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Sexless Marriage
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Sexless Marriage Good Evening my fellow playmates, I always wonder how many people on here are in a sexless marriage. Perhaps you are happily married otherwise but you just don't have sex with your partner for whatever reason. Sickness, age, lack of libido, incompatible, loss of desire for the other person... I too was once in a sexless marriage it was so lonely and frustrating. I eventually left but it was hard. Have you ever been in a sexless relationship?? If so how did you cope? Ella |
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I was in a sexless marriage and I left it only to find out she was having sex with her boss the last two years we were married. If you going to have your fun at least let me have mine.
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been in a sexless marriage for years now. I master bate a lot. i've met a few ladies from this sight I have a friend I met in a gentlemen bar we have hooked up she wonder to me and I to her. I still love her if she ever want it im here but she dont want to.
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I wasn't in a sexless marriage but was in a relationship with out sex and after awhile, I left. For me it's more of the touching, kissing and so forth that went with the sex that was missing. The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness. 
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I have not been in a sexless marriage. However, I was in a relationship where we got along so very well. We could talk for hours, we enjoyed being in each others company. The thing that was missing was a lack of physical attraction on my part for her. No matter how much I enjoyed being with her I knew we would only be friends. One of the hardest things I've done was when I ended things. What made it hard is know how much I hurt her but it was for the best. We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious
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6/14/2021 8:13 pm |
My wife was diagnosed with breast cancer. Beat the cancer but she never wanted sex again. I still loved her as much as when I married her. 10 years later she died of cancer. Now I'm 71 and most women don't want an older man or those that do are gold diggers usually.
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6/14/2021 8:41 pm |
It is rough when your partner does initiate or try anything new.
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I have been in a sexless marriage for over 20 yrs. I have had a few affairs and been in a relationship with a much younger woman for 20 yrs. At my age sex is not like it once was, but what I can give she loves and keeps it only for me.
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You don't have to be alone to be lonely. It was like that with my wife. the last 5 yrs we were together, mostly health, but the distance started before that. She passed away 4yrs ago. The week before she died, she asked why I didn't touch her anymore, sadly I had to remind her she told me she didn't want me to. I've been in a relationship with me myself and I for quit sometime now.
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Sexless due to health reasons. So won’t leave as it’s not by choice. So dove into gym. Met a few here in similar straits and we help each other. MDonson Kiik Myonguy
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6/15/2021 12:59 am |
I am in one right now and on the verge of leaving. Tired of not being noticed. yes is hard but no more I want someone that desires me!!!!
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Fortunately I've never been in a sexless relationship; it's not a place I want to go! 
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6/15/2021 5:05 am |
This happens to nearly all of us on here. Usually why we come here. My wife and i wirk opposite shifts so any sex is few and far. I need more as i get older...maybe this site makes me want more.
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I was in what became a sexless, or nearly sexless ltr. We broke up a few years ago. If and when we had sex it was usually really good, but months on end with none. But when we did there was a hint of kink to it sometimes. So that was fun. My current relationship we have sex fairly regularly, but it is sorta boring and predictable. So I still feel as is I'm missing something. My ex would weaponize our past sex acts, If she was in a bitter mood she'd say remember when I did this to you and where..... My response would be I remember when WE DID THAT and it was your idea, yes. Not that she was ever ordered to do anything. So I'm gun shy now to ask to much for kink (which is very mild) in fear of having our fun together weaponized against me down the road.
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actualy i am in
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In one right now that just got worse! Sex with my wifey has been mostly off again for several years! Just because she doesnt care for it...much. ANd always the same ol boring thing when we did it Suffer from Chronic Kidney Disease (did not know what that was until Jan of this year). CKD has led to ED. Started with Viagra but found it caused blinding headaches. Tried Cialis then Levitra only to find out I am sensitive to it and causes sever joint pain! So no ED help for me! Night before last she told me she was happy we no longer had to worry about sex and she was relieved I would not go off and find someone else to have sex with because I cant get an erection! Seriously who would have any interest in an ol broken down man sigh life is just awful right now!
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After 2 children, My first wife was a "nun".....Nun in the morning and nun at night. When it got to about once every six weeks, I had had enough. We had become roommates instead of lovers. I did not want to live like that. Fairly amicable divorce followed. Second wife screwed my brains out until 4 months after we got married. She then turned it COMPLETELY OFF for a year. I left. 3rd wife was pretty sexual and playful.......she died of lung cancer. Current wife is a once every 3 days type and pretty vanilla but it is OK.
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I was in a sexless marriage. He was fine with it being a companionate deal; I wasn't. So I got a divorce. I don't intend to ever get married again. It's not my thing at all. But I would like to have a significant other again, just as long as we live separately.
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I was in a sexless marriage and I left it only to find out she was having sex with her boss the last two years we were married. If you going to have your fun at least let me have mine.
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Yes, it takes time and patience. You will know when the time is right. Sad that people have to waste precious time waiting on an oppurtunity. It is not fair.
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been in a sexless marriage for years now. I master bate a lot. i've met a few ladies from this sight I have a friend I met in a gentlemen bar we have hooked up she wonder to me and I to her. I still love her if she ever want it im here but she dont want to.
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I wasn't in a sexless marriage but was in a relationship with out sex and after awhile, I left. For me it's more of the touching, kissing and so forth that went with the sex that was missing.
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I have not been in a sexless marriage. However, I was in a relationship where we got along so very well. We could talk for hours, we enjoyed being in each others company. The thing that was missing was a lack of physical attraction on my part for her. No matter how much I enjoyed being with her I knew we would only be friends. One of the hardest things I've done was when I ended things. What made it hard is know how much I hurt her but it was for the best.
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My wife was diagnosed with breast cancer. Beat the cancer but she never wanted sex again. I still loved her as much as when I married her. 10 years later she died of cancer. Now I'm 71 and most women don't want an older man or those that do are gold diggers usually.
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Sorry to hear that but glad you escaped.
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