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Daytimer09B 53M
543 posts
7/27/2021 6:27 am
How many people on here...

actually want to meet someone from here?
I enjoy meeting new people and it does not have to lead to sex.
I am here to meet for sex only.
I am just here to blog.
I am just here to see sexual pictures.
I am just here to kill time. (this place can certainly do that)
I am not interested at all in meeting people from here.


Daytimer09B 53M
875 posts
7/27/2021 6:42 am

If not one of these then what would be your answer?


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
38555 posts
7/27/2021 6:56 am

Blogging for me.


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 10:23 am:
Blogging is about the only place where someone will actually talk with you on this site. Plus the lazy people stay away from the blogs.

Granny872 69F  
4015 posts
7/27/2021 7:06 am

Too bad the site doesn't put this poll on the initial profile setup. It would certainly help categorize people's interest(s) and let people know whether or not they're barking up the wrong tree.

Other voting options? "I'm a pro and do this for a living."

LOL


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 10:22 am:
There are many things that would be helpful if they had it on the profile. This place use to let you see more for basic members and that was a help, but no, like everything else on here it is all about the money they can make. Thanks for sharing pro!

author51 58F
123836 posts
7/27/2021 7:17 am

I LOVE meeting new people even if it does not include sex Hun.....xoxo

You can never have enough JOY in your life.....xoxo

LONELY WOMEN MAKE GOOD LOVERS


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 10:24 am:
And look at how much fun you have had meeting others. I have throughly enjoyed my casual meeting with the few from here. Oh, and I know they enjoyed as well because I normally come with a nice keepsake gift for them to remember me by.

Brownie202 64F  
2556 posts
7/27/2021 7:34 am

No longer here to meet.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 10:27 am:
Sounds like you may have had an unfortunate encounter. If we were to ever meet, I would certainly try my best to put your faith back in men. You do have to be a little careful these days though.

agelesssexylegs 78F
1000 posts
7/27/2021 7:42 am

Well due to the current state of the world we live in,wanting anything but good health is my only concern for the time being,my libido can wait in the back ground until such time it gives up on me or the world becomes a safer place to meet again


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 10:31 am:
I hear where you are coming from. I just try to live my life to the fullest but do it cautiously. Plan to get back to world travel next year if places open back up. Stay safe!

justskin1 69M
12685 posts
7/27/2021 8:09 am

I am not here to meet people for sex. I am here to enjoy some of the blogs, discover new ones, show myself naked on cam and chat with some that come looking. Also to perve some of the women's pictures. Am not into men at all but have no problem with them jerking to me on cam or a nice chat when on on cam.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 10:33 am:
I tried the cam thing once but it seems only men were coming to view. I'm straight and it just made me feel a little uneasy so I stopped. Would love to cyber with a female though. I do think it could be mutually enjoyable.

seems6666 51F
4729 posts
7/27/2021 8:32 am

I've been here about 20 years... Yes. I know 😕 I did meet but now I'm looking for more of a relationship.. which most men on here aren't so I blog and read blogs and yes. Kill time


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 10:39 am:
I was here for several years starting in 09 and really enjoyed all the people I met on-line through the blogs. I left for about seven years and the landscape had changed drastically and most of my friends were gone. The blogs use to be better in my opinion. Now it seems like only a few really blog much about something real and not just copy and pasted pictures. Before we seemed to have a lot more in common with each other. I am sure you remember since you have been here for so long. You probably even remember the lady who kept reporting people to get them kicked off. It was nice to see that she was finally gone when I returned. Lost to many good friends and bloggers because of her non-sense about having to be on the top and threatened by anyone who got close. Thanks for commenting!

grizz54545454 73M
347 posts
7/27/2021 8:34 am

to met new people and sex


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 10:39 am:
Seems harder and harder to do every year. The fakes and jerks have ruined it for us good guys.

funsnellvillecpl 64M/52F  
3759 posts
7/27/2021 9:22 am

friends are good and if it leads to hot fucking, so be it


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 10:40 am:
Absolutely.

aniceride 51M  
117 posts
7/27/2021 10:50 am

i have met plenty of people on here(mostly couples)and for me it doesn't always have to lead to sex.i'm one who knows that not everyone fits so anybody i meet i always stress to please let me know if their not comfortable.the best sex is when everyone envoled is comfortable with each other.i've met plenty of nice people that sex didn't happen which is also cool with me.


