More Myths about eaten out
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Posted:Jul 15, 2021 11:12 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 1:58 pm
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Myth: You don't need to worry about STIs.
Oral still counts as sex, and dental dams count as protection (even though people make fun of them. Why?). Sexually transmitted infections can be passed along dring all kinds of oral, so give yourself the peace of mind that comes with practicing safe sex.
Myth: You're not a feminist if you can't get on board with cunnilingus.
Maybe you're (rightfully) obsessed with your vagina and don't think it's anything to be ashamed of, but you still don't like how oral feels. It might feel too ticklish, or you might not be able to shake the thought that someone's rubbing spit all over your most intimate parts. Much like you don't need to adore giving blow jobs to be sexy, you don't need to love receiving oral to be hot/feminist/anything at all.
Myth: Receiving oral sex is the most intimate thing you can do. No, wait, it's actually NBD.
Really, however you view oral sex is right. Maybe you always check it off the list before moving along to another sexual activity that's more intimate in your mind, whether that's intercourse or something else. Or maybe you don't do it until after you've already done everything else, are falling in love, and are finally ready to have someone get up close and personal with you. As with all other types of sex, as long as what you're doing makes both of you feel comfortable, it's the right choice.
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Myths about going down on a women
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Posted:Jul 15, 2021 11:08 am
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2021 11:10 am
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Myth: You're going to hurt your partner's feelings if you tell them what you want.
Constructive criticism is great! Sure, it might be a little embarrassing for them when you correct their technique. But they should promptly get over that upon realizing how hot it is that you know what you want and are able to describe it.
Myth: You should be so loud during oral that running into your neighbors becomes really awkward.
Thank you, pornography, for spreading this falsehood. Cool if during good oral, you moan, scream, or get particularly inventive with your dirty talk at top volume. Also cool if you're pretty silent as it happens because you're concentrating on how good it feels, you're just not very vocal during that kind of sex, or because every time you get really loud the person you're with changes what they're doing and chases away your orgasm.
Myth: You should be all about that direct clitoral stimulation.
True, a lot of people need intense pressure on their clitorises to orgasm. But the clitoris has around 8,000 nerve endings, meaning that for some people, anything more than a feathery-light touch feels like someone's trying to break their vagina. There's no "one stimulation fits all" rule with oral, so don't feel weird if you need someone to either barely touch your clitoris or go at it with the suctioning power of a Hoover.
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3 Myths about eating pussy
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Posted:Jul 15, 2021 11:06 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 1:58 pm
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Although I think its official name could use some work, cunnilingus is a gift. People with vaginas obviously deserve to experience just as much sexual pleasure as people with penises do, and receiving oral sex can help make that happen. But destructive sexual myths abound, and they can affect many people's sex lives. That's especially true for something as vagina-centric as oral sex. Instead of being able to enjoy it in all its glory—or not, because some people legitimately aren't into it—we often worry about things like whether we should smell "better" while ignoring that, yes, you can get a sexually transmitted infection from cunnilingus. (Sorry, buzzkill, I know.) Here, the truth about oral-sex myths you never have to believe again.
1. Myth: If you don't orgasm from oral, you have a defective vagina.
Sex is supposed to help you escape from the pressures of everyday life, not add to them. Sure, some women who can't orgasm from intercourse find that oral sex is their vaginas' golden ticket. But even if you think oral is enjoyable, it might not work for you orgasm-wise, and that's fine.
That's not to say you should be satisfied with not getting off if orgasms are indeed your goal, but that you shouldn't feel like something's wrong with you if cunnilingus doesn't immediately do the tric It can take some time to workshop what exactly gets you there, and that should actually be fun.
2. Myth: You need to chug pineapple juice so you taste/smell better down there.
First of all, there's nothing that can make your vagina taste like a piece of fruit. Except, well, putting a piece of fruit in it, which is dangerous, so don't do that. Second, you don't need to alter how you smell or taste. Unless you have some sort of infection, whatever's going on down there is completely normal.
3. Myth: Whoever is face-to-vagina with you is thinking, "Damn, what is UP with her labia, I liked the ones on the last woman I was with so much more."
