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I am a physician who is knowledgeable about safer sex, HIV, sexually transmitted diseases and tests for them, contraception, condoms, and other questions you might like to ask a doctor about sex. I'm a member of FriendFinder-x but I've been troubled that there is no site to give other members good advice about reducing the dangers of the sex we all want. So please feel free to leave questions or comments or to share your own experiences on the risks of sexual activity and how to minimize them, or on medical issues relating to sex.
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MORE MASTURBATION: SOLUTION FOR WOMEN STUCK AT HOME DURING PANDEMIC
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Posted:Feb 20, 2021 11:36 pm
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2021 1:21 pm
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Millions of both single and attached people have been laid off and are bored, or are parents who have had stay home help with remote learning. Dating is more difficult and risky during a pandemic. What do do reward yourself and also take a break and feel less frustrated?
The answer is obvious. There is more time for masturbation, and the thrills and sensations do not wear out. Women have the edge here, because physiologically, they are capable of multiple orgasms and can spend a lot of time at it. Sure enough, I read that online sales of sex toys are booming during the pandemic. There are many good sources, but Amazon has a good selection at prices that are often lower.
With good vibrators (try a variety if you can afford it), your fingers will get less tired, and you can speed up cumming. How man per day? Try for a personal best, an all-time largest number of orgasms. For some spice and some ego gratification, broadcast on FriendFinder-x while you do it! Even women who are not confident about their appearance can find admirers among horny men (and women), compliments, and even that you can cash in.
Safe sex is a theme in my blog, and there is no sex as safe as solo. So get at it. If any women are proud of their personal bests or want solicit viewers watch their broadcasts, post a response.
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HERE IT IS, THE SAFE SEX PANTY!
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Posted:Aug 14, 2006 10:23 pm
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2010 9:48 pm
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This could be the answer for empowering women whose partners resist wearing condoms, and for preventing the spread of herpes, HIV, or HPV from a person who has it to someone who does not.
It is a latex panty, worn by the woman (there's also a version for a male or female who wants to have insertive anal intercourse), with a lubricated pouch that is tucked into the vagina. This blocks all sexual fluids while still being sexy and permitting intercourse, oral sex, and other sensuous contact.
The product has been field tested in Africa and was liked by both females and males. It's not yet on the market, undergoing a minor redesign.
What do you think? Would anyone like to join me in trying it out? 
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True Safe Sex Product Being Developed: Anyone Interested?
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Posted:Aug 14, 2006 12:18 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2007 12:12 am
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I have just spoken with a female researcher who has been developing for several years a panty/underpant product that would serve as a barrier protecting beyond the reach of a condom. It would prevent HPV (cause of genital warts and cervical/penile/anal cancer), herpes, and crab lice, and would be more effective against HIV and all other sexually transmitted infections.
It would be fluid-impermeable and would have any opening to for the condom-clad penis.
Apparently, it is undergoing clinical trials and its developers will be at the World AIDS Conference this month in Toronto.
Do you think people would use a device like this, and what suggestions would you have for appearance, e.g., transparency, colors, etc.?
This could finally make many types of sex actually safe. But I don't know anyone who currently wears underpants when having intercourse, and even cloth panties/underpants would make sex safer, so if a plastic or latex version became available, would anyone use it?
I'd like your opinions, and can pass them on to the researcher.
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ORAL SEX: DO YOU USE A BARRIER?
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Posted:Jul 10, 2006 9:34 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2013 1:18 pm
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Many people who say they always practice safer sex mean only that they use condoms for intercourse (vaginal or anal). How many of you use condoms or dental dams or plastic wrap as a barrier for oral sex? A lot fewer, I'll bet!
While it is true that HIV is much harder to catch orally, it may be easier if there is blood or a sore in the mouth. The risks of catching other diseases are not negligible. Oral gonorrhea and syphilis on lips or inside the mouth have been known for generations.
Oral herpes (type 1) and genital herpes (type 2) can trade places. With the increase in oral sex, especially among young people, HPV (human papilloma virus, the cause of cervical and penile cancer and genital warts) is showing up in head and neck cancers that can shart on the tongue or throat. The new vaccine can help prevent the 4 commonest cancer and wart-causing strains.
So what can we do to play safely? Fortunately, there are now some flavored condoms that taste pretty good! There are also flavored dental dams to place over the pussy or the anus, but they are both thick and small. Another thing worth trying is to cut out a square of plastic wrap (Saran or Glad) as large as you like, and you can slobber all over without leakage problems.
It may look a little weird, but by punching a small hole in such a sheet and stretching it over a condom, a wide barrier for intercourse can be produced that will prevent herpes and HPV transfer in vaginal fluids and from skin to skin (scrotum, labia, etc.) beyond where a condom alone can protect.
My suggestion is to get beyond the embarrassment of asking that these less common barrier techniques be used. If you like sex but also like to stay alive and not be infected with a nasty and possibly incurable or lethal disease, better safe than sorry! This is also something that couples should discuss BEFORE having sex!
Your input is welcome on this controversial topic.
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D & D Free, You Say? How Do You Know?
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Posted:Sep 12, 2005 1:02 am
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2013 1:18 pm
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OK, I'll trust you about the "D" that has a "rug" after it! But how do you know if you are disease free? Even if both partners have recently tested negative for HIV, what about all the other sexually transmitted diseases that doctors usually don't even test for? To name a few of the commoner ones, there are syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes II, human papillomavirus (HPV), hepatitis B, and trichomonas. Those last three affect 20 to 50% of sexually active young people in various surveys. And I've left out a bunch of less common ones. Some don't even have reasonably priced commercial tests, and there are no laboratory test panels that include them all. I recommend that we ask our physicians to test us for as many of these as possible. Then use condoms carefully, and it helps if you can limit yourself to as few sexual partners as possible, with low-risk histories. If you have questions about any of the STDs, or a story to tell, please reply on this blog.
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Condoms: can we depend on them?
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Posted:Sep 10, 2005 10:39 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2010 11:33 pm
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Condoms are essential when we are having sex with multiple people. But how safe are they? Condoms are not a sure thing. I teach about this subject, but I don't even call condom use "safe sex," only "safer sex." 10% of highly fertile women using condoms as their only contraceptive method for a year become pregnant, and many people have developed sexually transmitted infections in spite of using condoms, because they do not use them in a way that provides a barrier to all sexual secretions. And condoms are not very effective against herpes or HPV, because they don't shield all the surfaces that can be infected with the viruses from all the surfaces that can absorb them. Making a hole in a square of plastic wrap and inserting the condom-clad penis through it can greatly increase the protected area, and may be worth considering if one of the partners has had herpes, for example. If you have questions or recommendations about optimal condom use, or have a story to tell about breakage, leakage, or ignorance, or have had a close call, this is the place to talk about it.
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