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 1:43 pm:
Most times I think you can tell pretty quick if you are going to click or not. Once the initial contact and greeting is done I think both sides normally know whether to enjoy a good cold drink and conversation or maybe see where things might lead. But you should not come with the wrong expectations for a first meet or you might end up really disappointed. I have not met any couples yet.

BBWjawn 36F
50 posts
7/27/2021 11:12 am

on here to meet folks


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 1:44 pm:
I would think you should have a much better chance than most of us guys. If I were not straight I would have had plenty of opportunities as I am constantly getting those emails but am not interested in something I have myself. Glad to hear there are females looking to meet folks! Stay safe and enjoy your time here.

moonfish 54M
450 posts
7/27/2021 11:51 am

A bit of all of the above really, I meet up with people for sex, I meet up with people just for a laugh and I like reading the stories, the blogs, and I enjoy the pics and the videos.


Daytimer09B replies on 7/27/2021 1:46 pm:
There is something for everyone in the blogs, and most people in this section are nice and not fake profiles like the home page section.

BiSussi 61F
1169 posts
7/27/2021 2:07 pm

How about the option “To meet, fall in love and to become intimate”
Meeting just for sex doesn’t work for me, but it has happened that after meeting a couple of times, I become intimate with the bi-wife, but not with her hubby. Friendship only, without intimacy for an extended time, even if only for a few months, has so far not worked for me


I love pussies and adore nice dicks


seoulswing2 38M/28F
132 posts
7/27/2021 4:58 pm

we enjoy meeting new people


fkmeallnitelong9 50F  
2389 posts
7/27/2021 5:42 pm

looking for LT/ FWB situation myself


Weavin0311 52M  
16 posts
7/28/2021 8:54 am

This site use to be fun, could chat, meet, etc. then it has become no one will even talk to you here


1seeking1 56F
3716 posts
7/28/2021 12:12 pm

I would like to meet new people,have really slowed down on that so many liars, cheaters here. I used to blog more, no one even seems to read the profile. Now with pandemic extra cautious, good local lover hard to find. Now mostly here for entertainment.


redrockrascal 63M
23260 posts
7/28/2021 12:30 pm

Primarily here to meet, preferably with an ongoing sexual thing. I blog which gets me to come here daily.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


itsallfantasy 54F  
1046 posts
7/28/2021 2:58 pm

    Quoting Weavin0311:
    This site use to be fun, could chat, meet, etc. then it has become no one will even talk to you here
The answer to this is directly below the poster's post...

Quoting 1seeking1 : so many liars, cheaters here. I used to blog more, no one even seems to read the profile...

I am here to be on cam and cam ONLY yet daily I get numbnutz that didn't read the profile and ASSUME that everyone is here to fuck so that equates to we fuck anyone that asks.. WRONG!!! Maybe those jerks would fuck anyone that asks them, but would that include the gay section that contacts them even though they are straight? Seen too many "MEN ONLY!" posts in profiles and blogs so yes, even the men get hit by NON-READING of the profiles.

Would be way more fun if I didn't have assholes trying to get me to do what I specifically state I am NOT here to do and let them approach someone looking for what they are. Not everyone here is here to meet anyone and everyone that contacts them. In fact, I think that is a very low number that do that unless they are scammers.


nwga1958 63M
17 posts
7/28/2021 3:56 pm

I have met some great friends on here and not all of them turned sexual. One couple a have enjoyed there company for over 20 years! They meet others for sexy as do I but we never have played together.


