Does anyone have the answer?
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Posted:Aug 2, 2015 7:54 pm
Last Updated:Aug 2, 2015 8:20 pm
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Not 100% sure what the question even is. I guess if we all had the answer we would not be on FriendFinder-x.
I sit here listening to the silence and realize it is August. I swear it was just June. I feel I am missing out on my own life. I found a nice guy in real world and we hit it off, but the second he gets serious.............I run away, push him away and find myself here.
Is it panic? The thrill of the hunt? Indecisiveness? Or could he just be all wrong for me? Maybe I need a nice wimpy guy who will be happy sitting home while I do my thing? Or a dominant guy who will keep me in line so to speak? Or maybe a guy who will treat me like a queen and keep me focused?
Relationships are not my strong point it seems. Yet all around me in my daily world are couples together from 20-35 years. I tried twice........never got past 10 years. Also engaged for 5 and that was not a good relationship from day one in retrospect.
I tried the casual just have fun thing.......that too had drawbacks.
Oh I can make myself nuts over thinking all this!
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Been a while
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Posted:Mar 5, 2015 9:25 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2015 5:21 pm
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You know those moments when life gets all crazy? I've been having a few of those in some aspects of life. Random crap-
Winter- So over snow and cold and ice. Not sure why when we were young the thought of snow made us happy! Then again i know there are some who enjoy winter sports so I guess they are happy. Spring ahead Saturday, can't be long until suntans and sundresses.
I have to admit I have taken a few cool pictures of snow etc. But no one here wants to see those type pics! 
My main frustration- Time, never enough, goes to slow or too fast and some people just can't make any for those they claim to care about. Which brings up the question of how honest are those claims?
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Favorite things
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Posted:Jan 25, 2015 2:43 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 2:50 pm
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What are you favorite things?
A drink shared with a friend?
Arms pulling you close either in passion or just pull you closer?
Laughter?
That look in your lovers eye that gets the action started?
Sunshine spilling thru a window?
That song coming on that makes you- dance? Cry? Sing along?
Peaceful silence?
An amazing sunset? Or sunrise?
The beach?
A good meal?
A good book?
A movie that transports you to another time or place?
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Men!
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Posted:Jan 16, 2015 4:57 am
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2015 5:03 am
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Men complain that there are no real women or women willing to meet on here. From woman's perspective I call bullshit. Nothing better then emailing then texting a guy, feeling hey we are compatible, he is sane and It's time we meet. Start planning and all of a sudden the man who was always around gets "busy".
Somehow I think it is the man getting cold feet cause women are scary! What are you afraid of? Public place, no pressure meet. Interact and decide if you wish to continue or if no attraction. Are men afraid of a woman who wants casual relationship? Or do men talk a good game but back down when faced with the thought of being used for sex? Or do the guys want more but are not admitting it?
Hiding behind a screen, not meeting someone you seem to get along with is the reason people complain that they never meet anyone!!
Get out there, have cup of coffee or a drink or whatever, break the ice....you never know who or what you might discover.
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Why do "straight" guys have so many male friends/fans?
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Posted:Jan 11, 2015 11:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2015 4:58 am
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Open a profile, nice looking guy....straight looking for woman and couples. You read on the rest seems good. Then boom he has 4 top fans who are men and 75% of friends are men. Makes me wonder just how straight he is. If you are a bi male please just put it in your profile.
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One of those days
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Posted:Jan 11, 2015 10:58 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 2:50 pm
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Today is one of the days where being a single woman sucks. One where you would like to know someone has your back. And sorry but a FWB will not be there.
Day started great, slept in after a fun evening. Showered and out the door with 4 goals-coffee, oil change, wiper blades and groceries. Coffee-check. Oil change...3 places told me a 2 hour wait to even start. Ok back to walmart, figured leave car walk to see a movie, got paperwork done....they are out of my oil and air filters! Grabbed keys and went in search of wipers, simple right? NO! need a 28 and a 14, one 28 and of course the 23 dollar one. Not a 14 to be seen. Some guy being helpful said add them up and split it, do 2 same size. Ok even as a woman I know the timing etc is set for the arm length. SO I did a 28 and found a matching 13. Groceries went well.
Now to change the wipers and add washer fluid. Once I got the clips off that was easy, changed both in seconds. Thought that was the hard part. Well guess again. Opened hood, took the entire gallon to fill the tank. Done and went to close the hood....last second I realized the cap was sitting in way, went to move it and yep hood closed on my fingers! I think I said words I did not know.
It would have been so much easier to say "Hun could you please get get my car in order while I make you breakfast?" and then a blow job later to show my thanks?
Instead I have a bleeding finger and that injury takes away any pride in saying I did it myself.
But I can see out my windshield even if oil is not changed. And with ice coming tonight I need to see more then I need clean oil.
Done ranting, need to change the bandaid on my finger.
