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Interracial AFFing - Truth or Fantasy?
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Posted:Jan 26, 2008 7:19 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2008 9:38 pm
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This has been on my mind for awhile..so I am going to attempt to get it out. FriendFinder-x is an international site and as a world traveler, recently back from South Africa, my attention to race and various cultures is pretty astute.
I prefer Black men, but I have never experienced intimacy with a White guy because of racial, ancestral, post-slavery baggage that I know I carry. However, I joined FriendFinder-x to live a more full life and break out of the box of all previously held inhibitions. So why not also apply that to race and sex. So thank you to all the White guys who have e-mailed me and asked me to "try Vanilla."
Now to my question: For those non-Black men and women who crave chocolate (Black men and women) is that only for sexual fantasies or is it because you openly date and are married to Black people?
I am curious because at times it feels like I am being approached to fulfill a "Jungle Fever" fantasy or Black men are approached to fulfill some Mandingo role - not because there is a human attraction. Fantasy is great and I am all for it, but this feels like something different.
To all the global AFFers this may seem like an elementary question, but in America racism and stereotypes are still ripe, especially around sexuality. We just don't talk about it enough, to be polite or in denial. So I am attempting to open up the space for conversation. Please join me!!!What do you think?
*I know race is not an easy subject for everyone, including myself, but let's talk about it. People in touch with their sexual/sensual sides should be able to talk about anything.
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Rejection on FriendFinder-x-Saying I'm Just Not Into U
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Posted:Jan 26, 2008 6:51 am
Last Updated:Jan 27, 2008 3:43 pm
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Look we're all human and even in this FriendFinder-x bubble acceptance and rejection is part of life. I like to trest everyone with the respect that I expect.
I had a recent expereince with someone who constantly e-mailed me, but had no photo. I requested the photo and then the person allegedly had trouble with their computer. Eventually the guy sent his face and dick photos and I was not impressed - actually I was completely turned off. Why put your body type on profile as "athletic", when you are extremely overweight? Be honest.
I tried to be nice and let him down easy and said 'You're just too much man for me, and I don't think this will work.' (This was a lame response, but he called me and pressed, so it was the best I could come up with on the spot). He pressed and pressed, and I had to say I am not attracted to you!!! The End..He was extremely angry and accused me of wasting his time and playing games. I let him vent and just ended the conversation.
Guys, suck it up! Fill out your profile honestly, put up a picture or email your picture, so if someone finds you attractive you may get lucky. When you hide behind a blank screen don't be surprised if when the curtain comes down-we see it was up for a reason!! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so there is someone for everyone..if not 2,3 or 4. As always, I'd love to hear how others have handled rejecting a persistent suitor. EQ4U
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Best Male to Female Ratio on FriendFinder-x
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Posted:Jan 23, 2008 5:44 pm
Last Updated:Jan 27, 2008 3:54 pm
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This was an earlier post from 13 January that I decided to revise and re-write:
OK..I understand that women are outnumbered 10 to 1 by all the men on this site.
However, please know that just because I am a woman who likes and wants sex and is not afraid to be open about it. It doesn't mean that I want to screw everyone and anyone. I cannot respond to everyone with a dick and a hard-on.
Guys, when will you learn? Get to know some of us and find out how to stimulate and excite our minds with suggestion not only SEX over the head. Then you'll be more likely to get SOME LOL. We're already on the site, get to know something about me..so you'll learn how to make me moan. If I am pleased then you'll definitely be pleased simultaneously or in return and if you're lucky you might actually hear me purr. Meowwwwww!
Ladies or men, feel free to comment! All feedback is welcomed..
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Sexual People Have More Fun
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Posted:Jan 23, 2008 5:24 pm
Last Updated:Jan 27, 2008 3:56 pm
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I have met such great, intelligent people on this site. Is it because it allows us to get our love of sex, sensuality, fetishes and fantasies out openly on the table? Obviously 1,000s of AFFers have figured this out! LOL Forgive me, I have just gotten on board.
I have had conversations with people from different parts of the world and we've talked about NOT wanting to have boring suppressed-sex lives. Life is too short! Have you made friends as well as fuck-buddies? Tell me about it.
Here's a toast to AFFers!! Add a comment, I'd love to hear your thoughts.
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What 2 do when NSA turns into feelings?
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Posted:Jan 17, 2008 11:14 am
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2008 11:38 pm
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I'm sure many of you on FriendFinder-x who are active and adventerous have had some great sex, good sex and some "fill in the time sex".
What happens when you click with someone in and out of the bedroom? Kind of a meeting of the minds along with dick and pussy..and other areas.LOL
When things start as NSA (no strings attached), the sex, conversation and vibe are above average...so what do you do when feelings creep in?
Is it just mind-blowing sex? Or should you mention that feelings are coming into play? If you have felt this way? OR you have been on the receiving end of NSA when someone started to really feel you? What did you do? I know many would expect this is a woman thing..but I think it may just be a "human" thing.
I would love to know how AFFers have handled this in the past and present? Please write some comments and let me know your thoughts
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2 Sides of the Coin Professional & Freaky
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Posted:Jan 14, 2008 10:15 am
Last Updated:May 8, 2024 1:1 am
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I have had the pleasure of getting lots of emails and winks from loads of interesting men and occassional couples. I have learned something important. Everyone on this site is sexual but we are not all here for the same thing.
Just because I want great sex with a man who is oral and truly likes to please and be pleased. I want a gentleman in and outside of the bedroom, kitchen, beach..wherever. it would even be nice if it became soemthing serious.
My most wonderful correspondences have been with thinking, feeling caring men. We could talk about work, life, stress, and sex without fear. We can speak openly about turn ons and offs without any shame. Most of all we could have an intelligent conversation. However, the sexiest men I have spoken to are the professional men who are also freaks. They are gentlemen, wine and dine and know how to lay it down like a pro. Any comments on this. Ladies do you want a gentleman or a man to fuck you immediately without knowing a think about you? Guys, do you find women on this site because you don't want to talk- just fuck?
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