Deepnwide76 45M  
55 posts
7/28/2021 6:07 pm

IV had quite a few encounters on thus site 3 where great still c them an 1ws just wierd


rdy2try4 56F  
3297 posts
7/28/2021 9:32 pm

I am here blogging and helping out newbies. I started in 2004 and I can say without any doubt that it was different then. Now, as has been said by more than a few, the guys come here expecting an online free whorehouse that women just put out to anyone that asks. They get abusive when they are told no thank you. Most of them don't read the profiles as they have a preconceived notion that 'sex site' means women f*ck anyone that asks them. Well I have said it before and I will say it again. Some people, especially back then, can and do get 100 messages a day. Now even if I put that down to 10 a day just for giggles, that equates to 70 men a week. That then goes to 280 men a month. Think about that, it is kind of gross to think that anyone, male or female, would have sex with 280 people a month. Get realistic, you are not the only one contacting us!! Men get far fewer messages than women do and I believe they think we get the same amount that they do and that is not true. There is some 500 men to 1 woman on here if you count in all the men over/under an age we want, married/unmarried, out of our distance limits etc.

I myself have been recently contacted by several, in the double digits, men that are over 500 miles away. Seriously fellas? I am not looking to get frequent flier miles nor do I want that many men let alone one coming here to use me then leave. Defer back to the math there. That is the best way to contract a venereal disease.

Blogging used to be more fun as well and someone did mention that. We actually had great topics not just people posting photos of their genitals and genitals of other people. I am sure there are those that like that and look for it so I am not putting it down.

There is something for most on here. I DO wish though that people saw the site as it was meant to be and that is an Adult Social Network. There is a magazine section, the advice lines, blogs, as well as contacting people to chat and meet. The site is what you make of it and if you make no effort you get nothing.


Daytimer09B replies on 10/13/2021 1:33 pm:
It is nice to hear from someone who has been around for a while. I started here in 2009 and things were definitely different and the site was more friendly to non gold ballers. I guess too many abusive male users and site greed for that green stuff has changed the site forever. I use to have so many great female friends on here because it seemed that everyone in the blogs were real. Now, it just seems a lot of those men have found that here, women will speak to them on occasion and this area is now overran with what I consider useless blogs. I do miss the "Good ole days" and that is why I am not as active on here as I use to be. Thanks for taking the time to leave a reply.

ItsThtPervertGuy 41M
485 posts
7/28/2021 9:42 pm

Well I know I damn Sure did not come here for chit chat or too use the site like it is face book two and talk/text for ever and exchange a 1001 pics or ask me to talk dirty to you. I AM HORNY! My Sex life is ZERO! I want to fucked ,Suck and be Licked on and made to cum in the process. Not Hopefully there is a woman on here who also is HORNY and wants to be Fucked Sucked and licked on and made to cum in the process. Some Long Hours of Hot,Sweaty Kinky Freaky, (A bit nasty) Toe curling,body shaking eye rolling ,Intense sex and foreplay with multiple Orgasms!

Now with that being said I have met plenty of people who are quite fun and interesting would hang out with without sex! This site is good for many different people from All around the World!

But I am Still HORNY!!


exsquid46 62M
547 posts
7/29/2021 1:00 am

I would like to meet a woman from here, however I know that it is unlikely to ever happen.

Women in my age group that I am interested in, always seem to be busy or have already met someone. Those that are married or otherwise in a relationship, I avoid.

It seems that the older I get, there are fewer women that truly want to meet someone close to their age. Most of them are looking for younger partners.


Daytimer09B replies on 10/13/2021 1:27 pm:
Like if it wasn't hard enough before throwing an older age into the mix. Good luck my fellow searcher.

tastemeY 55M  
126 posts
7/29/2021 5:22 am

I've mety many wonderful people here over the years. Male, female, and couples. Some just for good times / friends, and others for good clean safe sexual fun!


