WHAT DOES AN ORGASM FEEL LIKE?
|
Posted:Sep 11, 2018 12:14 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2018 12:23 pm
1056 Views
|
: Women who have never experienced orgasm, and women who are not sure if they have, often ask . . . "What does an orgasm feel like?"
This is a hard, if not impossible, question to answer. Imagine trying to explain to someone what it feels like to sneeze or yawn. Not easy to do! How our senses and brain interpret physical stimuli is subjective; that is dependent solely on the individual's perceptions. Subjective reports frequently mention a sensation of tingling in the spine, brain, and genital areas. While some women relay an experience being on the verge of passing out, others report a level of enjoyment only somewhat less than that of "earth moving".!!!
WHAT KIND OF ORGASM DO YOU HAVE?: Did you know that most men say their good in bed--BUT--being "good" in bed is a relative term? If you have PASSION for a subject; you will not need a "tele-prompter" or speech notes; similarly, being "passionate" in bed equates to being "good" in bed!!!
If a man's only goal is to have an orgasm--he will never enjoy pleasuring a woman. If men just step back for a little bit and understood women--there would be very little divorce!
An orgasm is the ultimate high of reaching that mountaintop of pleasure:
A man and woman’s orgasm are vastly different. While a man ejaculates from friction on the glans of the penis; a women’s orgasm is a rapid firing of sensory nerves in the vaginal area along with pleasurable muscle spasms. Some women can only have one orgasm; while others are multi-orgasmic; and, other women ejaculate during orgasms (some consider a women's ejaculation the most powerful orgasm a women can have). However, there is another very specific type of female that can have a much more powerful orgasm—do you know who?
A man's brain is wired completely different from a women's brain--that is why God gave women the privilege and right to give birth to man! After an erection; the average guy takes between 3 – 7 minutes for him to orgasm; however, if a woman is not properly stimulated--she will never have an orgasm.
The clitoris is an amazingly complex structure and is similar in function to the head of the male penis; however, a clitoris is up to four times more sensitive (the clitoris holds 6,000 - 8,000 sensory nerve endings, more than any other structure in the human body!). Nothing on the human body exceeds the clitoris' ability to receive and transmit sensations of touch, pressure, or vibration.
A majority of the women have clitoral orgasms; others have vaginal wall or deep cervical orgasms and some have “G-Spot” stimulated orgasms (G-Spot = a soft spongy area directly beneath the pubic bone).
WHICH SEX HAS THE STRONGEST ORGASM?: It is a combination of having both a penis and a vagina that gives the strongest orgasm! Hint = Hermaphrodite!
Orgasms in their strength index:
• Vaginal Wall Muscle Contraction Orgasm
• Clitoral (Spasmic) Orgasm
• Combination Orgasm of Vaginal Wall Muscles and Clitoral Spasms
• Ejaculate Orgasm (commonly referred to as Squirting) - this is an extremely powerful and exhausting Orgasm
THE MOST POWERFUL ORGASM IS HAD BY A HERMAPHRODITE: This is a woman who has both vaginal and penile fully-functioning sex organs. She can have; both a penile ejaculating orgasm and a women's Clitoral Spasmodic Orgasm simultaneously. Further, if the hermaphrodite can "squirt"--it can exhaust her to cause her to either faint or fall asleep literally immediately.
MY OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE:
In India, traditionally, an Ashram is a spiritual place; additionally, today the term ashram often denotes Indian cultural activity such as yoga, the study of music or religious instruction. Approximately 40-years ago Ashram's started teaching westerners the art and science of pleasure. I was one of the first to attend due to my proximity (less than a mile!) to "BollyWood" similar to our "HollyWood"
In my post teenage years; I spent some time (when I was living in India) at an Ashram. Ashrams are akin to a sanctuary for spirituality; however, the more progressive Ashrams taught some of the Tenets of Kama Sutra and basic human sexuality. The Ashram I attended actually taught--both men and women--"The Art of Pleasure”. During this course, there was a strict adherence to some basic rules; a man was not allowed to have sexual intercourse with a woman. While this may sound strange; reason, no sexual intercourse--the woman was not his Wife.
