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Being a standard member
Posted:May 19, 2011 9:40 am
Last Updated:Aug 24, 2011 7:20 am
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We have been trying our hardest to try and use FriendFinder-x as standard members, but it isn't easy. Not only can we not look at people's profiles ... and all those sexy pics ... but when we get a flirt from someone, we can't even respond with an email.

This isn't new to most people, in fact anyone who is/was a standard member knows what we're talking about. But we are not giving up yet.

It is our hope, that we can use these blog posts, and any additional comments from sexy local people, to try and connect with them.

To that end, we're here! We're listening! We are just having problems responding. To all the sexy people out there who like what they see in us, we'd love to hear from you Especially you standard members out there.

~ A & J
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What I've learned being single for the past month or so ...
Posted:Apr 25, 2010 7:38 pm
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2010 8:17 pm
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So its like this ... Me, being the outstanding husband that I am ... sent my lovely wife on a vacation by herself. I couldn't go with, due to several real life reasons (ie. money, , etc) and so she's off on her own for awhile.

The Mrs. and I are in an open marriage, and just like she's allowed to play with others when I'm not around, I am too. Only, it doesn't quite work out the way I planned.

After all this time away from the Mrs. I've learned to love her even more. How is this possible, you say? Well, its because of her that we get to go out and play with the fine friends from FriendFinder-x.

Also, trying to pick up on women, either on FriendFinder-x or in bars, is practically impossible with either a wedding ring, or the tan line from a wedding ring.

So, in the end ... what have I learned from all this time alone (except good ol'righty) ... don't underestimate your wife fellas. Because without her, you're just another dude in a sea of thousands. So treat her right, and maybe she'll bring home a woman or two for you, just like mine has.

~ The Mr.
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How far are you willing to go?
Posted:Dec 1, 2009 7:59 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2009 3:09 pm
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Hi all! The wife and I were talking last night trying to decide how far is too far when going to meet other couples. We found it difficult to put a maximum distance on it, but in general we like to stick to within 50 miles of home. And yet, some of our first experiences were with people coming from as far away as Monterey.

So I thought I'd put it out there for the people of FriendFinder-x ... how far are you willing to go in order to meet up with another couple?
5 miles
10 miles
25 miles
50 miles
75 miles
100 miles
150 miles
200 miles
as far as needed
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Back in the saddle again
Posted:Nov 29, 2009 12:51 pm
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2009 12:36 am
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hi all ... just a quick note to let all you sexy people out there know that her and I are getting back into the swing of things, and are interested in meeting new people, and have some crazy new experiences. So if you like what you see, drop us a message, and we'll get back to you.

Thanks, take care, and have a wonderful holiday season.

~ a & j
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Cheater's Follow-Up, Thank You, and What Would You Do Poll
Posted:Jan 8, 2009 11:25 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2009 2:41 pm
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Thank you all for your insight on my husband's previous entry! It sounds like most people have slightly different opinions, just like him and I.

I still have no desire to knowingly be the person/people someone is cheating with, regardless of the current state of their relationship. I wouldn't have done it while I was a single lady, and I don't want to now as a full-swap couple. Period. We lead a life and relationship style that must be based on trust, and I have no time for people who are dishonest and sneaky with me or their own partner.

On a side note, hi-five to my husband, who didn't necessarily agree with my thoughts, but respected them as if they were his own. I know passing up on the ever elusive single-girl is not an easy task (especially when it's in a matter of hours), but he did it like a champ and never complained. If one person is not cool with a situation, then we're both not OK with it; that's one of our rules. He stuck by that whole heartedly, and I am grateful to have such a wonderful partner.

Funny how life always works out though... I think we ended up having a much more fun time with our good ol' friends

One more thing, I see I have a poll option for this blog entry, and I'd like to try it out for the first time.

So let me ask you: If you were meeting a single guy/gal, and 3 hours prior to they let it slip that they have a unknowing significant other, would you:
Shake your head at their dishonesty and cancel completely.
Go for it anyway! Their relationship & relationship troubles are none of our business.
Meet to discuss ground rules, but feel out the situation before deciding to continue.
Other: tell us in the comments.
3 Comments , 13 votes
A little advice, please?
Posted:Jan 4, 2009 11:33 am
Last Updated:Jan 8, 2009 10:52 am
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So last night the wife and I had a little disagreement, and I'd be interested in knowing what everyone else has to say. So we were supposed to meet this very attractive young woman who lives near us for drinks last night. I, of course, was very excited and always enjoy meeting new friends to see if there is any chemistry. The wife was also very excited, and we had high hopes for the evening.

As we were hammering out the details through text message, where to meet, when, etc ... ya know, all that stuff, she tells me that she needs all these details so that she knows what to tell her boyfriend who doesn't know anything about this. Well, shit! Everything was going so well up till that point, now I gotta tell my wife, and discuss whether we want to meet at all. This all wouldn't have been a problem if we had known about the boyfriend first. But the profile says single, and it wasn't until a few hours before we were supposed to meet that she said anything about it at all.

Eventually, we backed out of meeting entirely, but before we did so my wife and I had to agree to disagree. Her argument was this: We don't need to be anyone "side" action and that everyone should be honest and open about whats going on, we don't need the drama of one party cheating. While I could see that side of the coin, I am of the opinion that while its best that everyone is open and honest, life isn't always so black and white, and that while running around behind my partners back isn't for me, does that make it wrong? Some people would say that swinging is wrong, but I choose not to listen to them. Shouldn't the same way of thinking apply to other situations, like that of a sexy young single woman?

Of course, if one of us has a problem, then is its a "no go" for the both of us. This is just how we run our encounters with other folks.

Our evening wasn't a total bust anyway, we had some great friends come over, and had a very wonderful evening with them (thanks angel_kitten79 you guys are sexy and fun!) but the thought still lingers in my mind ... am I wrong?

I'd love some advice from other people out there who might have encountered a similar situation. How did everyone else handle it? Thanks for listening
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Starting off the new year!!
Posted:Jan 2, 2009 11:15 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 1:18 pm
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Hi all! We hope everyone had a safe and fun new years. Personally I feel like I'm waking up from a 2 day hang over. It was a blast, but my head still hurts a little

Now that we're past the holidays, we're getting to the full swing of things. So if you like what you see on our profile, and live fairly close by, then drop up a message. We can't wait to hear from ya!
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The year in review ... what a blast!
Posted:Dec 29, 2008 12:58 pm
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2008 1:02 pm
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Hi All, just wanted to speak up for a moment and say what an awesome year I've had. I have met some really awesome people from FriendFinder-x, and even made some friends that I routinely speak with. I've only been on the site since march, but I guess I never thought that a life like this could really exist.

But lets get down to the details, shall we? This year has been magical on many levels, first and foremost is my lovely wife. I never really knew what it meant to have a soul mate, but I do now. She is not just my wife, but the best lover, a great step-mom, and my best friend. I know that life wouldn't be nearly as fun as it has been without her. I mean, she's far more sexy than I am, and my own breasts aren't nearly as big or as beautiful

As for some of the great friends I've made this year, well, I just wish I could accurately describe all the wonderful experiences we've had. To be honest, I thought that these kinds of things only happen in adult movies! Then I found them happening to me, and it was awesome! All our friends have been a big part of making these experiences happen too, and you guys know who you are so thanks a ton!!

So here's to next year! May it be as much fun, bring us all new friends and new experiences, as the last year has been.

~j

ps. And here's to two weeks in Turkey in June! I can't wait!!!
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