How do I get noticed?  

JohnnyChi317 25M  
11 posts
9/7/2021 2:11 pm
How do I get noticed?


I feel like I’m very adventurous and very friendly & fun, but I can’t get anyone to talk to me on here?! How do I as a single male make myself stand out more?

HAMONMAN 62M
12914 posts
9/7/2021 3:35 pm

Hi and welcome to blogging !

Don't be a douche - based on comments from women here, there's a high douchiness factor that they are subjected to on this (and other) hookup websites.

Good luck with your quest.


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We can't even make a decent starter solenoid any longer.


lonlyforlove2 79M
23030 posts
9/7/2021 5:29 pm

Young Man, I as a standard member can't look at your profile, but the first thing is to make it stand out, Put some real stuff in it. Be creative..

You are also in the right spot. engage the bloggers.. Read, watch and learn . you will easiely see/hear what most ladies do want to see and what some find objectionable..

Go so far as to post all the profile as a blog post, even standard members can see this..

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BiggLala 49F  
30139 posts
9/7/2021 6:18 pm

How do I as a single male make myself stand out more?
-Whenever I read posts from men asking how to stand out, I always look at their pics first. I have one question for you...how do YOU think you can make yourself standout when your pics are ALL THE SAME as 99% of other men here? And...your profile reads like 99% of other male profiles.

Like...here's an analogy to give you some perspective. From the following, which letters are uppercase letter " I " and lowercase letter " L ": IIIIIIIIIIIlIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII

This is just my feedback since you asked.

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BiSussi 61F
1189 posts
9/7/2021 7:32 pm

At your age, with your looks, you should be overbooked every day
Use the search functions on FriendFinder-x, invest a couple of hours a week to send "smart" messages and you will have a date every night for sure
It works for me, it shall also work for you
You will meet GF of GF this way, not only FriendFinder-x members, the world is open to you, just enter the main gate
If you ever in Cali or when I am in ORD, would love to meet you for coffee or tea
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Love doesn’t discriminate, nor do I Married or single, you love me & I fall in love with you, I shall do anything 4 YOU It is not about 88b size it is all about LOVE What is Your position on DP Very young and steel hard is what I desire, but twenties and early thirties will not be refused when love is part of it


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peninsula_ 51M
179 posts
9/7/2021 8:29 pm

All what those said and, make a better profile photo. So it's not just the photo it is also what the thumbnail of that photo looks like. I guarantee that you yourself are more attracted or click more on well defined, clear, contrasting colored thumbnail profiles. Good examples are here to emulate.

My thumbnail photo suffers from this as well, it has a dark area around my waist and the mind fills in the data, which can be bad. When I look at your thumbnail I see white man over white background. One third of the photo is sink. Just something to think about.

Comment on photos in the "New Activities" area of your home page. Create a blog of some goal or order to showcase yourself. Comment on blogs. Be creative and positive knowing that your love interest will be watching.

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AusTex129 41M/44F
1 post
9/7/2021 9:06 pm

Its the exact same for me. No will give you the time to even see if you are a douche.


agelesssexylegs 78F
1055 posts
9/7/2021 9:11 pm

Well be open and honest about yourself for starters


WyoCowboy7751 68M
2346 posts
9/8/2021 4:59 am

    Quoting agelesssexylegs:
    Well be open and honest about yourself for starters
At times I have been, " open and honest " about myself, Only to turn around and get Lamb Blasted and Male Bashed for It by some of the Females On Here !!!!!


BiSussi 61F
1189 posts
9/8/2021 12:22 pm

    Quoting AusTex129:
    Its the exact same for me. No will give you the time to even see if you are a douche.
I have a hard time to believe you
M/F couples are very much desired by bi-girls Have you used the search function of FriendFinder-x yet? It can do wonders

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Love doesn’t discriminate, nor do I Married or single, you love me & I fall in love with you, I shall do anything 4 YOU It is not about 88b size it is all about LOVE What is Your position on DP Very young and steel hard is what I desire, but twenties and early thirties will not be refused when love is part of it


I love pussies and adore nice dicks


JohnnyChi317 25M  
1 post
9/8/2021 7:22 pm

Wow thanks for all the advice everyone! Definitely going to use some of the tools on this site a little differently, and I’m going to make my account a bit more impressionable. The hardest part is differentiating myself from guys who just want sex on a website where many people just, you know…want sex.

Anyways, I appreciate the responses so far! Keep the answers coming.


melrosecpl 62M/60F
503 posts
10/5/2021 1:00 pm

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