The actual complete course was a month long-but I only attended a week. There were actually classes and courses of study that gave instruction both to men and women first on the science of human sexuality and actual practical roles in basic pleasuring techniques whether orally or by hand (age ranges from 19 to 90!).
Anal sex was completely forbidden. Men were not allowed to dominate Women in anyway. There was zero tolerance for any sort of pain-OR-any kind of "kinky" fetishes.
You first learned how to masturbate and come to terms with your own sexuality. For a man you learned how important it was to First Please and Pleasure a Woman. For the Woman, she learned to accept and allow her Man to please her before she did anything for a man. Men learned how to use their hands and mouth to give pleasure.
I learned how to both please and pleasure a Woman in so many different ways! While I was only 19; I do believe that experience gave me a deep insight and a mature understanding of a Woman's Sexuality (by no means do I consider myself an expert); however, I do strongly believe that a PASSION TO PLEASE is the essence of a Gentleman. It was one of the best experiences I have ever had.
What type of orgasm can you experience? Can you shed your inhibitions and completely relax yourself to allow your body to experience a multiple orgasmic release?
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
MASSAGE IS FOREPLAY & BUILDS TRUST!
|
Posted:Sep 11, 2018 12:28 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2018 12:30 pm
1874 Views
|
Massage therapy history dates back thousands of years to ancient cultures that believed in it's medical benefits. The first written records of massage therapy are found in China and Egypt
The practice of using touch as a healing method derives from customs and techniques rooted in ancient history. Civilizations in the East and West found that natural healing and massage could heal injuries, relieve pain, and prevent and cure illnesses. What’s more, it helped reduce stress and produce deep relaxation.
Massage therapy began as a system of natural healing. However, cultural shifts rendered it a disreputable form of indulgence for extensive periods of history. In ancient Rome; the wealthy received massages in their homes by personal physicians. The recipients would first bathe themselves and then receive a full body massage to stimulate circulation and loosen their joints. Massages typically included oils to benefit the skin. A Happy Ending was part of this culture for quite some time! Massage in general endured a reputation as unsavory with the advent of massage parlors where the practice became associated with the sex trade.
MASSAGE IS FOREPLAY & BUILDS TRUST: In my humble opinion; Massage is the Touch of Comfort: offering both physical relaxation and destressing and an emotional support with a release of stress thru sensuality.
A CARING PERSONALITY is part of a good massage. Humans in general, have the unique ability to perceive touch as either hostile or intimate; so, generally, a massage’s therapeutic effect is the consequence of a "hands-on" treatment which is judged to be both desirable and beneficial. Some women take a long time to warm-up; thus, foreplay is very important to satisfying a woman. Sometimes it can take up to 20-min before a women can be sufficiently aroused--a classic indication is her “wetness” down there!
PERCEPTIVE UNDERSTANDING: massage is based on a perceptive understanding of the sense of touch. That is, a massage giver’s gentleness creates a feeling of safety with the receiver. Additionally, the massage giver’s intuitive caring and kindness ultimately creates a mutual trust between massager and receiver. Thus, a “passion to please” will be reciprocated when the roles of the massage giver and receiver switch. Without trust it is very difficult to experience either the therapeutic aspect or uninhibited sensuality.
My massages are loosely based on the art of Tantric Massage; an ancient art that dates back to the KamaSutra which is; an ancient Hindu text widely considered to be the original work on human sexual behavior. In India--some 30 to 40 years ago; Tantric massages were performed by women on men in a way to appease the male sexual appetite and curb the population--it actually was quite succesful in certain parts of the country. However, as anything good--it has been perversed.
