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Happy Friday
Posted:Sep 14, 2019 1:16 am
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2019 8:10 pm

Hey all,

Happy Friday Night. its about 1:am. I just got home from work and im tired as hell. im just relaxing its over 85 degrees in my apartment so i am not having a good time. i really need to find a new place to live. not having AC is the worst during these heat waves.

anyways hope everyone else is having a fabulous friday night. im going to bed XP
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The Nerve of some people!
Posted:Sep 8, 2019 7:27 pm
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2019 4:18 am

I seriously cant believe how heartless and cruel some people are.

Someone responded 2 the previous post asking for advice and here is what he said:

yes but you wont like it!
go seek some professional . first get feel good about yourself then worry about getting fucked!

I mean seriously? why on earth would someone say something like ??!! It is like i said in response 2 him. He doesnt know my situation or anything im going through but saying stuff like assuming i need mental is kinda fucked up and a whole new low for people on this site!

Well the great thing about this site in particular its VERY easy block people that are being cruel.

anyways. I also wanted say thanks all the nice folks that gave good advice and were kind. I did see everyones messages and thank you all so much.

I just really have a lot going on at the moment. so thanks for all your kind words.

take care.
Feeling Hopeless
Posted:Sep 7, 2019 11:40 pm
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2019 10:02 pm

Hey All,

its been a while since my last post. Its been a while, and i just still am not having any luck on here. It really sucks. I would love to meet someone and hook up, but I am just not finding anyone who excites me.

I mean I know im not a perfect 10, but I would like someone close to my age or younger. It seems the only guys who are interested in me are over 60 and that is very much not what im looking for. (I am 47) .

Everything just feels so hopeless as far as meeting anyone. I got so freaked out cuz some random guy found out where I worked, so i disabled my account for a while, but that totally screwed me over and i lost over a year of my gold membership so yeah. theres that too.

So i really dont know what will become of me on here. I may just stick to chatting online and that being it. I cant see me meeting anyone right now. Im way to insecure especially whenever i try to talk to someone they prove to be some kind of asshole.

I talked to this one guy who didnt respond to me. so i assumed he wasnt interested and told him so and said i wouldnt bother him again. he then proceeded to message me back and tell me how full of myself i was, and that if i was that sure about things i should buy him a birthday gift to. I was like WTF? Its like even guys on here i am slightly interested in are turning out to be straight up assholes.

Anyways. I may just continue doing what ive been doing. ignoring all the messages i get. and just get off privately watching others cam.

I mean at least thats something i guess.

If anyone has any advice please let me know?
Good Evening.
Posted:Aug 6, 2019 1:01 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 3:12 am

Hey guys,

hows it going. its about 1am. i just got home from work. just relaxing checking FriendFinder-x and seeing whos online.

im really trying to respond to people and see about meeting someone.

but im just not finding anyone thus far who tickles my fancy.

All ive been finding so far is alot of jerks and assholes who get mad when i respond and say im not interested.

so ive become so insecure i just dont want to respond to anyone.

I am very insecure. thus why i havent had sex in over 10 years.

im hoping I'll find someone. and increase my confidence.

i find when i go on cam i get very confident.

may have to do more caming.

but again im very insecure. and am terrified of alot of the assholes on here.

so thats alot of the reason i dont cam.

once some guy was so mean to me i cried on cam before i signed off it was terrible.


have a good night.
Wow so many responses from Ice Breaker
Posted:Jul 27, 2019 10:22 pm
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2019 5:21 am

Hey guys,

I have noticed im getting A LOT of messages via the ice breaker.

thanks 2 everyone who has messaged me.

again im very shy and selective about who i wanna talk 2.

ive had alot of real bad experiences on here

so if i don't respond please don't be upset.

i've gotten the point where if i'm not interested i just don't respond as people get pissed off if i respond saying i'm not interested.

so i'm sorry in advance.

but i gotta do what i'm comfortable with ya know?

take care.
Posted:Jul 23, 2019 1:24 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2019 10:46 pm

A 20 year old guy messaged me and said:

"I'd fuck you."

thats it. nothing else.

should i be:
Flattered that a 20 year old wants to fuck me
Offended that a 20 year old had nothig to say other than he would fuck me
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An Interesting Delema
Posted:Jul 23, 2019 1:23 am
Last Updated:Aug 3, 2019 11:41 pm

Hey Guys,

I just got home from work and was checking my messages.

I had a message from a 20 year old guy.

it read, and i quote:

"Id fuck you."

I don't know how to feel about this?

Should i be flattered or offended?

what do you think?
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My Erotic Stories
Posted:Jul 21, 2019 6:29 pm
Last Updated:Jul 21, 2019 8:09 pm

Hey Guys.

Thought i would post about my Erotic Stories. I write alot of them on here. They are all fiction. Though some are based on real people I know.

I enjoy writing. Im currently writing a novel. So writing is something i'm good at. I wrote a lot more erotic stories but deleted a bunch of them because the guy i wrote them about has a GF now and I didnt want to post stuff like that since i did in fact use his .

so if anyone has any ideas for a story please let me know what you'd like to see me write about id be happy to take suggestions.

take it easy.
Getting Back On Track
Posted:Jul 17, 2019 6:58 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2019 8:30 pm

Hey guys,

trying my best to get back on track.

Everything has been really rough for as of late.

not going to let any assholes put down or make feel bad about myself.

I am in control of my life and how i live it.

hopefully i will find someone who i can connect with and not going to give up.
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and thats why i never meet anyone...
Posted:Jul 16, 2019 2:20 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2019 2:22 am

I was just talking to a guy who i thought was cool.

but he turned out to just be another asshole.

he said he would get back to me after he got dinner last night,

then never responded again.

so i simply messaged him and said:

ok i guess your not interested i wont bother you anymore

and he immediately responded with sarcasm and insults.

again this is why i have trouble trusting people on this site.

and why i never meet anyone.

i highly doubt ill ever find anyone worth while on this site.

Feeling Better
Posted:Jul 11, 2019 10:25 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2019 1:11 am

Hey Guys,

Thanks for all the well wishes my cat and I are feelings a lot better.

trying to get myself back on track.

its been a rough week.

but going to get through it.

thanks again all.
Having a rough time
Posted:Jul 9, 2019 8:27 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2019 9:57 pm

Hey guys,

Im having a really tough time right now.

my cat is really sick.

and im really sick.

and my finances are a mess due to the vet bills.

im not sure what im going to do.

im trying to relax and take my medication and get better, but things are so hard right now.

between my cat being sick and me being sick.

anyways. wish me luck?
A Lucky Break
Posted:Jul 6, 2019 12:57 am
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2019 8:04 pm

Well I got really lucky.

I was gifted a 2 year gold membership

not sure how or why.

but im very grateful for it.

so im good in that aspect.

Im taking the advice of people who posted on my previous post.

I am looking for a man who is between the ages of 25-48

who is caucasion

who is funny and loves laugh

has a good sense of humor

and enjoys oral sex

someone who is patient and will be understanding with my situation. (please see my previous post)

Anyways. please feel free send a message. if you would like .

To link to this blog (Janet80sGirl) use [blog Janet80sGirl] in your messages.

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