My profile for those that can't view it
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Posted:Dec 28, 2021 2:39 pm
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2021 2:14 pm
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They say the eyes are the windows to our soul. I don't view dick pictures, they don't capture my attention. What does, is a face pictures where I can see your eyes.
What am I looking for? Seems people can't read so here it is in a nutshell: someone local, single, non-smoker and drug free, who can carry on a conversation, honest, and respectful. No couples or groups. An FWB with emphasis on the friend part.
I am a single BBW. I am looking for an ongoing FWB. For those that don't understand what that means, it means FRIENDS before the benefits. I need to be able to connect with someone I might want to share a bed with. I am also NOT looking to meet someone that is attached.
I am looking for is someone that can capture my attention on many levels! If you make me laugh then that's a bonus!
I am sarcastic, witty, funny and love to laugh. All of this is sometimes more than some can handle. Laughter makes the down times less dark and relieves tension. It is more than the act that I seek, it's the connection.
I am a non-smoker and have no interest in being around someone that does. I am not drug friendly. It is a preference, you have yours and I have mine.
If you have been able to read my full profile, please don't waste my time or yours by messaging me if you don't meet the needs described above.
If you were able to read to the end of my profile and you are still interested then send me a message
My Ideal Person Must have a sense of humor!
You must be a non-smoker
You must not use drugs
Must be interested and available to meet.
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Why is it so hard?
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Posted:Mar 17, 2019 5:28 pm
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2021 10:54 am
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To find the right combination of wants and desires? I really didn't think I was asking too much but I fear I am. Learning about someone's wants and desires seems like a no brainer to me. If you don't take that time the outcome could be catastrophic. We don't all like the same things. We can't and shouldn't assume we do. If you can't take time to know what makes me shiver, what makes me moan and what makes me scream, then how can you expect to actually make it happen?
Why do people lie about those wants and needs? Why do they lie just to get me into bed, only to find they are merely looking for a body to fuck? The mingling of two bodies is something to appreciate. The mere touch of naked skin should cause a chill and a warm hot rush to flow through our veins. Knowing where to touch me and I you, takes time and effort.
Sadly, so many are in such a rush to get to the final act. An act of intimacy that involves the coming together of 2 people shouldn't be treated like dogs rutting out in the yard. It comes back to time and effort.
The first time is always the most difficult and the most enlightening. The hesitancy and the excitement are tangible. The trouble breathing as you touch, skin against skin, breath mingling and the rush of excitement, it’s all part of the act. You have taken the time to know what spots make me shudder, and I you. We have talked about and learnt much leading up to this moment.
Honesty is such a sweet tasting prize to be had when it comes to that moment. I revealed those secret spots to you knowing they will be used against me. Without taking the time to learn about them, the act is far less satisfying for both of us.
Knowing my vulnerable spots, like my neck, will see you reaping the rewards. Those spots will make me wet and taking advantage of them will have you drenched quickly. If you have listened to me you will know just how to create a gushing tide.
Equally satisfying is my finding out your weak spots. The places to touch and lick and bite will lead you to the same feeling of heat surging through your veins. We may not be a perfect match but what we can be is a perfectly erotic and fulfilling match. Knowing that if I run my fingers down your chest to your cock you will harden instantly is a satisfying feeling. I listen well and knowing you have revealed those spots to me is my way to give you the pleasure you give me.
It’s the meeting of 2 minds and not just 2 bodies. So those that just want to fuck me without knowing me, it takes more time and effort to do so. After all, good things come to those that wait. 
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Imagine a woman
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Posted:Dec 31, 2018 4:11 pm
Last Updated:Jan 10, 2019 5:37 pm
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I was sent this earlier today and found it so profound that I thought I would share it.
Imagine a woman who believes it is right and good she is a woman. A
Woman who honours her experience and tells her stories. Who refuses
To carry the sins of others within her body and life.
Imagine a woman who trusts and respects herself. A woman who listens
To her needs and desires. Who meets them with tenderness and grace.
Imagine a woman who has acknowledged the past’s influence on the
Present. A woman who has walked through her past. Who has healed
Into her present.
Imagine a woman who authors her own life. A woman who exerts,
Initiates and moves on her own behalf. Who refuses to surrender except
To her truest self and wisest voice.
Imagine a woman who names her own gods. A woman who believes her
Body is enough, just as it is. Who celebrates her body’s rhythms and
Cycles as an exquisite resource.
Imagine a woman who honours the body of the goddess in her changing
Body. A woman who celebrates the accumulation of her years and her
Wisdom. Who refuses to use her precious life energy disguising the
Changes in her body and life.
Imagine a woman who values the women in her life.
A woman who sits in circles of women.
Who is reminded of the truth about herself when she forgets.
Imagine yourself as this woman.
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Is this really what we are left with?
