public secret about me, I'm a returning blogger formerly known as CHT. |
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Open Petition to Abolish both, the Active Bloggers List & Fake Trolling Profiles
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Posted:May 22, 2015 12:04 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2015 12:26 pm
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As a collective group, we have the power to demand change within a site where many '', let's exercise that power.
This petition will be submitted to A*F*F administers to abolish both, the active bloggers list and fake troll profiles.
For many years the on-line community has witnessed numerous blog wars, bullying, attacking, shaming, manipulations, attacks and infighting over the most active bloggers list.
In an effort to eliminate the hostile competitive environment created from the active bloggers list, it should be abolished in it's present function and replaced with a different forum.
The discussed ideas are as below:
1) Abolish the active bloggers list all together and only have trending blog posts by all existing bloggers with no separation between gender.
2) Have trending blog posts by all existing bloggers and all newly created blogs with no separation between gender.
3) Rotate the trending blog posts by all existing bloggers and newly created blogs with no separation between gender.
The point is to give exposure to all blogs and have easier access to the existing bloggers, regardless of popularity and/or gender.
Fake troll profiles are not new within A*F*F and I believe we are dealing with far more fake troll profiles in the on-line community which are created for nefarious purposes.
The sole purpose of fake troll profiles is to be deceptive, manipulative, abusive and divisive in nature. They put into question the 'realness' of a on-line site and are wide reaching throughout the site, from people who choose to use the on-line meeting or on-line community side of the site.
This abuse of the system has created a hostile environment which does not allow all to freely enjoy the site the way we are entitled to as site members.
Many members have left the on-line community area, or closed their accounts, and more leave the site if the problem is not yet addressed and resolved.
This is a petition asking site administrators to abolish both, the active bloggers list and fake troll profiles. If you agree or disagree with any of the statements within this petition or have suggestions / ideas, please leave a comment below.This is a chance for all site members to voice their opinions, and have their concerns heard in an organized and collective manner.
I will present this petition and open a dialog with the site administrators to request a priority be placed with the petition.
Thank you for helping to make this a better experience for all members.
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I want to be a secret sex slave ... just for you
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Posted:May 16, 2015 6:26 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2015 1:42 am
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Have you ever wanted to sneak out of town for a secret week-end where the sole purpose is to be his sex slave ?
During a conversation with a girlfriend who travels a lot, a light bulb went off in my head. I have a desire to be his sex slave for a few days. I'll secretly slip out of town and be at his place before he gets home.
He'll come home to me sleeping naked in his bed. He showers and awakens me with a kiss. The sole purpose for my week-end is to be his sexual slave. I'll be his little secret. No one knows I'm there except the two of us.
He goes about his regular working schedule and comes home to me, either takes or wakes me to do whatever he chooses. The word 'NO' will never slip from my lips. I will have no idea when he will come or go. Time will not be important for me ... it is all about deepening our connection.
I wonder how many times he will slip away from the office during the day to have his way with me ? I wonder what he will do to satiate our primal desires ? I wonder how many things we will check off our 'TO DO LIST' ? I wonder if he will want this as much as I do ?
Have you ever wanted to be or have a secret sex slave ?
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What do you DO when they are like velvet ?
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Posted:May 9, 2015 3:43 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2015 1:32 pm
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I love to kiss, especially when it’s done well. Big velvety soft lips make me weak in the knees. When a man knows how to kiss and enjoys doing it ... it ... it makes me swoon.
You know the kind of kisses I’m talking about. They start out slow and slightly seeking, wet but not sloppy, playful but not forceful. They contain the tip of the tongue and build to more. The kind that make your entire body respond, gets your heart and breath racing.
It drives me nuts when a man holds my face or neck while he kisses me. When he restrains or forces me to the wall, a door, a bed, a table; anywhere actually, it turns me the fuck on. If he pulls on my lower lip or tongue ... it's all over for me. Trailing your kisses down my neck will cause the moaning to begin. Flip me around, restrain my hands above my head, kiss that spot on the back of my neck will cause the begging to begin. It's all part of the foreplay and intimacy with me. A good kiss can make me damp and wanton, a great kiss can make me wet and dripping, but an erotic kiss will make me want to fuck you.
Have you ever woke up the next day with your lips sore or slightly swollen from kissing ? It is a continued reminder of the nights activities.
I'm ready for you to unleash your lust and passion for me ... with our lips.
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I want more than just ...
