Expectations and pressure to be perfect  

EzThereCoffee1st 55M
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10/19/2021 5:59 am
Expectations and pressure to be perfect

I have really seen the light in the past year or so, sitting around waiting for the COVID to pass over. I think we all to live our lives in the right now...and those of us that have been divorced, might to find someone to help us be more complete. I think the best part of the pandemic is having to live with my sister and her husband and their three dogs, 3 ....and my<b> parents </font></b>all under one roof. COVID definitely not the time to move from Chicago to Ohio and try to find a house. I appreciate my metro parks and my jaunts around town more than ever.

SO, I vowed to find a better paying job, with better benefits(COVID scared me a ), and a better and healthier life plan. I think when I started out, I thought I would be still married. It happens when people work in healthcare and work opposite shifts. It sucks, but then you move on. My former employer is still trying to claim my work product now, so I vowed to change my online presence. If I am sketchy, it is because it is better to meet in person and discuss the good things. I also invested in a quality VPN...seems it isn't that hard to track a person these days. I also use a quality program called Telegraph when it is necessary to chat online. I hope I can meet a few people from this, but more than ever, network with other people that are going through some similar things.

Met in a nutshell: College educated tall dad-bod white guy that seems to always be the good guy. I am usually the friend to all the eligible dateable ladies, but it usually stays at the platonic level. I have a , but she is in another state with her mother. Her mother and I are divorced...and amicably so for the most part.

I'm into classic rock, sometimes jazz, and an occasional social drink . I don't smoke or do drugs. I am trying to get my healthy checkup for my anuual, so I need some regular forms of exercise. Always open to suggestions. Probably activities that burn some calories, yet leave you feeling refreshed.

13128 posts
10/19/2021 7:33 am

Good morning and welcome to the blogs

Only_one_14 53F  
4663 posts
10/19/2021 9:14 am

Very thoughtful and good blog post. Chicago is getting chilly. I got my sweaters and fuzzy pj’s out last night. Leaves are falling off and my flowers are dying but I enjoyed them while it lasted. The world is changing but not sure for the better. I try to stay in my bubble and remember my beliefs and values in life.

I do crafts. That wood slice can be valuable!

Happy Blogging 💜

A Man who knows how to use his tongue is extremely useful!

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