No Cheating Spouses!!!
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Posted:Oct 31, 2011 10:21 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2012 10:09 am
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As one might expect; over the years, I've responded to a number of
profiles that say "no married people cheating on their spouses" and as a married guy that finds FriendFinder-x as a great environment for finding the kind of intense, sexual partner that fits my sexual needs, I'd like to explain some of the thinking and rationalizing that cheating spouses (like me) go through... I love my wife very
much, have been married for 20 years and have no interest or desire to change that part of my life. As part of my pre-marriage
years, I worked as a male dancer, porn-actor, escort, and any number of other side businesses that stem from that. When I met my wife, I really did "Fall-in-Love" and that hasn't changed, but the kind of sexual relationship that I had grown accustomed to was
just at a higher intensity level than that which she enjoys. Some people say that I should should have known, but I really had reached a point in my life that I hadn't thought that vanilla sex wouldn't be satisfying enough to keep me faithful. Generally; I am a very honest person and preach values and ethics constantly to my friends and family and struggle that in all honesty that I'm
not living it, but I "RATIONALIZE" that giving up a fulfilling sex
life would not be being honest to my self? It's a struggle that many of us in this (FriendFinder-x) lifestyle have and for those of you that have found the appropriate sex-partner within the same person that
you find the other attributes, let me say that I'm really jealous.
As many of my swing partners are couples; part of what I'm constantly looking for is the window into their relationship that allows them to enjoy this great swinging lifestyle together. I've
tried numerous times to convince my wife to join me in exploring it, but to no avail??? I've also contemplated that if I were to be successful in "convincing" her to join, that the dynamic would actually change within my existing partners and I'm not so sure that it would be all good either. For those of you that don't want the drama of the jealous wife catching her husband in bed with you; I totally get it, but THANK-GOD, in the 20 years that I've been leading this double-life, I've avoided anything even close. I would just like to tell those of you that are judgemental that we all have skeletons and if you give some of us a chance that an honest and open understanding can exist. Generally, I don't like to mix "FriendFinder-x world" and "real world", but have even done that a couple of times and it's been incredible! Thanks for your consideration and remember that even cheaters need love!
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NO SINGLE MEN!!!
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Posted:Sep 26, 2011 9:25 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2012 10:20 am
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So I'm a single guy and have been into the lifestyle for most of my adult life in one aspect or another and it is amazing how bad of a reputation Single-Guys have (in the lifestyle) and as I hear the stories, it's no wonder why!!! Really guys; it's not that tough. Act like a gentleman and be respectful and you'll have a lot better luck than being an overbearing jerk and ruining it for all of us! If you're with a couple; treat the huband with respect
and "they" will have a fabulous experience (and you'll be asked back again & again)... don't walk in acting like you're her "Gift-from-God"... Let him go first (if he wants) or certainly make sure that HE is included (at least emotionally) in the whole thing
as THEY are a couple and THEY are allowing you into their relationship and if you don't screw-it-up, it will serve you way better than cumming in, forcing yourself on her and acting like he's not even in the room. Really; it's not that tough, but if you (and others like you) can't change your manners, we're going to see more (not less) NO SINGLE MEN posts on profiles!
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I thought I was just going to get laid?
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Posted:Aug 30, 2011 10:10 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 7:0 pm
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Yesterday morning "kittycatmama" from here on FriendFinder-x died in her sleep. She was 35 years old and it was a shock to everyone. She had gotten into the lifestyle early this year when she and I met (on C and I helped her to explore her sexuality at a level that she had never imagined possible. As I've pondered her passing, I realize that so many of the friends that I've met here (on FriendFinder-x) have turned into such great FRIENDS at a much deeper level. It's interesting that we sign-up her with the intention of finding sex partners and as much as we do that for sure; some of my truely best friends are people that started here in this lifestyle. So when you send a reply to a profile that seems to be a match, remember that these are also people that share a lot of the same deeper interest that you do and they could very possibly end up as
really good friends, even if you're looking for NSA or FWB relationships.
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I thought I was just going to get laid?
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Posted:Aug 30, 2011 10:09 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 7:0 pm
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Yesterday morning "kittycatmama" from here on FriendFinder-x died in her sleep. She was 35 years old and it was a shock to everyone. She had gotten into the lifestyle early this year when she and I met (on C and I helped her to explore her sexuality at a level that she had never imagined possible. As I've pondered her passing, I realize that so many of the friends that I've met here (on FriendFinder-x) have turned into such great FRIENDS at a much deeper level. It's interesting that we sign-up her with the intention of finding sex partners and as much as we do that for sure; some of my truely best friends are people that started here in this lifestyle. So when you send a reply to a profile that seems to be a match, remember that these are also people that share a lot of the same deeper interest that you do and they could very possibly end up as
really good friends, even if you're looking for NSA or FWB relationships.
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Lifetime of the Lifestyle
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Posted:Jul 30, 2011 11:16 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2012 10:08 am
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As I reach mid-life, I reflect on a life RICH & FULL of a very fulfilling and complete sex. I hear my friends and acquaintances talk about the lack of sex throughout their lives and am reminded of my various stages of sexuality. In my teens, just learning about how good it felt, how it was special and marrying my high-school sweetheart and on our wedding night having her effectively turn frigid. After 5 years of that, we divorced and I became a male dancer and ALL that that implied (i.e. flying to Hollywood & acting in a few porn movies, escorting to promote some of those movies, weekend evenings spent running around town to Bachelorette & Birthday parties); it was truely a fantasy life that I remember fondly. Entering my 30's and adding too much salt to the pepper in my hair to be a successful dancer or porn actor; I found swinging to be a great way to live a more fulfilling sex-life than the traditional match.com kind of relationships. As a single guy, I've found an incredible bond with a number of really great couples that share their bedrooms with me. It seems that they are so happy for each other to be truely and completely happy in every possible way (not like the traditional couple that wants their partner to be happy as long as it isn't with anyone else)!!! As I turned 40, my doctor started to ask some very personal questions during my annual physical which he said were "problems" that started for most guys in their 40's. Could it be??? I couldn't let that happen, so I became even more aware of my overall health as I couldn't imagine losing what has become a cornerstone of my life. Over the past couple of years as the economy has been so difficult; I've found it so hard to find play opportunities as I've simply been fortunate enough to have a business that still makes money, but only because I work my butt off... During this decade; I've found great satisfaction meeting those newer to the lifestyle and helping them to navigate the somewhat turbulant waters of turning fantasies into realities!!! As I have "generally speaking" done about anything and everything that I wanted to (sexually that is), it is a totaly turn-on to watch the faces of my newbie friends as they are like teenagers again as they realize what a complete sex life feels like. My doctor still asks those leading questions, suggesting that things won't continue to work as they used to, but I now feel comfortable that they work well enough and with the help of creativity, toys, and a silver tongue, that all is still in-tact! I embrace the upcoming decade and next stage of this lifestyle and whatever that might bring. Hopefully; many new friends and deeper friendships with existing ones. The one question that I still ponder though is "why doesn't everyone do this"?
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