The most annoying aspect of this site is clearly using the IM. Given the frustrations of just being a standard member isn't enough but losing a chat point because your IM freezes is maddening. Remember we are limited to 5 a day. Half the time I can't tell if the person left the chat or the web browser froze.
Standard members have if rough on here, especially if you are chatting. Limited to 5 messages, can't send email address in chat, let alone read a gold paying member email message.