Believe it or not, Hermaphrodites in India are some of the best Tantric teachers--I learned from one. A Hermaphrodite is not to be confused with a Tranvestite; a true hermaphrodite--looks just like a women in all ways--with one exception--her clitoris is a phallus--or in other words a fuly grown and functional penis with a vaginal canal below. She is able to orgasm like a women and orgasm like a man--she can bear !!!... Although, Indian OB/GYN doctors will not deliver offspring. I just realized, how much I have digressed!
Yoni Massage: At a young age I learned how to do a Yoni massage and over the years I have become quite good at it. The key to giving a Yoni massage is trust, kindness, respect and gentleness. It is an extremely exhilirating and relaxing experience. It is actually quite difficult to do and requires a lot of self control and attention to detail on part of the giver. The end result is not intended to be an orgasm; however, if an orgasm occurs it is considered a special benefit. By the way, the Yoni massage also involves an anal massage depending on the comfort and trust level of the receiver. It is very important to know--there can never be any penetration; that is, intercourse, during or after a Yoni massage. It will desensitize the vaginal walls and leave you feeling tired and tense.
Most men say they are the "real man" or they are great in "bed"; all that is subjective-because-without "passion" & "confidence" a woman gets bored easily! I have learned the art of Tantric Massage in the far east and probably have over 30-years experience giving soothing/flowing massages! I am very much looking forward to giving you this relaxing, de-stressing and very pleasurable expereince!
Massage offers both a therapeutic aspect and a sensual balance; frankly, I find this much more gratifying than the actual physical act of sexual intercourse.
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
PART1~OF YOUR SENSUAL PLEASURE
|
Posted:Sep 11, 2018 12:21 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2018 12:29 pm
1045 Views
|
This is the 1st part of your sensual pleasure; if you like, after you have read this one-PLEASE--tell me how you feel after reading this essay? Are you ready to--PART2?
I will have you lay on your stomach; I will start out with some feather touch strokes over your complete back of your body—running my hands over your calves, inner thighs, in-between your butt—touching you down there ever so gently in a slightly teasing manner and turn on some music!
I will approach you from your head side as you face down. I will pour some baby oil gel [or professional massage oil) on your shoulders, back and butt area—gently massaging you from the nape of your neck to the small of your back. I will use gentle fluid strokes in a downward motion ending at the top of your butt. I will continue these strokes starting from the top of your spinal column working my way outward to your sides. As I work my way outward—with both hands I will massage your sides as if I was pulling you toward me.My fingers and the palm of my hands will slowly massage your hip and work my underneath to your pubic bone and then slowly pull forward to your breasts (this part of the massage can take up to 15 min)
I will change my position and face the bottom of your feet. I will start to massage your calves working my way down to your feet. I will use my thumbs to loosen your calf muscles and my knuckles to stimulate the bottom of your feet. I will work my way up to the area directly behind your knee cap massaging the soft bend in between your thigh and calf. Now I will move to one side and concentrate on relaxing your left thigh and then do the same to the right with kneading and circular motion.
As you continue to lay face down; with your legs slightly apart I will massage the inner area around your Pussy—but—only just so slightly touching Pussy’s outer muscle walls. I will massage your inner butt and around your anus (the anal area has some erogenous zones—but I am not into any sort of penetration in that area—maybe just a tease on the rim).
Using my thumbs I will ever so gently massage your Pussy’s outer lips—paying close attention to the inner lips. I will start gently guiding my fingers/palms above your pubic bone and hold Pussy in the palm of my hands as a sign that I will never hurt you in any way. I will repeat this process until you start to get wet. By now, if I am doing everything right—you should start to feel relaxed (elapsed time approx 30min)
I will have you turn over on to your back and place a couple of pillows under your hips. At this point you I am hoping that you are quite relaxed and in anticipation of what comes next!