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Rambling on about type
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Posted:Jan 10, 2015 10:02 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 2:50 pm
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I never thought I had a certain list of qualifications for a guy. More a total package type appeal. But I am beginning to notice a pattern in the profiles I am drawn to. Nope not going to say what it is or isn't that draws me in. And it's not the obvious either. I know in real life I am not a suit and tie girl and messy guys don't draw me either. A dark sulky guy is appealing, so is the normal guy at the grocery store. But all for their own reasons. But once the outer shell of daily life is stripped away each guy seems to change and I'm not talking about just clothing.
Guys what you miss is that while you may be very proud of that below the belt picture, we want to know the guy behind that pic. The funny one, the serious one, the smart one and most of all the one we want to have sex with.
Yes what appeals to the eye draws us in, what keeps us interested is a bit deeper.
Oh well back to finding those profiles that make me stop and want to read the entire thing versus skipping right past.
PS- Grooming is good
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What goes thru men's heads?
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Posted:Jan 8, 2015 3:07 pm
Last Updated:Jan 10, 2015 10:03 am
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The big head that is to clarify! I work with the public and well I pretty much know a lot about people who come to my desk. So that being said, I get a phone call today from a man who was in Tuesday. He asked me to dinner, yes weird I know, first time ever happened. So I grabbed his info and sure enough right there in his handwriting is his wife's name. I politely asked if his wife would be joining us. He stuttered and said "Oh I thought you wouldn't care about that" . Really? Umm I met him in professional setting, totally above board.
My coworkers laughed and told me I am too nice to people and guys read it wrong! What the fuck? I am nice, and yes I may flirt but its innocent and my personality.
In 8 years this is first guy to ever take it wrong. I know it will be the office joke until the next thing happens. Oh it annoyed me, and yes a tiny part of me was flattered, cause had he been single and he was done with my office that dinner would have happened.
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Be True to Yourself
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Posted:Jan 5, 2015 6:55 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 2:50 pm
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Here we are, on a sex site, yes we are all here seeking human interaction. Some do that via chatting, others thru emails, and others meet and discover a passionate friend or maybe even more. But how many agree to things or situations we are not 100% happy with? Ok let's say 100% may be pushing it. Have you met someone, and thought "Hmm I don't think so" yet followed thru on being intimate cause you were there and could not bring yourself to say no? Or the guy looking for a wife who in his profile claims he wants no strings , just so he doesn't look soft? Or the woman who agrees to one night stands even tho she really wants a guy she can enjoy time with on a routine basis.
Be honest with yourself. Do you really want a one night stand, yes? Then go for it! Looking for a ltr, be proud and do not settle. A fwb? Cool and if it satisfies the need for getting out and enjoying yourself as well as the sexual needs, all the better. Seeking a playmate to try new things with, no judgement. Probably can find it. But stay true to what you want! It's on here, just need to dig around and I bet it can be found.
Profiles should reflect what we are and want. Pics need to be real. When you talk to someone, on here or in real life, be your quirky, fun, moody, sweet, kind, shy, scared, wild, happy, silly, amusing, bad dancing self! If others don't like it, guess what? There are 5 million more to talk to.
No one wants to look in the mirror and dislike the person looking back.
Enjoy your quest for sex and whatever else it may be. No one is here to judge you. No one needs to know what or who you do. Just do it with your head held high.
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My Point of view
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Posted:Dec 29, 2014 7:51 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 2:50 pm
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I am enjoying reviewing profiles and communicating with folks on here. I have noticed there is a pretty even number of pushy people and those willing to take it a bit slower. In my case I am seeking one or two (one male and female?) FWB for ongoing. Yeah I know that may not happen and if not at least I'll have fun along the way. I prefer the get to know method, chat a little, meet and talk and next meet just go with whatever feels right. Not sure but I do think there are genuine people on here, yes it is a sex site but we are also need a connection, or more like I do. So does not playing first meet make me old fashioned, perhaps.........but I need to do what makes me feel safe, And I am sure one day I will meet a man I cannot wait to get my hands on.
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Beware of snakes in the grass
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Posted:Dec 27, 2014 9:29 pm
Last Updated:Jan 8, 2015 3:10 pm
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Yep people lie, shocking! But it is the absolute depth of some lies that astounds me. What is so hard about telling the truth? Yes we all tell white lies to,protect others feelings etc. But we all sit behind a computer screen and I am sure many embellish or enhance things they say or do. If people like the false persona....what happens when you meet them and the real you shines?
I say be honest, yourself and if that offends or bothers people then you don't need them in your life. We are all here seeking a partner, be it for a few hours, a night or longer....isn't better to start any relationship with honesty?
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Drama
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Posted:Dec 26, 2014 8:20 am
Last Updated:Dec 26, 2014 2:24 pm
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Short and to the point. Why do people have this need to be validated? To show the world how great they are by being over the top? Be happy , be grateful and be humble.
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