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Hisdesire12 51M/46F  
16 posts
10/14/2021 5:41 am
What are men looking for?

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thinkingofyou12 64M
3613 posts
10/14/2021 7:14 am

Welcome to the Blogs, I joined here many years ago. The site was owned by a different individual/company. I enjoyed all the site offered: Free; video to include chat. free IM's, free (but limited) e-mail. I took my time and got to know women locally, which led to several on going FWB's. I was approached by couples and met many thru the years. I have always enjoyed meeting a variety of playmates and enjoy either ongoing or just a one time meet. It helps that I am single and travel or host. BTW, I like your profile and have attended house parties in your town.

grizz54545454 73M
347 posts
10/14/2021 7:38 am

just looking for sex a lot of sex

webbbbby 56M
47 posts
10/14/2021 7:51 am

I think the real answer is all of the above! We all have different purposes for different reasons to achieve different outcomes. FriendFinder-x is like looking through the card catalogue at the library to find just the right book ( old school reference ). Enjoy the seach!

JohnInNebraska 60M
184 posts
10/14/2021 7:52 am

Looking to meet nice sexy people. Would love to meet a nice female for an ongoing FWB situation. Also, hoping to fulfill some fantasies

Suprcuk49 60M
228 posts
10/14/2021 7:54 am

Welcome to blog land. I joined in hoping to connect with someone willing to play. Live out a fantasy or two. No luck so far. Spent a few $$ and gifted out some points. Amazing at total lack of responses on some and the rudeness of some of people.

I do enjoy chatting with the one or two decent people i have connected with.

1just4fun61 60M
361 posts
10/14/2021 7:54 am

Sex, and friends

Hisdesire12 51M/46F  
4 posts
10/14/2021 8:10 am

Thanks for the responses. We have been on FriendFinder-x for several weeks and trying to decipher not only bios but chats has been mildly difficult. Our bio is pretty specific and yet we still get contacted by those that do not fit the "qualifications " we have set in place. On the other hand those that do actually seem legit......turn out to be pic collectors, chat orgasm seekers (which is ok part of the time--but we seriously want a real live person not to chat exclusively), and people fishing with fake or inaccurate info on their pages.

62Mature4young 62M
104 posts
10/14/2021 8:18 am

At the moment I'm looking for my camera's memory card.....

But in the bigger scheme of things I am here to find respect, honesty, purpose, integrity and circumstances free of drama. It's hard for some folks to undersrand that others may not be here just to get laid or to find random partners, nor to find D/s or BDSM experiences, among others. Some folks do not feel the need to explore the far realms of sexuality--some are just looking for a meaningful partnership which embraces mutual interests in sex, politics, ethics, faith, etc

...damn!--I think I know where the memory card is now.....ta-ta!

TnTvariety 59M
19 posts
10/14/2021 8:20 am

I joined this site many years ago, when it was mostly free, then became a gold member for a few years....

I have met many woman on here, all one night things a few that were a few times.....

Did have a few threesomes with couples I have met on here..

All was very pleasurable...

With the limits there are for nonpaying members it is now quite difficult to meet anyone....

windsjohn 70M  
748 posts
10/14/2021 9:05 am

I got on here to find some nice fuck buddys since I wasn't and still not getting it at home. Been a pornophile since I was 12 too LOL Found some success. Yes there are so many fake s and false profiles on here.. But the site managers do their best to keep that down to a dull roar.

I'm a gold member and Love all that gives me. But if they raise my rate I'll probably go away and start hanging out at the adult stores again. As if THEY still exist.

KEEP DILIGENT AND WEED THROUGH THE CHAFF> We all look at profiles and even when we don't fit what you are looking for, we hope you make exceptions hehehehe

Hisdesire12 replies on 10/14/2021 10:09 am:
I appreciate the response. My husband said basically the same thing.....that people will contact us regardless of our requests with hopes of, at the very least, an spicy chat session.

seems6666 51F
4726 posts
10/14/2021 10:47 am

Interesting that apart from one, every man who commented was over 60 ...I don't know if once you pass 70, you're going to meet many people for sex or indeed be able which i think makes most of the answers wishful thinking.
You say about your profile being very specific, an odd anomaly on here is straight guys get hit on by gay men all the time.. even if their profile says no men.
Also of course standard members can't read profiles.. so you will get a lot of "undesirables" as men can't see what you want.,
As for what people want on here.... lots of different things.. and as someone else said.. you have to pick the wheat from the chaff

Hisdesire12 replies on 10/14/2021 1:14 pm:
Great informative response and I appreciate it.

spunkycumfun 61M/66F
38430 posts
10/14/2021 10:56 am

I started out on this site to look for couples to swap partners with; now I'm here for blogland.

Gary545454 62M
632 posts
10/14/2021 11:36 am

meeting people for sex but I enjoy the articles and pictures as well

RavenGB 60M
1405 posts
10/14/2021 12:12 pm

It is always a question of geographical constraints. Seeing as there is almost never anybody close to me, I remain on this site to read a few blogs, to chat with people in certain chat rooms and not much more. Very few of the videos I can see are that erotic and I have no interest in paying (points) to watch somebody on cam. It could be that you may get to know somebody (distant) through the site and a chance could present itself to meet up. Does that answer your question?

positively4you 72F  
4461 posts
10/14/2021 6:08 pm


boobwhisperer69 58M  
7645 posts
10/14/2021 10:15 pm

Recipes and deep thoughtful conversations!!!!

Hisdesire12 replies on 10/15/2021 4:19 pm:
Get 1 cock hard as a rock....add 1 slippery wet pussy until the world shakes and the volcanos explode.

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