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Posted:May 5, 2015 4:59 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2015 1:44 am
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My mind and body are SCREAMING to be spanked, flogged, paddled, restrained, blindfolded, marked ... and on & on ... the list is long.
My body is aching to be released. I need to be seduced and ravished. I need to go to the edge and then pushed to go even further. I need the intimacy and intensity of more than just a release with someone.
I can call some one, text some one, email some one ... they will respond immediately. But it will be just some one and be just some thing.
I want more than just some one. I want it to be more than just some thing.
I will try to wait patiently ... and remain hopeful.
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'Lucky you'
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Posted:May 2, 2015 2:49 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2015 12:23 pm
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It started the same way as always ... a text.
Him: "I'll be there in 8 minutes".
Me : "I need 15 minutes".
Him: "You've got 10 ... Be outside naked when I get there".
He approached me on my porch and stopped at the bottom step. I was sitting on the top step with my robe loosely tied at the waist. I leaned back with my legs wide open. My white skin was a stark comparison to my black velvet robe.
It was pitch black outside. He reached down and pulled my robe open. He ran his hands from my chin down the center of my chest and pinched both my nipples really hard. I drew in a fast breath. He always knows how to get and keep my attention. He pulled me to my feet and his teasing began. He continued to pinch my nipples, pulled my hair at the back of my neck, and hovered around my lips but would not kiss me. He knew what I wanted but refused. He knew I needed his lips but he had other plans.
He turned me around and pulled up my robe to expose my bare ass. He rubbed both cheeks and slightly spread my legs open. I enjoy when he admires and touches me.
Although I live on a well traveled street, it was loooong past midnight so the traffic was sparse. The first smack to my ass echoed off my porch and made me suck in a deep breath. Several smacks, rubs, and licks later, his hand found it's way to the sweet spot between my legs. He knows how to tease and arouse me so well. He knew he could bent me over the rail of my porch, right then and there, without any arguments from me, but he had other plans.
He pushed me into my bedroom and finally kissed me. HALLIJULAH because this man knows how to kiss a woman.
He knew what my mind and body needed. Once the pillow was beneath my knees and the blindfold in place, the intensity started to grow. Everything about this man is sexy and sensual, from his lack of words to the way he sucks air between his teeth when he is climaxing.
My ass was sore from the spanking, whipping & candlewax. I was expecting the spanking, flogging and blindfold, but the whipping and candlewax was a surprise. He seemed to really enjoy the candlewax and whipping, but me, not so much. When I asked him to" please stop whipping me because I didn't really like that mean toy", he asked "how else am I going to get the candlewax off ... Unless I use a knife ?" I practically screamed "NO, do you really think I'm going to give you a knife right now ?". His responded with more candlewax and then more whipping on my ass.
I wouldn't discover all the 'markings' he left until the next morning. Not only was my ass sore, but I had little black and blue spots from the ends of the leather whip along with red burn marks from the wax.
I found candlewax in my bed, on the floors of both my bath and bedroom. I got a good laugh out of our text exchange the next morning ... "I woke this morning to a sore ass with black & blue marks with candlewax everywhere". His response ... "Lucky You"
The only thing that came to mind was ... priceless !
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The Magic of Marking with Me
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Posted:May 2, 2015 2:46 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2015 12:23 pm
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If I'm with someone whom I share an affinity, I need him to mark my body. I always leave the manner and spot(s) in which he mark solely up to him.
Naturally, the common sense rules apply ... no serious injury to my body and it must be concealable while out in public.
If hand prints or bruising are not usually occurring during our sexy time, we're doing something really, really wrong. I have very fair skin so it doesn't take much to leave bruises, but that isn't the marking I'm referencing.
Sometimes I want to watch you marking me and other times I want to feel you marking me. What turns me on the most is when the erotic lust of what we feel for each other, or the overwhelming erotic lust we feel in that moment, takes over and you start marking me out of sheer need or desire. That is so fucking hott it drives me wild.
There is something so primal about the act of marking. Random glimpses of the marks later will instantly bring back memories, can make me moist and depending on the marks, will make me feel either naughty or done right fucking nasty.
And now I'm ready to be Marked by you, repeatedly, and I want it to be down right fucking nasty between us.
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What inspires your sexiness ?
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Posted:Apr 26, 2015 9:29 pm
Last Updated:Sep 1, 2016 8:30 pm
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If you're like me, your sexiness is inspired by your partner. I'm not an overtly sexual person during the day ... but you get me naked and it's a completely different story.