Dacaterangler26 52M  
16 posts
7/29/2021 9:11 am

Always up for fun in the 618 area women only


fflkn4hotbabe 71M  
16 posts
7/29/2021 9:49 am

I'm here to find either a female or couples who want to have fun. Always looking for great fucking.>>!


kellylizjones 63M/61F  
40 posts
7/30/2021 3:57 am

enjoy meeting ,with intentions of sexual fun,, BUT its always Kelly's decision,,if it leads to sexual FUN


WhyteCckLuvr69 50F
7 posts
7/31/2021 9:52 am

    Quoting Granny872:
    Too bad the site doesn't put this poll on the initial profile setup. It would certainly help categorize people's interest(s) and let people know whether or not they're barking up the wrong tree.

    Other voting options? "I'm a pro and do this for a living."

    LOL
I agree


WhyteCckLuvr69 50F
7 posts
7/31/2021 10:03 am

I've met some really cool men from this site. If there's chemistry and a great vibe, sex is sure to follow initial meeting and friendships have been made, as well. Some meeting have been non-sexual but fun lunch and dinner dates or just hanging out.

Meeting new friends is just as exciting as hooking up for one night stands! My ultimate goals is having mutually beneficiary clean safe fun with new (and old) friends!


CumsDeep 60M
89 posts
8/1/2021 2:24 pm

Ive been here over 20 years ,at the start it was for sex ....now I come here because nothing works on this site and nobody gives you the time of day and the fake /bot /scammers really like me .


corvette2269 60M/59F
1 post
8/1/2021 4:25 pm

To many Guys state Straight, but when you tell them your Bi then they say they are Bi,. If you are Bi just say it what is the big deal.


Nxtphaze227 61F  
372 posts
8/1/2021 4:30 pm

My sentiments exactly!


rdy2try4 56F  
3297 posts
8/1/2021 4:53 pm

    Quoting CumsDeep:
    Ive been here over 20 years ,at the start it was for sex ....now I come here because nothing works on this site and nobody gives you the time of day and the fake /bot /scammers really like me .
I am not trying to be mean, really I am not, but I have to say this. You are 60 years old, have nothing but 1 photo and it is of course another dick shot. Then this is your entire profile...

Introduction
Let me tell you about myself ....hmm....where do I begin .

My Ideal Person This is where you describe someone hot that you want to bone... then you see your fake matches ...and then you go do yard work.

Something about a guy referring to us women as 'someone hot you want to bone' is just not appealing. I imagine a 16 year old say thing not an adult male. I get it is to you a 'sex site', but that doesn't mean that women find that talk appealing. As for the intro.. it is not an intro. You say nothing. Quasimodo had a dick ya know. We can't tell if you are tall/short, fat/skinny, or if you are appealing to OUR eyes. I don't know anyone that considers themselves ugly, but even I am aware that I am ugly to some people and beautiful to others. Waiting for someone to ask you for a face pic...I defer to as many of the women have said no one is going to ask you for a face photo or a body photo including all of you not just a close up of your dick is not realistic. Men need a location and women need a reason and I don't see a reason to even ask. Many have said would you walk into a bar and whip your dick out first to a woman there? I get what you view this site as, but 500 men a day whip out their dicks at us. It doesn't get us if you are ugly, rude, have bad hygiene, or are a complete a**hole that just wants to use us. Are there women that want to be used? Yep, but reading profiles will tell you which ones want that. If it is too good to be true i.e. she sucks/f*cks/doubles/triples/anywhere and any day with anyone... that is probably not a real person and if it is she may have a disease!

