Porn and masturbation  

Ellasboudoir 56F
1074 posts
5/18/2021 7:19 pm
Porn and masturbation


Good Evening my fellow playmates,

I was just wondering how people feel about their partner watching porn and masturbating??

So let's say you have a great sex life and it happens often but your partner still wants watch porn and masturbate at least a few times a wee Is that okay with you? Or does it make you feel like you are not enough??

Sometimes I just want do my own thing. I want be quiet and take care of my own pussy and not have worry about pleasing anyone else. Is that selfish?? It's not that I don't enjoy my guy it's just sometimes I want take care of business and be done with it.

Girls whatcha think?? Guys would that be okay with you or would it upset you??

Ella

Rayateu 65M
261 posts
5/18/2021 8:11 pm

It would not be a problem at all. Let me watch then I'll go make dinner.


boobwhisperer69 58M  
7850 posts
5/18/2021 8:26 pm

I would love it!! She would get different ideas and things she would like to do!! Hell I'd watch her do it! I realize and understand that I might not be ringing her bell each time!! Maybe time for a ringer!!! I believe if you don't stay sexual, you start losing a little edge! And that would keep you up to date and active!


Nudger62 66M/40F  
11 posts
5/18/2021 10:24 pm

If my wife wants to watch porn and masturbate alone then thats perfectly fine with me, I also enjoy some alone time with a hot movie. Sometimes we video ourselves and send them to each other. Mutual masturbation is something else we do, You can learn a lot about some one when you watch them get themselves off !!


RiderMontana 53M
31 posts
5/18/2021 10:39 pm

Not a problem at all. Both me and my lady strongly encourage each other to masturbate any time we feel like it. It makes for a Very Hot and Awesome surprise to find!


MyBaffies 52M
4875 posts
5/19/2021 12:46 am

I've not been in a relationship long enough for me to be in that situation. I'd like to think I'd be OK with it - perhaps she had a higher sex-drive than I had. As per your scenario, I'd also be hoping that she was happy with our sexy times together. If not then that's something we'd need to talk about.

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jajo696 66F
4034 posts
5/19/2021 1:22 am

its perfectly fine......as long as its agreed that it aint real life. Carry on and enjoy ~~


BDaddys 55M
345 posts
5/19/2021 2:19 am

Sometimes you want a candlelit dinner with your lover, sometimes you want a quick sandwich...

Provided it's not a symptom of a problem then live and let live x


WyoCowboy7751 68M
2346 posts
5/19/2021 5:16 am

Sometimes when the MOOD Hits . it Hit's Just may be that IT is Strong enough that One does not feel like waiting till partner is available Neither one of us ever got into Porn


paulslookn 63M
562 posts
5/19/2021 5:49 am

I would LOVE IT if my wife would watch porn and masturbate. My former wife (deceased) liked to have porn on while we were fucking and it was great!


Starsearch1965 56M
2066 posts
5/19/2021 5:54 am

I’d say go for it


CleavageFan4U 64M  
68353 posts
5/19/2021 6:10 am

As long as she's OK with me watching, and maybe joining once in a while, it's ALL good.

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cyclingfool 59M  
6634 posts
5/19/2021 6:20 am

No problem at all as long as it doesn't replace a healthy relationship.
I use to be able to masturbate daily and still have a very active sex life with my partner. Sadly age has caught up to me and now I need to plan ahead a bit. I think that is healthy too. I think it shows I care about our time together and value her needs also. But the solo time is always a welcome stress relief..


hogknot 55M  
1016 posts
5/19/2021 9:42 am

My friend like to pleasure herself. I see no problem with it. I enjoy her telling me what she watched and how she played with herself. It adds to our sexual adventure.


me_lonely37 52M
118 posts
5/19/2021 10:31 am

I dont see a problem, even better if I can watch


Suprcuk49 60M
236 posts
5/19/2021 11:16 am

I just wanna watch !! No cigar yet !


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:19 pm

    Quoting Rayateu:
    It would not be a problem at all. Let me watch then I'll go make dinner.
That's my guy!!!