I enjoy playing in an intimate, intense and passionate way. I like the room to be candle lit with some old school R&B playing in the background. The room is cool & serene but usually heats up quickly when my lover walks in. Unless my lover asks me to be dressed in a specific manner that would please him, I'm naked and ready.
As soon as I hear my front door open, the sexual minx is immediately alive & purring. I feed off his energy and our combined energy together. I respond to positive energy and passion. When my lover engages both my mind and body, along with some spanking, flogging, biting and marking ... it's off and popping.
Conversely, if I play with someone who is devoid of an emotionally connection with me, the sexual minx stays hidden. I feel unfulfilled and that makes me feel empty.
I'm inspired by and with my lover thru our chemistry and connection. The better the connection and chemistry the more vulnerable and willing to explore and please my lover I will be.
I hope I inspire and am inspired by my lover ...
What inspires your sexiness ?
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I will lay myself open and bare for you
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Posted:Apr 26, 2015 2:07 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2015 12:21 pm
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What is the difference between how I interact with a play partner and a lover ? Simple, my emotions and how I present my body to you.
I like to play on an intimate and intense level. A play partner will only get so much of me. A lover will get most, if not, all of me. The difference is how I feel about the person and our relationship. When my mind and body are aroused with undeniable chemistry, I connect and bond on a higher level.
The intensity and passion of our time will be more intimate between us. No one other than you will exist during our times together. You will have all my attention. Our interaction will be primal and hedonist, almost savage in the pursuit.
I will want more, give more, need more ... yet my walls will be higher and harder to penetrate.
Your natural dominance will know how to handle me and allow my submissive side to comfortably appear and evolve. You will own our sexual destiny. You will know my boundaries and push us past them every time. You will know when it needs to be rough fucking and when it needs to be gentle love making. You will unleash things in me I didn't know existed.
When I open my pussy for you, it will be attached to my mind, my body and my soul. You will be in my head as much as in my body. Your requests and instructions will make me wet from anticipation to hear you claim and call out for 'your pussy'. When you slip your fingers thru my hair and grab the back of my head to growl 'that's my girl' in my ear, while spanking me will make me cum. Yet when you push me up against the wall, hold my face and stare deeply into my eyes while grabbing my wet pussy to tell me 'you belong to me, don't you agree' in that sexy voice, we both know I'm going to squirt all over you.
You will be my friend and my lover. I will be protective and loyal of our relationship. What we build will be done together.
This is when I will lay myself open and bare for you. Please handle me, but only handle me ... with care.
What makes you vulnerable ?
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Powerful men are my aphrodisiac
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Posted:Apr 22, 2015 5:06 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2015 1:54 am
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As a strong woman, I'm drawn to powerful men. I find naturally dominate, intelligent, confident men who exhibit a moral compass and character to be so incredible sexy. An alpha man will make my panties wet every day of the week and twice during the week-end.
For some women, submission comes naturally to them; for me, not so much. I'm only submissive in the bedroom, when and with whom I choose. I need a bond and shared trust, otherwise it's just not going to happen. I'll switch quickly and have been know to give a swat from a paddle in return for receiving a swat from a paddle.
If you treat me with respect and understand that my female brand of intelligence is just as valid as your own, I won't ever feel the need to assert my power, as it will be understood.
Treat me equally and I will happily submit in the bedroom. It shows me you're confident in your masculinity and not threatened by a strong smart woman. Acknowledging my worth will highlight your own.
Being treated equally doesn't mean chivalry is dead between us. Respect my intelligence and strength by treating me as the sexy, sensual feminine woman I am.
If you want me to let you be my man, in all your glory and steer our relationship both inside and outside of the bedroom, treat me like your other half, no more and no less, and I'll happily submit.
An alpha man instinctively knows how to handle me, will understand and have no issue with me being a handful.
Who turns you on & why ?
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Make me moan for you baby ...
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Posted:Apr 18, 2015 1:46 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2015 5:22 am
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The sounds of moaning are a luxury of sex. If done well it can turn me on and help make me cum, if done wrong it can be a complete turn off. I'm playful ... until it's time to not be playful anymore. I'm not a quite woman in bed, I enjoy all the moans, groans, whimpers, whispers and screams.
I want you to control me; my mind, my body as we seek to melt into each other. Clear intentions understood by spoken and unspoken words. Open emotions mixed into the physical act of you consuming me, taking me, claiming me.