I think you may want to do more with your profile and photos. At least it will help. Guys that have dicks and are dicks looking for an instant hole - a dime a dozen on here. We have so many men after us we don't have to settle for any reason. Just a little idea for you to consider.


woody4551 34M
13 posts
8/1/2021 11:12 pm

i would love to meet people from here. but can't win them all


CumsDeep 60M
89 posts
8/2/2021 9:51 am

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    I am not trying to be mean, really I am not, but I have to say this. You are 60 years old, have nothing but 1 photo and it is of course another dick shot. Then this is your entire profile...

    Introduction
    Let me tell you about myself ....hmm....where do I begin .

    My Ideal Person This is where you describe someone hot that you want to bone... then you see your fake matches ...and then you go do yard work.

    Something about a guy referring to us women as 'someone hot you want to bone' is just not appealing. I imagine a 16 year old say thing not an adult male. I get it is to you a 'sex site', but that doesn't mean that women find that talk appealing. As for the intro.. it is not an intro. You say nothing. Quasimodo had a dick ya know. We can't tell if you are tall/short, fat/skinny, or if you are appealing to OUR eyes. I don't know anyone that considers themselves ugly, but even I am aware that I am ugly to some people and beautiful to others. Waiting for someone to ask you for a face pic...I defer to as many of the women have said no one is going to ask you for a face photo or a body photo including all of you not just a close up of your dick is not realistic. Men need a location and women need a reason and I don't see a reason to even ask. Many have said would you walk into a bar and whip your dick out first to a woman there? I get what you view this site as, but 500 men a day whip out their dicks at us. It doesn't get us if you are ugly, rude, have bad hygiene, or are a complete a**hole that just wants to use us. Are there women that want to be used? Yep, but reading profiles will tell you which ones want that. If it is too good to be true i.e. she sucks/f*cks/doubles/triples/anywhere and any day with anyone... that is probably not a real person and if it is she may have a disease!

    I think you may want to do more with your profile and photos. At least it will help. Guys that have dicks and are dicks looking for an instant hole - a dime a dozen on here. We have so many men after us we don't have to settle for any reason. Just a little idea for you to consider.
I changed my very good profile to what it now is because I don't expect anything from this site anymore...so it's sarcasm as to how this site is now compared to 20 years ago .Will I change it back similarily to what it was or what you think?...Naw i wont... back then I had real matches...now they are mostly fakes and scammers ...plus you can't contact anyone...just like I can't see your email or respond to it so I had to come back here to explain...so yeah i'm not a dick...just another nice guy that got fed up with how this place got worse over time...Enjoy your day.


rdy2try4 56F  
3297 posts
8/2/2021 11:00 am

    Quoting CumsDeep:
    I changed my very good profile to what it now is because I don't expect anything from this site anymore...so it's sarcasm as to how this site is now compared to 20 years ago .Will I change it back similarily to what it was or what you think?...Naw i wont... back then I had real matches...now they are mostly fakes and scammers ...plus you can't contact anyone...just like I can't see your email or respond to it so I had to come back here to explain...so yeah i'm not a dick...just another nice guy that got fed up with how this place got worse over time...Enjoy your day.
I totally understand the sarcasm, but any woman that may be interested in you won't get it. They may not have been here long enough to get the joke. So you are in fact just making it more difficult for yourself. You already have so much stacked against you I just think having something else would help a bit. I also do agree that there are tons of scammers on here and they are here because CL shut down as well as they know there are tons of guys that 'want to believe' a hottie is after them and will put out $$ to them. There are women that honestly fall for the 'oh he loves me' scammers too, so it isn't just men that get taken in by these people.

I am just trying to help. You may not 'be' a dick, but women only see the dick and nothing else in the profile to say you are not. I am trying to fix it so you can message me back though. Top fanning someone lets messages go through.


fancy_legs 49F  
90 posts
8/3/2021 10:44 am

I enjoy meeting people and it does NOT have to lead to sex.
I'm a social butterfly type.
I am looking for friends and just see where it naturally falls.
All good relationships start with a friendship.
Friends come in all shapes, sizes, and races.
Life is too short to pass up meeting someone.
You never know where it may lead.