I will approach you from behind your head—slowly caressing your face—loosening all that tension in your jaw muscles. I will then massage in circular strokes in-between your breasts slowly working my way up to your nipples. Using my fore-finger and thumb—I will gently twirl your nipples and squeezing just so slightly to excite them. I will then massage your abdominal area—making sure I use clockwise circular motions. Using the palms of my hands and finger I willmassage your mound (pubic bone area) and come down (like the apex of a triangle) with my fingers closing the lips of your pussy. Massaging in-between you’re thigh and pussy on either side to once again stimulate you. I will gently spread your legs with your knees slightly bent. I will pour some baby oil on you--just enough to where it will drip down the walls of your Pussy.
I will start by massaging your pubic bone right above your Pussy in a slow downward angle--working my way down to your outer lips--using a slow gentle 'up/down’ motion--this can take a while depending on your arousal.
This stimulation will allow your lips to swell and open up your clitoris. Gently, squeezing the outer lip between my thumb and index finger, I will slide up and down the entire length of each lip and do the same for your inner lips of your Pussy. (At all times, please give me feedback as to pressure, speed, etc.)
It is important that we both focus on you and try to limit speaking to only your instructions on your pleasure and anything that may inadvertently cause you pain (of course, you know, I would never hurt you). I will start to stroke the hood protecting the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles; I will gently squeeze it between my thumb and index fingers--this will be done in massaging/squeezing technique.
Slowly and with care and with your permission; I will insert my middle finger into you and very gently explore and massage the inside walls of your Pussy. Your Pussy will naturally widen and will allow me to curve my middle finger toward my palm in a sort of "come here" motion. I will gently make contact with a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is normally referred to as the G-spot. (you might feel the need to urinate or experience a little discomfort but hopefully only pleasure!)
My varying pressure, speed and pattern of movement will most likely cause you to move a little. But, I promise not to loose my spot! If and when you are comfortable; I would like to use two fingers inside you and the base of my thumb on your clitoris--as I gently move in and out of your "G-Spot"; I will massage your clitoris with my thumb in an up/down motion. At the same time, I will use my left hand to massage your breasts, abdomen and pubic bone.
This dual stimulation of right and left hands will hopefully give you a lot of pleasure. Depending on your sensitivity—there is a good chance you will have a slow rising orgasm—this will be an intimate moment.
Sometimes there are powerful emotions during this heightened sensitivity—let them all out--as you experience a orgasm or a wave of orgasms that will hopefully grow in intensity--I will stop slowly so you can enjoy the waves; allowing you to relax and enjoy the afterglow of your multi-orgasms.
This is Part1 of your Sensual Bliss; there is still a Part2--would you like read it???
I thank you in advance for hopefully giving me an opportunity to relax and please you! This is Part1 of your Sensual Bliss; there is still a Part2--would you like read it???
AT ALL TIMES IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO GIVE ME FEEDBACK—SO—I NEVER ACCIDENTALLY HURT YOU—OR—DO SOMETHING YOU DO NOT LIKE
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
PART2-AN ORGASMIC BLISS PERFORMED ORALLY
|
Posted:Sep 11, 2018 12:25 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2018 12:29 pm
1052 Views
|
AN ORGASMIC BLISS PERFORMED ORALLY
I will start with a gentle tongue massage from the crease between your inner thigh all the way to your Pussy’s lips and down to your entrance and then up to your Queen. I will repeat as if I am trying to say hello to your Pussy! Now your Pussy will hopefully be ready for a little 'sensual' inspection. Gently pulling your lips apart—I will lick and suck gently on Pussy’s inner lips. Now it is time to visit Pussy’s ‘prepuce’ (your predominant foreskin or hood). My tongue will be exploring—looking for that one zone that makes you buck. My tongue will hover over your beautiful clit with its awesome wings!!!
Your Pussy’s Jewel (Clit) is yet to delicate to touch—so I will just have to come close—like I am visiting at the door! I want to grow Pussy’s anticipation. So, for now, I will just have to visit your inner thigh near Pussy; just licking, kissing and making designs with my tongue; coming close to Pussy but then just floating away. My lips will meet your Pussy’s lips—sticking my tongue out just a little—travelling up and down Pussy’s slit. Now Pussy’s anticipation grows as my tongue separates her pussy lips; as I run my tongue up and down between the layers of your Pussy!
