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Pleasures and vicissitudes
 
Occasional thoughts that erupt as life ploughs its furrow
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so much fun
Posted:Jan 21, 2013 4:22 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 5:53 am
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so much fun, no time for posting. Recommendations - Lube and hands
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Winter - a real one!
Posted:Mar 18, 2012 4:40 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 5:53 am
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Spending some time in the land of winter - well, some way north of Red Dot, the nights are cold and crisp, the days are... cold and crisp and the land is... white.

I can just hear you - I don't like cold.

It isn't cold, really and truly. OK, so the thermometer may say minus 10C, but the reality is different. Dry cold is pleasant, as long as you are dressed. Nose seems to work much better too - all that humidity seems to cut the keenness of smell, or maybe it is just that in the mountains the air is so clean that the nose actually works.

I recommend it, time away from the crowds, the noise and the crap air of the metropolis.
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Too busy
Posted:Oct 2, 2011 4:19 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 5:53 am
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Too busy, running too many projects and no time to play. I need to cut some stuff out somehow, but it isn't easy. You end up with people depending on you, so if you cut something out, they crash. Well, one might adopt a sink or swim approach, but that wouldn't really be fair, nor particularly smart: some have families and after all, it is their that will pay our pensions!

So a degree of self interest, though I suspect I am just whingeing, because I what I really want is a 48 h day, while the rest of the planet has a 24 h h day. I get to do my work and play every day.

Need a time machine perhaps. Anyone know a good make?
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Typos...
Posted:Aug 10, 2011 11:34 am
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2011 1:58 pm
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I was looking over my blog and I am not sure where the gremlins have come from, or maybe it is an unsteady hand , a badly placed laptop, but there are too many typos in my blogs. For me at any rate, I am a little anally retentive with respect to my own use of language. Everyone else is free to do as they wish with language, but typos are one thing I shouldn't do.
Perhaps I should employ a secretary to review what I jot down hurriedly, though where do I find someone who can figure out why we can, and indeed must, "Polish the Polish furniture"?
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Lovely long drink
Posted:Jul 25, 2011 4:23 am
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2011 11:25 am
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We are all different, not everyone is equally juicy and able to keep providing drink on demand. I recently had a wonderful experience on this front.

I had the pleasure of the company of a lovely and gorgeous woman. We talked, the chemistry was good and then I discovered to my delight that she was really exceptionally generous. She provided me with a lovely long drink, she never dried up and her well of juice just seemed inexhaustible. So nice that we went for a second round a few days later .
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A good filter
Posted:Jun 21, 2011 6:55 am
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2011 12:18 am
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How to separate the wheat from the chaff. A lot of blogs and comments on this, with all sorts of crap experiences coming to light.

Some chaff is obvious, like the "Phisher girl", but for the rest of the denizens, what might actually work.

Profiles are always somewhat misleading, even those of the most honest citizens. Whey? Simply because it some we write ourselves and self-perception is never entirely correct. We can be over positive (how many men on FriendFinder-x have an average sized cock, how many women have modestly damp pussy . We can often (perhaps surprisingly) be too reticent about our qualities too. So the balance of information in profiles doesn't work that well. A filter, but rather coarse.

There follows an exchange of e-mails. Well these are crafted, so do not reflect the reaction of a person. So again short of the mark.

My experience is that the IMC works better than profiles and e-mails and IMC with e-mail provides a great filter.

This may simply reflect what I am looking for. IMC at least tells me whether a conversation is sustainable. I do like to talk! It also gives an inkling as to whether our sense of humour matches in some way. This is also important - for me sex is quite a funny activity, a combination of the sublime, the ridiculous and the inherently messy. With a few e-mails thrown in for more sustained communication, this has been a great filter. So I like the IMC. I can see that it has its downside: put downs, rudeness and so on can be aggravating. Don't let them be, instead be positive, you have just learned something important about the person at the other end - don't bother with them and saved yourself the displeasure and hassle of a face to face meeting that you really want to escape from.
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Phisher girl and commerce II
Posted:Jun 12, 2011 6:23 am
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2011 5:55 am
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Ah, well, how can I resist the opportunity to meet a 28 year old blue eyed blond from the US, who is stuck in London. So a quick WU transfer of funds to Bradford in Yorkshire does the trick and we can meet in Singapore.

Strange thing, but geography tells me Bradford is not London . Not to worry, only a small detail of geography....

The latest e-mail in question:

Hello Baby,
Thanks for willing to help me out, I figured out a very easy and convenient way for you to be able to help me out,It is sending the funds using Western Union.You just go to a Western Union location close to you and have the funds wired to my information below.
It will be good you have the funds sent via Western Union to me as its easy and there are many locations here which i can go to and pick up the funds in cash.

