Trying to Define Myself  

JaniceJanes 46T  
713 posts
6/23/2019 1:12 pm
Trying to Define Myself

Lately I have had a problem with being a Trans-anything. I don’t mean in a physical or emotional way. It just the prefix Trans.

To me, Trans signifies something in motion, progress or action. Just look at some of the ways Trans is used;


Just to list a few, there are many more actions with the prefix Trans of course.

Please note, in each place where Trans is used it indicates something is happening. What isn’t obvious is what occurred after the Trans whatever is complete..

For example, after a Transaction at a bank you go on about a separate action. You spend the you withdrew maybe but the Transaction part is complete.

When you order something from Amazon you get a Text it is in Transit. Next notice says Delivered so again the Transit part is complete.

Here’s where I have problem. A person who is called a Transsexual is implied as someone is in progress. What happens when process is over or complete?

In today’s world being a Trans anything is now meant to be someone who has assumed a different gender identity than the time of their birth. Someone who has Transitioned.

’s all fine during the process of Transitioning but what should it be called after the Transition is complete, when you’ve gone as far as you can or what.

Maybe we should be like package from Amazon. After being in Transit, we have been Delivered or have Arrived. Time to open the box and enjoy what you ordered. The Trans part is over. Time for the next phase.

This is where I am now. I have Transitioned physically, emotionally and mentally as far as I plan to go. So I don’t consider myself a Trans anything anymore.

But how to describe this in a short, brief meaningful word or phrase has me perplexed. To say “I have Arrived” is somewhat pompous. To call myself “Delivered” sounds too spiritual. I can’t say i’m “Complete” because would indicate I’ve had Sexual Reassignment Surgery, which i haven’t and don’t plan to.

So, how to I define myself in todays world loves acronyms and short clever terms? I’m not sure. I talked with my partner about this and he said I was a “Sexual Mixture” or “Gender Composite”.

Not sure I total like those terms but maybe I’ll work on them and come up with something better, more descriptive.

If anyone who reads this Blog Post has an idea, please let me know.


wimaturelover69 63M
130 posts
6/23/2019 1:28 pm

It may be a word, it may be a phrase; not sure. But let me ponder. Best I can do at this point is Emerged or Emergent. All I know is that some one as beautiful, intelligent and sensual as you, deserves a very,very special designation.

davydogg69 63M
55 posts
6/23/2019 2:02 pm

you should stop worrying about everybody's labels and define yourself as a beautiful human

eroticgolem 53M
39 posts
6/23/2019 2:13 pm

How about the truest me... all of us are in flux one way or another.. your authenticity is touching nd meal. You are simply you, a beautiful, intelligent desiabeable being. No need for trans.. looks like you have arrived.

hari19455 72M
115 posts
6/23/2019 2:27 pm

Think you are lovely as you are I would love to spend time with you!!!!!!!

dogslife2live01 69M

6/23/2019 3:59 pm

you were born male
you look like a woman
so you have already TRANSferred.... but it seems more like in body than mind
but what is important to you
how you see you or how the world sees you.
like for example take your partner in the beginning he saw potential in a relationship
now you have TRANSpired into solemates
but enough of this crap...
throw away the labels and be what you are
a lady in love
bonne chance

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity

CleavageFan4U 64M  
69109 posts
6/23/2019 6:51 pm

"I have Transitioned physically, emotionally and mentally as far as I plan to go. So I don’t consider myself a Trans anything anymore" so that would make you post-sexual? NO, WAIT, the doesn't sound good either.

How about "I'm me, a person, ask what you want to know"?

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Leegs2012 49M  
93166 posts
6/24/2019 8:05 am

Transitioned sounds very good. You are gorgeous!! Please friend me.

SirPeterStone 65M
159 posts
7/13/2019 5:39 am

This Post Trying to Define Myself sums up your process well. The blog explains your thought process clearly and cogently. .

The great thing is that personally you have the freedom to Define Yourself.

Like an Amazon order, you have been delivered and have arrived at being the wonderful, talented and beautiful woman that you are.

But I am worried. sadly the current political climate is moving the legal position backwards. Limiting Legal rights that impact on our being able to define ourselves

The more conservative Judiciary that is being put in place by President Trump and Mcconnell in the Senate. Will dramatically shift the US Judiciary for more than two Generations.

I am afraid that the legal right of self determination and privacy will be severely limited over the coming decades.

6inchjoey 52M

11/21/2019 2:57 pm

I wouldn't worry your to darn sexy to be worrying xo

Leegs2012 49M  
93166 posts
11/22/2019 11:15 am

You are so sexy and beautiful!! Don't ever change anything about you!!! You look great!!

Geiler_Bi_Lover 57M
113 posts
12/23/2019 2:47 am

very hot and sexy Lady - i want lick her

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