I gently spread your legs and stick my tongue deep inside you as if it were a small penis. Hopefully, Pussy’s anticipation has grown to following my tongue everywhere it goes! Pussy’s anticipation is rewarded with my tongue coming up the top of her slit to gently feel for her Queen. With a courtesy bow to Pussy’s Queen—I start massaging your clit's hood.
At the same time I will run my tongue in a figure '8' on your Wings--taking special care to suck on each one gently and then spreading my mouth over your wings and sucking gentle like it were a baby penis!!!
Now it is time to gently pull Pussy’s lips and gently flick my tongue over your clit. Pussy will start sending warm and tingling signals thru out your body--from your toes to your beasts!!! When I sense this I will make my lips like an O and take Pussy’s Queen into my mouth with a gentle suck--I will give your clit an oral massage as I am sucking your clit!!!
It is time for me to hang on as Pussy takes control of your whole body—Pussy will whispering in my ear—DO NOT STOP! Pussy may want me to use my fingers inside of her . . .I will use my fingers to gently do a little massage on that soft spongy area (the roof of your vagina; which is also know as the “G” SPOT!). My fingers will be doing the “walk-about” on that spongy area in a gentle rhythm while I am sucking on Pussy’s Queen.
Pussy now knows that I am doing what no cock can do for her. As Pussy starts to reach its climax I will wrap my tongue along the underside of her clit--while your body writhes in an orgasm!!! I promise to do my best to please you! Sincerely, 4U!
I will give you all the sensitivity you need to relax and enjoy every moment of this erotic, sensual and awesome orgasm for YOU!
S/j
Now that you have read my rather intimate tongue massage--close your eyes and imagine me doing this to your succulent pussy--I hope to make you feel and enjoy this very very soon--so--maybe? You will say it is nothing like you have ever experienced!
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
Basic Rights in Relationships
|
Posted:Sep 11, 2018 12:33 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 3:30 pm
1057 Views
|
I have the right to: Have my needs and feelings be as important as anyone else’s.
I have the right to: Experience and express my feelings, if I choose to do so.
I have the right to: Express my opinions, if I choose to do so.
I have the right to: Set my own priorities.
I have the right to: Establish independence if I choose to.
I have the right to: Decide how I spend my time.
I have the right to: Choose my own lifestyle.
I have the right to: Change my lifestyle, myself, my behaviors, my values, my life situation, and my mind.
I have the right to: Make honest mistakes and to admit those mistakes without feeling humiliated.
I have the right to: Self-fulfillment through my own talents and interests.
I have the right to: Grow as a person and to accept new challenges.
I have the right to: Choose who I spend my time with and who I share my body with.
I have the right to: Be treated with dignity and respect in all my relationships.
I have the right to: Be listened to respectfully.
I have the right to: Ask for what I want assertively.
I have the right to: Say “I don’t understand” or “I don’t know” without being humiliated.
I have the right to: Say “No,” and to set limits and boundaries without feeling guilty.
I have the right to: Set limits on how I will be treated in relationships.
I have the right to: Expect my boundaries to be respected.
I have the right to: Walk away from toxic or abusive relationships.
I have the right to: Have these Basic Human Rights and to stand up for them.
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
To link to this blog (LUV2DATY5) use [blog LUV2DATY5] in your messages.
|
|
|
| Sun |
Mon |
Tue |
Wed |
Thu |
Fri |
Sat |
| |
|
|
|
|
|
1
|
2
|
3
|
4
|
5
|
6
|
7
|
8
|
9
|
10
|
115
|
12
|
13
|
14
|
15
|
16
|
17
|
18
|
19
|
20
|
21
|
22
|
23
|
24
|
25
|
26
|
27
|
28
|
29
|
30
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