Below is my information that you need to have the funds sent via Western Union.
Just find a Western Union location close to you and go there and have the funds sent to my information that you have below

Name: Telma Steele
Address: 676 Bolton Road
City: Bradford
Zip Code:BD3 0ND
Country: England

Once you have wired the funds using Western Union, You can either scan and email to me a copy of the Western Union receipt given to you or better still just give me the 10 Digits Money Transfer Control Number and Your Name As It Appears on the Western Union Receipt

Honey i will really appreciate it a lot you helping me out with this and i promise not to let you down as i cant wait to meet you.
I like you babes and i can see a future for us both.

I will be waiting to read from you today as soon as you have made the Western Union Transfer.

Regards
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Phisher girl and commerce
Posted:Jun 11, 2011 3:54 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2011 12:35 pm
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Wonderful, I am in contact with a great girl, blue eyes, blond, US citizen, living in Singapore for the last six months. A very juicy individual.

The first long e-mail I must say had a few inconsistencies, for example, can one be God-fearing, want an LTR and AND have any interest in me, a married man . I let them pass to explore further - otherwise how could there be an adventure?

So I replied with nice long e-mails. There followed an exchange of around a dozen e-mails, all of considerable length, hers containing these small inconsistencies, but nonetheless, getting pleasantly warm.

Then, at last what I was waiting for all along.

NO, not an offer to fuck, that was never on the cards or her intent, but the first pass at phishing. Obvious from the start, but there had to be a little dance before she blew her cover... ...Problems with the UK taxman and cannot get back to Singapore, cash needed ASAP.

I do like a good adventure, so I am pursuing this one. Unfortunately I am about to travel from Mumbai to the desert and will only have access to very short e-mails - can she do a haiku phishing
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Fear of flying
Posted:May 28, 2011 12:40 pm
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2011 7:11 am
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A friend has a deep seated fear of flying, to the extent that he has "pulled" at the gate and only once managed to board and then only due to the very low amount of blood in his alcohol.
And then I got an e-mail, he was on another continent - hmm, I thought, has he taken a boat? No, he took a plane.
Good for him, overcoming such deep fear is truly heroic.
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Metamorphosis - the poll
Posted:May 14, 2011 3:09 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2011 4:43 pm
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Maybe in this format there will be more responses!

So to the question::
You wake up tomorrow morning, same person, identical brain, BUT, you are of the opposite gender. So men, you are now physically 100% woman and women are 100 % men. Rather more pleasant than waking up as a large insect....

Who do you want to fuck?

Think carefully and picture the situation and then decide Is it:

Once there are a reasonable number of responses, I will put forward my interpretation.
Someone of the same gender as the one you have become.
Someone of the same gender as you were.
Someone of either gender.
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The pleasures of snogging
Posted:May 13, 2011 4:21 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2011 2:54 am
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Are the pleasures of snogging underrated or is this simply the result of people being focussed on cumming?
In my opinion, the more you snog, the better you cum...
1 comment
Sex test: metamorphosis
Posted:May 11, 2011 3:36 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2011 3:38 pm
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There are a lot of sex tests around on the net. This is one I came up with quite a few years ago, in the course of an animated discussion about sexuality. I still find it amazing how narrow people's views on sexuality can be and have always put this down to a combination of cultural indoctrination and insecurity, but not in equal measures.

For my part all I can say is that some things just don't interest me - no arousal - but importantly, I have no value judgement regarding these activities. In fact the reverse, as I realise that I am more limited than some of my fellows.

So to the test, which is a gedanken experiment. The answers will be revealed once there is some input (but I am happy to reveal early via e-mail should anyone's curiosity be burning!).

You wake up tomorrow morning, same person, identical brain, BUT, you are of the opposite gender. So men, you are now physically 100% woman and women are 100 % men. Rather more pleasant than waking up as a large insect....

Who do you want to fuck?

Think carefully and picture the situation and then decide Is it:

1. Someone of the same gender as the one you have become.

2. Someone of the same gender as you were.

3. Someone of either gender.
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Where is the border between commercial and non-commercial
Posted:Apr 11, 2011 8:24 am
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2011 9:47 pm
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This question raised its head following a breakdown in communication with a prospective LTR. She wanted a birthday present to her specs. My feeling was that since we were still at the discussion stage of a LTR and that surprises are the spice of birthdays, it would be more appropriate for me to spend time (that most precious of things) to find some sort of momento. Maybe because I have the habit of buying books the lady decided to stipulate where we should shop?

Understandable protest from the lady stating that she wasn't materialistic, but the episode made me wonder where is the border between a LTR with eventual sex and commerce?

Am I just too pig headed?

As usual, your thoughts folks much appreciated.
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