Unless you're hooking up with a jackass, whoever you're with is probably enjoying themselves too much to think anything remotely critical about how your parts loo (And in case you were wondering, your labia are probably normal.) Unfortunately, assholes do walk among us. If someone says something rude about the way your vagina looks, they don't really deserve to experience its greatness.
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Seriously, where is the clit? Why can’t I find it?
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Posted:Jul 15, 2021 10:44 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 1:58 pm
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Seriously, where is the clit? Why can’t I find it?
It sits at the top of where the two inner labia join. “Trace the seam of the lips toward your partner’s belly button to find the clit,” says Sloane.
You can also use your fingers to spread the lips apart to make the clit more visible.
Keep in mind that the part of the clitoris you can usually see and feel is only the tip of the iceberg. The clitoris itself extends a few inches further back into the body.
Should I really write the alphabet with my tongue?
Nope! According to Sloane, most need the exact same touch over and over again in order to orgasm — so licking the alphabet is the exact opposite of what you should be doing.
Should I lick it like an ice cream cone?
Actually, this isn’t a bad idea to start. “Start like you’re trying to lick all the ice cream in July,” says Sloane.
Think long, soft licks, as opposed to pokey, bird-like pecks.
What do I do if hair gets stuck in my mouth?
This is NBD. “Awkward sex things happen, and they’re totally not a big deal,” says sex educator Tara Struyk, co-founder of Kinkly, an online sexual wellness resource.
Pause, fish for the hair, and then get back in there.
How do I know if I’m doing OK?
Ask! It’s that easy. Some phrases to try out:
“Do you prefer this [demo A] or this [demo B]?”
“Can I keep going?”
“Does this pressure feel good?”
Struyk says their body should give you some clues, too. For example, are they moving toward you or away from you?
If your partner is pushing closer, chances are it feels good. If they’re pulling away or clenching their legs, the sensation may be too intense and you may need to back off.
How long should I do it for?
Sloane says that, on average, it takes vulva owners 20 to 45 minutes to climax.
Does that mean you’ll be licking their bean that long? If your partner consents and you’re having a good time, it might!
“Giving someone oral to the point where you’re no longer enjoying it yourself isn’t a great game plan,” Sloane adds. “It’s OK to move onto something else, and then come bac”
Should I insert my tongue into the vagina?
Only if they communicate that they’d enjoy that! Less tongue-thrust, more tongue-touch is usually best.
What if they’re menstruating?
Everyone has different comfort levels, and fluid-borne STIs can be spread through period blood, so check in with your partner.
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How Do You Go Down On Someone Who Has a Vulva?
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Posted:Jul 15, 2021 10:41 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 1:58 pm
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First things first
Before we get down on the going down, let’s set the record straight on vulvas: They’re all different!
Everyone has a smell
Vulvas may look like flowers (shoutout Georgia O’Keeffe), but they smell (*gasp*) like vulvas. Some smell salty or coppery, while others have a musky or leather-like odor.
And unless you’d describe that smell as fishy or foul — or it’s accompanied by unusual discharge or itching — everything is probably fine.
And everyone has a taste
“Even the same vagina can taste different day to day,” says sex educator Sarah Sloane, who’s been coaching sex toy classes at Good Vibrations and Pleasure Chest since 2001.
“[It’s] based on things like diet, hydration levels, medications, where the person is in their cycle, and more.”
Labia come in many colors, shapes, and sizes
Seeing someone’s labia for the first time is like opening a box of assorted chocolate: You never know what you’re going to get.
Some labia hang low and wobble to and fro. Others are short or asymmetrical or curved. There’s no normal labia #lew
So does pubic hair
Pubic hair is as varied in style, texture, and length as head hair.
“Some remove the hair completely, some trim it into a shape or design, some do nothing at all,” says Sloane.
Oral sex still has risks
Pregnancy may not be a risk, but many sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can be spread through oral sex.
Your plan of action: Talk to your partner about their STI status before going down on them and consider using a dental dam.
If you don’t have access to a dam, you can:
Cut a condom like thisTrusted Source.
Cut a latex glove like this.
Use plastic wrap.
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