Graybrow 61M
8 posts
8/3/2021 8:53 pm

Joined with the intent of have NSA and only have had a little fun chatting. My gold status just expired and I probably won't extend. From a lot of posts it sounds like FriendFinder-x used to be better but It is so hard to wade through the fakes and scammers.


rdy2try4 56F  
3297 posts
8/4/2021 8:23 am

    Quoting Graybrow:
    Joined with the intent of have NSA and only have had a little fun chatting. My gold status just expired and I probably won't extend. From a lot of posts it sounds like FriendFinder-x used to be better but It is so hard to wade through the fakes and scammers.
From what I see your biggest problem is you are MARRIED!! Most women don't want to be with someone when he is available and alone all the rest of the time. They don't want a woman coming up to them in a restaurant, if you can even go to one, and have her throw a drink in her face and call her a whore for being with her husband. There are women that are okay with it, but you have to take the initiative and work to find those women. The site ads of 'get laid in 24 hours' is really unrealistic if you think about it. There is nowhere you just join and do nothing else yet a bevy of beauties will vie for your attention. lol


itsnoone2 62M
38 posts
8/4/2021 1:44 pm

I've come here for the sex only but some of those encounters have turned into friendships.


naughtyguy1950 71M
65 posts
8/5/2021 10:12 am

Voted for #1


Dacaterangler26 52M  
16 posts
8/7/2021 8:10 am

NEED A RIDER IN FAIRVIEW ILLINOIS WOMEN ONLY


69PussyLuver 59M  
51 posts
8/7/2021 11:03 am

My only purpose, is to meet women, and couples for sex.
When I joined FriendFinder-x back in 2005, meeting women, and couples for sex was not too difficult. Plus, I was on Sex Search, and Bang Match. I was meeting women (and some couples), from all three sites. In recent years, I have met a few women, but mostly couples from FriendFinder-x.


bard3232 55M
28 posts
8/7/2021 9:25 pm

All but the last


Green31415 62M  
7 posts
8/8/2021 9:20 am

I'm here both to meet for sex and also to perv sexy pictures


CervixThumper4U 68M  
6 posts
8/8/2021 8:07 pm

Been on the site since '98, have met plenty by way of one-on-one and meet and greets. It doesn't always lead to sex, and it shouldn't. Those who think it should, are in for many disappointing times...


Dacaterangler26 52M  
16 posts
8/9/2021 8:21 am

looking to meet a couple of freakie women in the fairview illinois area for daytime fuck sessions


eatsomepussylol 51M
15 posts
8/9/2021 10:37 pm

I have to go back where someone said humans are the most dangerous on this earth, do you realize we are not dangerous at all? The folks that are dangerous is the ones who believe in what is actually going on, cause they are nothing but rats cause they will follow anything or anyone to believe in something else to get what someone said about how things are! Someone can convince someone to say that’s how that person is with out even knowing the person so the person who said that they think of that person is a leader as they also follow that person to a trap cause they think it’s a true thought mean while it’s to capture them of the not thinking of anything. So when you think humans are dangerous maybe think of yourself cause someone had to write this shit and I’m sure it wasn’t an animal.


eatsomepussylol 51M
15 posts
8/9/2021 10:44 pm

It might just be the devil it’s self cause we all know whom ever lies has to be, and even makes you fill out a form with a million questions to see if you yourself will answer truthfully . And then ask how many did that with out knowing? It’s not humans it the machine that make you do what ever it wants ! And it’s up to all to pull the plug instead of leaving it up to one human.


Rockyisback69 36M
1 post
8/30/2021 2:44 am

Absolutely correct. Agree


Mrfuntime3581 29M
12 posts
9/10/2021 4:24 pm

That one was a tough one. I was tore between the first two options.


aaronsforeplay62 59M  
78 posts
10/19/2021 6:56 am

it would be nice to know their intent.


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