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:20 pm

    Quoting boobwhisperer69:
    I would love it!! She would get different ideas and things she would like to do!! Hell I'd watch her do it! I realize and understand that I might not be ringing her bell each time!! Maybe time for a ringer!!! I believe if you don't stay sexual, you start losing a little edge! And that would keep you up to date and active!
Umm I get my bell rung every time, its just sometimes I want to ring it myself.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:21 pm

    Quoting Nudger62:
    If my wife wants to watch porn and masturbate alone then thats perfectly fine with me, I also enjoy some alone time with a hot movie. Sometimes we video ourselves and send them to each other. Mutual masturbation is something else we do, You can learn a lot about some one when you watch them get themselves off !!
Very true.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:22 pm

    Quoting RiderMontana:
    Not a problem at all. Both me and my lady strongly encourage each other to masturbate any time we feel like it. It makes for a Very Hot and Awesome surprise to find!
Yes Sir it does.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:25 pm

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    I've not been in a relationship long enough for me to be in that situation. I'd like to think I'd be OK with it - perhaps she had a higher sex-drive than I had. As per your scenario, I'd also be hoping that she was happy with our sexy times together. If not then that's something we'd need to talk about.
Yes I am very happy but I also like my alone time.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:26 pm

    Quoting  :


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:26 pm

    Quoting BDaddys:
    Sometimes you want a candlelit dinner with your lover, sometimes you want a quick sandwich...

    Provided it's not a symptom of a problem then live and let live x
Truth!!!


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:27 pm

    Quoting  :

OOhhhh okay. I hear ya and love it.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:28 pm

    Quoting  :

That's the damn truth. Not sure why they try to make some things seem fun when they clearly are not.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:29 pm

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    Sometimes when the MOOD Hits . it Hit's Just may be that IT is Strong enough that One does not feel like waiting till partner is available Neither one of us ever got into Porn
Yes, that's true. Sometimes you just have to take care of business.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:30 pm

    Quoting paulslookn:
    I would LOVE IT if my wife would watch porn and masturbate. My former wife (deceased) liked to have porn on while we were fucking and it was great!
Yes, I like to watch porn while we fuck also. Not all the time but sometimes.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:30 pm


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:31 pm

Well of course.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:32 pm

    Quoting cyclingfool:
    No problem at all as long as it doesn't replace a healthy relationship.
    I use to be able to masturbate daily and still have a very active sex life with my partner. Sadly age has caught up to me and now I need to plan ahead a bit. I think that is healthy too. I think it shows I care about our time together and value her needs also. But the solo time is always a welcome stress relief..
Very true. And yes age will catch up with ya.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:34 pm

    Quoting hogknot:
    My friend like to pleasure herself. I see no problem with it. I enjoy her telling me what she watched and how she played with herself. It adds to our sexual adventure.
Sounds very sexy...


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:34 pm

    Quoting me_lonely37:
    I dont see a problem, even better if I can watch
Yes Sir...


freespirit11501 51M
1499 posts
5/21/2021 1:54 pm

I would also encourage it. I think masturbation is a healthy expression of one's sexuality. I also believe that a woman that masturbates will know her body best and will not be afraid to show me what she likes so that I can pleasure her the way she enjoys.

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AdanVazquez33 38M
23 posts
5/22/2021 4:26 pm

I got addicted to porn, then I choose to let that addiction into some creative ideas. I took photography lessons and then connect with some girls, guys and couples. One of my favorite pictures was taken with a person here in FriendFinder-x that crossdress. I was taken mi addiction into a hobby and some times a gig.

I think that you have to respect your partner's desires and support if there is something he or she needs. If that goes beyond a pre determined agreement then its done. I didn't want to have sex with these people. I had enough just the thought of being in front of muy own porn.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/22/2021 8:09 pm

    Quoting freespirit11501:
    I would also encourage it. I think masturbation is a healthy expression of one's sexuality. I also believe that a woman that masturbates will know her body best and will not be afraid to show me what she likes so that I can pleasure her the way she enjoys.
So true...


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/22/2021 8:10 pm

    Quoting AdanVazquez33:
    I got addicted to porn, then I choose to let that addiction into some creative ideas. I took photography lessons and then connect with some girls, guys and couples. One of my favorite pictures was taken with a person here in FriendFinder-x that crossdress. I was taken mi addiction into a hobby and some times a gig.

    I think that you have to respect your partner's desires and support if there is something he or she needs. If that goes beyond a pre determined agreement then its done. I didn't want to have sex with these people. I had enough just the thought of being in front of muy own porn.
Smart man. Yes its easy to get addicted to porn


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