The words we speak will be done by our mouths, hands, toys, commands and bodies. Every touch and expression will be amplified. Each mark you make on my body will be remembered and cherished. Each moan ... each groan ... each whisper ... each scream ... will draw us closer together.
We will struggle to remember each detail ... but we will remember, wouldn't we !?!
Are you vocal in bed ?
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Dressed and Ready or Undressed and Ready To Impress ?
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Posted:Apr 16, 2015 5:45 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2020 11:54 pm
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I love to shop for men's clothes ... even more than for my own.
There is nothing sexier than a well dressed man. It doesn't always need to be a suit but that is a good start. I like to combine different weights, textures, patterns and colors. It all comes down to how well it fits you and your body.
A well made suit, a shirt with a french cuff and links ... an Italian shoe and belt. Lord have Mercy on my soul because I will have the nastiest thoughts racing through my mind when I feast my eyes on a such a sight.
Edgy coat or suit jacket and a great pair of premium denim that fit correctly ... I'll be thinking of all the creative ways I want to get you out of those clothes. Levi's will work as long as they are the correct cut for your body style and they are button fly's. The sound of a zipper is nice but the pop ... pop ... popping sound of your fly will make me come unglued.
Throw in manicured, maintained with a masculine cologne and I might as well be naked on the spot, as this primal urge to ... mount you ... will be ever present.
What ever you put together, it will look the sexiest when you're comfortable in your own skin and style. The manner in which you carry yourself will catch my eye as quickly as how you're dressed, or undressed.
I'm not an overtly sexy dresser. I keep it classy and will tease you in other ways which will drive you nuts in public. What makes me feel the sexiest is how we vibe together and our chemistry. Once we're alone ... the sexy minx that has been ever so close to the surface in public ... comes out to play. And she loves to be naked !
I guess this can go both ways ...
Are You Dressed and Ready ... to Impress or Undressed and Ready ... to Impress
Which appeals most to you ?
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I will not promote our stupidity
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Posted:Apr 15, 2015 6:01 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2015 9:13 pm
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In my quest to fine tune & purge from my life, I've decided I'm no longer going to promote stupidity.
Let me quantify this statement.
When someone does something that is stupid in nature, I'm going to ignore it, or in other words ... I will not promote your stupidity.
So if you ...
Postpone or email 'excuses/reasons' why you can't speak via telephone ... NOT only will I no longer have ANYTHING to do with you, I will not promote your stupidity.
Bullying, manipulative, passive-aggressive or immature behavior ... I will not promote your stupidity or be your emotional / verbal punching bag.
Don't respond to a text unless it pertains to something beneficial to you ... I will not promote your stupidity.
Have double standards ... What's good for you is not good for me in your eyes ... I will do my own thing and be comfortable in what I'm doing ... I will not promote your stupidity or your passive-aggressive behavior.
Willingly refuse to return a call or text because you don't like something I've said or done ... I will not promote your stupidity.
Wouldn't except accountability for your words or actions ... I will not promote your stupidity.
Blow up my phone when I say I need time before I want to talk with you ... I will not answer the phone so STOP calling me ... I will not promote your stupidity.
The list can go on & on but I think you're getting the idea.
The reality of the situation is simple, me promoting your stupidity is actually promoting my own stupidity. I don't want to be stupid any longer !
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I don't want to be a trained flea anymore !!!
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Posted:Apr 14, 2015 6:38 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2015 1:55 pm
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Fleas have an amazing ability. A flea can jump vertically up to 7 inches and horizontally up to 13 inches. An amazing feat for an insect who is only maybe 1/16" long.
If you take one, and put it in a glass, it WILL jump out.
If you put a lid on that same glass for a very short while. The flea will only jump as high as the lid. If you remove that lid, the flea will never jump higher than what they learned while trapped under that lid.
The proverbial ceiling.
They know their limitations and learn to keep their world within that space.
Much ... like ... We do ...
While self or society imposed limitations are not uncommon with most, I feel mine are palpable and wide reaching. Two of the biggest reasons for my limitations are fear and past disappointments.
I have friends who believe, if you follow 'The Secret' way of life or throw it out to the Universe, great things will follow. Ask and you shall receive policy. While I didn't read 'The Secret', I do believe in goals, positive thinking & karma. Negativity and karma are most certainly a bitch.
Here's what I do know today ... I no longer wish to be a trained flea and I'm the only one who can start making the required changes. Removing the lid was the easy part, the hard part for me is ... the jumping.
Here goes nothing !!!
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