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Posted:Sep 16, 2018 4:59 pm
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2018 4:11 pm
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Is this how our future is going to be? We are all looking for something, anything, to make things feel better, life, love, health, anything is better than endless days of the same thing. We are all searching for what will make us feel wanted, desired and breathless. The chance to feel our world tilt at the touch of another person hands, lips, and so much more.
Those of you who are looking for instant gratification and casual hook ups are missing that connection so many desire. Sex is an act that for some is enough. It isn't enough for me. Giving myself to someone involves way more than fucking. It involves a connection that brings the most satisfying experience one can ever imagine. The connection takes time, perhaps not months, but more than a few lines on the screen on this site. Being horny is a normal thing but hooking up with a stranger to satisfy it isn't in my world. I am not here to judge anyone either. If hook ups work for you then that's your story not mine.
What rocks my world is taking time to learn about each others desires and needs. It involves really understanding what turns the other person on. Whether it is the soft touch of a partners fingertips across your lovers skin, or that earth shattering French kiss that makes you melt, it is all invoking feelings and sensations. It is not just sex. It is not instant gratification. It's so much more and no, it isn't love I speak about. It is a connection that lets you feel desire and not feel like you are being used to get someone off.
I want all of that. The sensations, the desire and the heat that a real connection creates. One that leaves me shivering and wet. A connection that is built on trust and attraction is what works for me. I am not here to get someone else off. I am here to find someone to get off with. A mutually satisfying connection that has no lies, no false promises, just pure and simple desire to reach a level of satisfaction that makes you want that person more than once.
I get this blog is not what most want to read but really, I am only writing it to verbalize how I feel, what I feel and what I want. Most can't read profiles and those that can ignore what I say in it. My words are my truth, not intended to satisfy everyone on here. I don't need to satisfy everyone, I just want to satisfy one and for that one to satisfy me. Are you out there? Are you on here? Maybe not.
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Bad conversation starters as seen in the BBW Chatroom
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Posted:Feb 9, 2017 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2019 3:59 pm
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All of these were copied from the BBW chatroom where I, and several of my friends, are frequently found chatting. We have seen many of these posted repeatedly by different chatters. They all think they are original or like to think they are lol. Some are more blatantly sexual than others and some are just too damn funny to not add to the list! Others are pretty sad and make you want to reach out and slap them for being so lame! In the majority of cases, this is the first thing they put out there in the room. No lead up just bam! Typos are how they appeared on the screen, no fixing was done, why make it any prettier than it isn’t right? Lol
No names are listed since that wouldn’t be fair to those that use the same lines lol. It is mostly made up of male comments, not my fault, you men are pretty darn lame, more so than women lol!
My responses follow the comments! Enjoy!
1. Wanna see my ....(fill in the blank) How many times have we heard that one?
2. can i see your boobs? No, we don’t have any to show you because you are a dick asking
3. Great tits Thanks, you probably won’t ever get to touch them either
4. Amazing boobs. Yes, they are, you however will never get to touch them!
5. How big are your tits/boobs/jugs For me to know and for you to never find out!
6. Nice ...(fill in the blank). Thanks, don’t get used to seeing them because you will be on ignore!
7. Are there any of you beautiful ladies in here would like to have some kinky sex chat with me we could kik or Google Hangouts. Hmm, covering all the bases aren’t we?
8. anyone wanna kik? Sure bend over!
9. Any horny ladies on KIK, message me there. Let me think…. Kiking you would not help with my being horny. It might help you, but not me!
10. (fill in the blank) is my kik if anybody would like to have some very kinky sex chat? Last time I checked, it wasn’t possible to have kinky sex with kik. Unless you plan on putting your phone down your pants and up your ass.
11. Anyone wanna see a hard cock on cam? No, we actually want to see a limp flaccid one. Duh!
12. Anyone wanna help me cum? Why would we want to help you? You obviously know how to do that all by yourself!
13. hey ladies, IM me for a good time, well endowed male here for you to cum on cam. Well endowed is subject to interpretation and if you cum on your cam I do hope you have a condom or that cam won’t last!
14. Wanna fuck? Ok, meet me outside… ya, didn’t think you were going to be able to do that!
15. Who wants to have phone sex? Seriously? That’s all you could come up with?
16. Wanna go IM? No! I do wanna kick you though lol
17. Any kinky ladies want to IM? No, we are only horny not kinky. Buh Bye!
18. Who wants to cyber? Oh that sounds like fun…. NOT, you get off and I don’t, that is NOT fun to me!
19. any ladies want some phone fun im me. Phone fun? Hmm… is that a new way to say phone sex?
20. Nice shoes wanna fuck. Ok this is an old one someone suggested.
21. Baby, you turned my floppy into a hard drive... Another old one that I just added to make him happy lol.
22. Who wants to trade pics of my wife? Ok you are in a bbw room. WTF are you doing asking that? You must have taken a wrong turn in the lobby!
