after online first date....  

MelbLife 56M
196 posts
8/19/2021 6:43 pm
after online first date....

So after online, you meet, see if chemistry exists beyond the screen first date after online ,

...and you discover it does, the kiss good night, farewell, signals passion, desire, and arousal.....so do you:
No sex till third date, no matter how tempted!
Simply enjoy the kisses and wait till next time.
Extend kisses to a true make-out session, but that is it.
Invite them back to your place and see what develops.
If the chemistry is there, why wait....come with me tiger!


MelbLife 56M
209 posts
8/23/2021 4:31 pm

    Quoting SouthGeorgiaCoug:
    If I feel like we've interacted enough for me to meet them I usually already know I'm going to fuck them!
Well that is the question, regarding how much the interaction has occurred, and how people rank the online exchange, and time, as against the reality of the encounter.

Thanks for the comment, and feedback.


SouthGeorgiaCoug 64F
144 posts
8/23/2021 8:50 am

If I feel like we've interacted enough for me to meet them I usually already know I'm going to fuck them!

A Cougar searching for cubs!


MelbLife 56M
209 posts
8/20/2021 4:27 am

    Quoting DiazBel:
    Part of the enjoyment of searching for someone (at least in my case) is not to charge onward to the conclusion but to enjoy the hunt as we seek out the best way to entice the other through various means, time is never the enemy. it only adds to the enjoyment of finding out if we were the hunter or the prey all along.
hunter or prey, you say. Time indeed need not cut you down, but still a moment must be taken, if that other to be found.


MelbLife 56M
209 posts
8/20/2021 4:25 am

    Quoting author51:
    I simply enjoy the kiss as the anticipation for the next one heightens the experience of looking forward to more on that second date to possibly mate...xoxo
the kiss as anticipation, of that next date....so make sure that kiss lands well!


DiazBel 19M  
3 posts
8/20/2021 3:33 am

Part of the enjoyment of searching for someone (at least in my case) is not to charge onward to the conclusion but to enjoy the hunt as we seek out the best way to entice the other through various means, time is never the enemy. it only adds to the enjoyment of finding out if we were the hunter or the prey all along.


author51 58F
124028 posts
8/19/2021 11:31 pm

I simply enjoy the kiss as the anticipation for the next one heightens the experience of looking forward to more on that second date to possibly mate...xoxo


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