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Cyber fun
Posted:Nov 6, 2016 3:58 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 7:34 am
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Love watching the young fit bodies of men and women who so obviously enjoy pleasuring one another. Sure some of it seems staged all too obviously, but it's easy to see they "get into it". I'd like to find a willing partner for such fun. It's missing in my life and I miss it To understate the matter. Would love to even correspond with women and men who love oral pleasuring. Have fun while the sun shines*Y*
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Comfort and Calm from Pleasure vs Anxiety, Fear from Violence
Posted:Nov 4, 2016 2:49 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 7:34 am
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Does it seem strange to you that sex in our culture is taboo or shameful or guilt-ridden for so many people, while violence in entertainment, sports, not to mention war, is so accepted or taken for granted or fascinating? Touch and pleasure bring out the best in me: more compassion, willingness to help others, less guarded and more generous. On the other hand, fears of disease or involuntary domination or violation of decency and dignity make me tense up, suspicious, stingy. I wish we could embrace our various sexualities--that seems to me one of the greatest features of this website--FriendFinder-x. Yes, safety, respect, hygiene are essential for genuine pleasure. At the same time, I wish I didn't feel like our culture accepts and even worships and adores violence and hostility and incivility as it seems to me we do. When the beauty of pleasure is available why is there such ugly violence?
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Skin hunger
Posted:Oct 23, 2016 4:00 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 7:34 am
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Touching is a delightful pleasure when the other person wants it as much as I do. Age hasn't shrunk my desire for physical intimacy, for body rubs, kissing, nipple play, licking and sucking and cumming. I've been on this site long enough to realize how diverse our desires are and how important they are as well. I'm not into any kind of coercion, not into BDSM or pain or scat. Slow simmering, smoldering, edging are great. I like safe fun. Would love to find a fwb. Enjoy corresponding too.
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Getting past limits
Posted:Sep 21, 2016 7:51 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 7:34 am
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I love watching the younger brothers and sisters having naked fun together and by themselves. Some guys seem to last forever. How great to see women cumming again and again. Just love it. I haven't had all that much experience with sexplorations. Looking for patient, accepting partners who would enjoy my obvious passion and looks if they knew me. I like mutual fun without insistent expectations but a readiness to be pleased and to please. Somehow written words and photos and vids don't convey 3D lust, excitement, passion, depth. Sure there are limits--time, availability, interests, expectations--but isn't FriendFinder-x about getting past those limits?
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Older for younger for friends and fun
Posted:Aug 11, 2016 2:28 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 7:34 am
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Men and women enjoy my sensual body rubs as much as I do. I enjoy all ages really and these days especially younger people. There's something inquisitive and yearning about younger people enjoying older men. Maybe it's reassurance that aging can be satisfying and fulfilling. Pleasure is important at all ages as well as possible. I'm more interested in pleasuring than being pleasured by men and women. Hygiene is so important in reducing anxiety about getting an STD. Sexual activity when safe and sane is so healthy: comforting and stimulating as well. I am passionate and also respectful.

I used to be able to host but caring for my wife of many years no longer makes that possible. She is well aware of my sexual interests and needs and we agree to talk about them no longer. I'm not looking for another spouse, just the pleasure of women and men similarly inclined. Corresponding is great. Meeting--even better.
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How we show affection...
Posted:Jun 29, 2016 10:52 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 7:34 am
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Talking and writing are great, imo. But showing affection physically feels even greater to me. When I read what you write or listen to what you say, I often smile gladly, recognizing that something in what you're saying/writing is like what want to say and write. When I see you face to face and touch you and you touch me, I just want to touch you more. And more than just touch happens, well I hope so anyway. There's not only oral sounds but touch and taste, too--no tongue lashing but lots of licking here and there, and more there. It feels so good. That moment is so flexible and fluid and fun, it's a deposit in my bank of memories. Even if it doesn't happen just that way again with you, it doesn't disappear. That's my idea of affection, the good stuff of being alive.
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Having fun
Posted:May 3, 2016 2:28 am
Last Updated:Jun 27, 2016 6:01 am
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Do we need fun with others? I do. I love seeing people happy, laughing, having a good time without being demanding, coercive, or dramatic. Good food, easily digested and just passing through is relatively simple to understand. Then there's exercise: well, why not sexercise? Sure be safe and sane and respectful but butts and tits and pussies are such motivations to be considerate and passionate and healthy. I love oral pleasures, especially tits and cocks like fruit at harvest time. HMU, y'all
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Gentle Affections
Posted:Apr 1, 2016 4:47 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 7:34 am
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I love the thrust and power of orgasms, the pleasure of being naked and the thrill of satisfying skin hunger with others, the bonding of touch, taste and smell in addition to the lust of sight and sounds. Also, I love hanging out naked with no other agenda than to enjoy each other together or separately. There is an animal affection that's possible between us, much as it is expressed openly for our beloved pets. We have language for expressing our affections that doesn't have to be possessive, domineering, jealous or judgmental. Seems to me we've spent too much time hurling words to hurt others rather than to heal our differences, our desires, our possibilities for consensual affection.

I don't like labels. Much prefer labia ... and oral pleasures beyond talking.
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Sweet scent and taste of sex
Posted:Mar 16, 2016 1:15 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 7:34 am
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Exploring my own body has been a treat to my nose and tongue--just smell and taste so good. The touch of my nipples sends pleasure to my cock and hits the dopamine button. We each have unique smell and taste--kissing, licking, sucking. Getting intimate enough with another to enjoy these pleasures is worth the frustrations of merely viewing, flirting, hotlisting, friending, corresponding. Real connections are the best in my experience. I find the adage true that for all our differences we also have so much in common. I'd love to hear if others love smelling and tasting as well as looking and listening to heavy breathing!
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Kissing, Licking, playing
Posted:Feb 2, 2016 4:12 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2016 2:06 pm
5318 Views

I crave sucking tits. So much fun. Love smiling and kissing and naked play. Just love giving pleasure, listening to the sounds of heavy breathing, the taste and scent of pussy, the comfort of foreplay and the explosion of orgasm. Sharing is so much fun.
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Naked hugs
Posted:Jan 19, 2016 2:58 pm
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2016 2:02 am
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Is it possible to be together and have fun, laugh, touch, get acquainted and see where it goes? I think we all expect that being together automatically means wham bam thank you ma'am or man. But what if the unspoken pressure to perform, the sense of insistent expectations for a great "performance" don't have to be in the mix? It's okay to be shy, to be yourself and just be together for the fun of being together. I'm looking for friends who may or may not become special friends. What are you looking for?
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Playing and Pleasure
Posted:Dec 21, 2015 9:08 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 7:34 am
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Who else thinks that playing and pleasure are good ways to relieve stress, comfort others, express affection and lower aggression? Seems to me interacting sanely and safely would be worth educating our young people so that they might reach older age with greater enjoyment and less trauma. We could all be happier than we are, don't you think? Perhaps you're happy enough but doesn't that make you want to see others happy as well? I want to share my healthy happiness with others similarly inclined.
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Sucking
Posted:Dec 4, 2015 1:58 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2016 1:58 am
5872 Views

Comfortable touch, taste, fragrance go so well with cocks and tits and pussy. What a great way to reduce tension, share affection and heal many life stresses. Pleasure is such a needlessly hidden treasure. Getting acquainted slowly is fine but why hide the goodies under bushels of clothes or words? Sucking is such a pleasure.
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