Feeling Hopeless  

Janet80sGirl 49F  
37 posts
9/7/2019 11:40 pm
Feeling Hopeless

Hey All,

its been a while since my last post. Its been a while, and i just still am not having any luck on here. It really sucks. I would love to meet someone and hook up, but I am just not finding anyone who excites me.

I mean I know im not a perfect 10, but I would like someone close to my age or younger. It seems the only guys who are interested in me are over 60 and that is very much not what im looking for. (I am 47) .

Everything just feels so hopeless as far as meeting anyone. I got so freaked out cuz some random guy found out where I worked, so i disabled my account for a while, but that totally screwed me over and i lost over a year of my gold membership so yeah. theres that too.

So i really dont know what will become of me on here. I may just stick to chatting online and that being it. I cant see me meeting anyone right now. Im way to insecure especially whenever i try to talk to someone they prove to be some kind of asshole.

I talked to this one guy who didnt respond to me. so i assumed he wasnt interested and told him so and said i wouldnt bother him again. he then proceeded to message me back and tell me how full of myself i was, and that if i was that sure about things i should buy him a birthday gift to. I was like WTF? Its like even guys on here i am slightly interested in are turning out to be straight up assholes.

Anyways. I may just continue doing what ive been doing. ignoring all the messages i get. and just get off privately watching others cam.

I mean at least thats something i guess.

If anyone has any advice please let me know?

foundmature121 41M
40 posts
9/8/2019 12:25 am

are you into taboo sex you into kinky dirty sex i am looking for someone to meet.

bigdee30032 39M
26 posts
9/8/2019 2:43 am


somcubs 63M  

9/8/2019 5:14 am

Just keep being yourself stick to what your looking for piss on all the ass hats that try to demean you someone will come along patence is the key since im not a PAYING member on here about all I can do is read these blogs so it could be some guys cant respond Best of Luck Keep Smiling

seems6666 51F
4758 posts
9/8/2019 7:27 am

Just go with the flow, take everything you see and hear with a large pinch of salt.. don't push it... when you're not looking someone will pop up

s2ndegree 62M  
9797 posts
9/8/2019 8:46 pm

There was a super suggestion yesterday about going through all the local profiles and just blocking all the fuglies,as she put it. married couples,nut jobs.
You could just block all the quasideadgeriatriczombies say over 55 years old!

Using more than all the road!

Janet80sGirl replies on 9/8/2019 9:52 pm:
No. I would never block someone unless they were saying messed up stuff to me. even if im not interested in them. im not going to block someone just for that reason alone. that does not strike me as a valid reason to block someone. i try to be honest about people in interested in and not interested in. if people respond poorly then yes. i will block.

Yours_4A_knight 56M
1501 posts
9/8/2019 8:56 pm

I wish that I could offer some meaningful advise but I am honestly mirroring your experience in that the site has been an absolute bust for me, not finding anyone that i am interested in and those women that I do write, for all the response I get, I might as well have written what I had to say on a post-it note, wadded it up and tossed it in the trash
I do hope that it gets better for you, as for myself I am really not trying any longer, there is just no point.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

Notaname99 61M  
564 posts
9/10/2019 11:38 am

This site has its issues. There are some genuine and nice people here. Unfortunately, they all seem to be somewhere long distance.
There are several people I know that are here for the blogs and conversation. That is what this has come to.

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