23. Damn I need to pound that ass" Oh goodie, here's a hammer, go pound your ass!
24. Are those real or what? No, I borrowed them from your mom!
25. i wanna tie you down and fuck your mouth, IM? Hmm… let me think…. NO
26. Anyone horny? Well now there’s a question we get a lot. No, we aren’t, we come here to knit!
27. are you into younger men? Define younger, are you in diapers?
28. Into younger? Cause I'd fuck the hell out of you. Why does age have anything to do with wanting to fuck the hell out of me?
29. Who likes young and hung" So, there aren’t any old hung guys? Age again, what does that have to do with being hung?
30. Any older women here into younger guys?" Ok, using the word “older” is not a good choice of words!
31. do you have a dildo so you can fuck me? i need pegged. Hmm… you should talk to the ass pounder in #18 lol
32. Any lady need a laugh? Look at my member. Hmm, there’s one you don’t expect. Is that an attempt to get a pity fuck??
33. Anyone into taboo sex? Taboo? I don’t wanna know what that means to this person!
34. do you want to watch me cum on a pic of you that I print out? Let me think… NO you will ruin a perfectly good picture of me!
35. anyone ever been asked if they're lactating? Hmm no but I am sure that will come up at some point!
36. if he could get me pregnant cause he liked preggos to fuck. Ok someone said this to another chatter and they related it back. Go find someone already pregnant!
37. pregnancy offers. As in can someone get me pregnant. Hmm, wouldn’t touch that one with a 10 foot pole! Run!
38. friend me so I can look at your pics. Sorry, pay for a membership cheapo!
39. I'd like to wear your panties" Hmm, that’s it? Nothing more? Ok, so NO
40. Any women in here? Looking at the list of names, it is fairly obvious which profiles are female. In this case there were at least 6 of us. LOOK at the list!
41. can anyone try my cam to see if it's working? Seriously, do we look that stupid?
42. Wanna make a movie? Sure, as long as you aren’t in it!
43. Any ladies want to play? IM me What will we play? Checkers? Chess? Cribbage?
44. Any female want a pic of my erect 2 incher? Yes, someone said this lol
45. Want to lay my head on ur boobs. What do they look like? Pillows?
46. any ladies viewing? Viewing what? Or how?
47. anyone wanna chat. They said this as the screen scrolled by with 30 people chatting. Aren’t we already chatting?
48. My laps waiting for you. That begs a question, for what? Want me to throw a bowling ball on it?
49. is it ok to like huge boobs. No, it isn’t!
50. Wow you have monster boobs. Seriously? Like that is going to get you anywhere fast?
51. Hi mama. Calling a woman mama on a sex site is something you shouldn’t do in the BBW room. They have rooms for that!
52. My wife is having a bad day... who wants to help cheer her up by getting one of her photos trending. Hmm… does she know you are going around and asking people this?
53. I'm a virgin is need a sexy older lady. Ok, being a virgin is not a turn on to most mature women. We did our training a long time ago!
54. any girls here to play??? Play what? The clarinet? Tiddly winks? The guitar?
55. I'm horny and hard and wet. You should go to a doctor to have that checked.
56. Any ladies interested in big cock. No, we only like tiny dicks.
57. well then why arent we all having a nice group cyber orgy? u can start if u wannna come over here. Cyber orgies are not an idea that appeals to a large majority of women.
58. I'm going to fist my girl today. Does she know you are going to violate her and demean her? Does she know you are going around announcing that? Also, why are you in a bbw room announcing that anyways?
59. huge 9'' thick cock here. Ok, so your cock is typing?? Must be skinny like a pencil then which really makes the length redundant.
60. hi! All i want for my birthday is an IM. Seriously? LOL
61. I am a Taiwanese people have to do with my naked video. We still don’t know what this means but they said it so many times he ended up on ignore lol
62. any lady horny for 3some chat on Im? We puzzled over this one. How does one have a 3some on IM? Hell how does one have a 3some online period!
63. any lady want some kinky 3 some chat ? IM me plz. Same response but with an extra question, kinky?
64. playtime anyone im me. I gave up the play time after I left kindergarten.
65. who wants to watch me jo and eat my cum. Ok… ewwww. Not a turn on!
66. Are any of you Ladies as horny as I am. Hard to say, how do you compare this?
67. Why doesn't anyone like me? I'm a nice guy" If you were so nice we would like you lol.
68. Xxx For Cam. Is this another of those triple X movies? Are you Vin D?
69. Have you ever had squirting orgasms. Hmm, as a first question that’s a bit more than you need to know lol. If I responded, it might involve drowning you!
70. Does anybody need anything? Open question there or what!
71. Do you like wearing nylons? No, do you?
72. Can I wear your lingerie? Umm, no, cause if it looks better on you than me, we will have a problem!
Please add yours in the comments and I might do another post! Hope you enjoyed my list and its comments!
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