A friend wrote this.
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Posted:Aug 28, 2015 12:26 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 6:36 am
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I suggest you Doms read this. Real Daddies would understand. There's so much more to it than kinky fucking with a little/Babygirl. We're different than subs... this brought tears because it might possibly be why I got abandoned... I'll never know. I don't care now, this just had me thinking.
Think you want a little girl?
So you are a Dom and you come across a sub who catches your interest. You find that she is also a little. You don’t know exactly what that means…But you’re interested, and so you find out.
At first you think it’s really cute. She likes Hello Kitty…teddy bears. No big deal. She likes sparkly things and gets excited about simple pleasures.
She likes to color pictures….says it makes her happy and relieves stress.
OK…
You love that when you are with her, she sees the world with the same excitement that a has. She never outgrew that wonder. It makes you feel more joyful….You see life in a different way.
But you notice that she often interrupts you when you are talking….not because she means to…. not because she is on the same subject you are and wants to add to the discussion…. but because she saw a deer in the woods and excitedly wants to point it out to you.
Now it’s not so cute, but a bit annoying. She understands. She tries hard to be better, but it’s really hard….because that part of her is not big.
Life goes on and you grow closer… You thought you realized what a big responsibility it is being a Daddy Dom to a little, but you really didn’t.
A Dom has a lot of responsibility to their submissive. Being a Daddy Dom to a little has even more. A little is vulnerable in a way that you can never comprehend fully until you’re one, or with one who loves and trusts you.
You didn’t really want that much responsibility. You find it overwhelming and shut down. You don’t talk about it because you don’t want to hurt your little.
But she feels it. A little is a tuned in radar to their Daddy. They know instinctively when something is not right.
At night you play games and then turn away and go to sleep. She hugs her teddy bear tight to not feel so alone and scared.
You look over and see this, and it turns you off even more. You don’t understand this, as you used to find it sweet and endearing. You gave her the bears…. but now you ask her what she gets out of it.
She feels the message in the question. It stings. But she tells you that it’s like when you cuddle a puppy….that’s what she gets out of it.
She sees the glimmer of understanding in your eyes and hopes….it’s so hard to show people who you really are, and face being judged. She gave you everything that she is. Please don’t judge her harshly.
And then the day comes where you have a fight and you tell her that your place is not going to be filled with sparkles and polka dots. Her mind wonders where the polka dots came from? But it hurts. He thinks you’re silly and stupid and have no taste. At least that’s what her heart hears.
Then you call her a . And not in a good way. She’s angry…. but the anger comes from hurt. She knows that she is childlike….but she thought you knew what an amazing woman and sexual being she is also. But you don’t.
You saw her as amusing. Something that made you feel good, because that is something littles are great at…..But, you wanted easy.
Real life shows up for everybody. Sometimes real life for littles ( ok not sometimes….most of the time ) is scary. When she is scared, she turns to you. She shows you all of her vulnerability….Her fears… Her tears….
You feel even more overwhelmed…. you feel responsible for her well being. In a way you are. But mostly she just needs you to be there. To hold her hand, and make her feel safe.
She has taken care of herself for a long time. She has had to be big…to be strong. But she trusted you enough to let down that shield, and believed you when you said you would always take care of her.
She knows that she is a lot. She knows that she is needy. She tries hard to be less little.
She wonders how all the things that you said you loved about her in the beginning, are the things that cause you to not want to touch her now.
She has always thought she was too much. She always felt different. She has been told that the things she loves are for and she should just grow up.
When you call her a , or tell her that she can’t be a parental figure to your because she is a little…. it cuts right down to her core.
A little is very sensitive. They don’t have a thick skin, even if they pretend to the world that they do.
She will probably never forget your words.
She will do anything to make you happy. Turn herself inside out.
You cut her off sexually. You don’t touch her. You don’t let her please you.
You leave her alone more and more.
Want to see a little unravel? That’s the formula
Want to keep your little happy? Just love them. If you are ever a Daddy Dom lucky enough to have a little who wants to be yours, hold on and don’t let go.
Don’t just read some blogs and posts on Fet Life and think you’re ready and done. More than anything else, a relationship with a little is just that…. a relationship.
It takes work. Hard work and lots of it.
Like any relationship. So let me say that again. Hard work and lots of it.
The rewards are great.
But it’s not going to be a kinky romance novel every day of the week….. In fact, most of the time it won’t be. We live in the real world after all.
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A perfect definition of a Daddy Dom
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Posted:Jun 11, 2015 3:01 pm
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2015 12:37 pm
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A guy I enjoy chatting with told me this... I love this ♥
A lot of so called Dom's are jerks and nothing more. A true Dom has internal self confidence, he never needs to be mean or cruel. He respects and adores his little girl. He is there to nurture and coddle you. He is protector and guardian. He is a guide along the path of sexual exploration.
After all you are giving him such a gift You are giving over yourself. That is a rare and beautiful treasure.
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I love being a good, sweet, naughty little babygirl sub!
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Posted:May 13, 2015 2:05 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2015 11:21 pm
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I just have to say that no matter what, I enjoy being in the world of kink! I've had a string of flakes and fakes but the joy I get out of being a babygirl submissive still trumps the crap. I have a little bit of experience under my belt now so I'm not green  I'm not searching anymore but I'm active when I can be. I savor every single second when I do get to service a good caring but Dominant Daddy. I'm still in love with the idea of a Daddy Dom/babygirl submissive relationship. I know for a fact that I'm a true cum slut and cock worshipper, but not a pain slut.. 'I'm very submissive and obediant and eager to please a good and real Daddy It makes my world go round! Someday a good Daddy will really see me and make an effort to keep me in his life until then I'm gonna play... roleplay and being a sub is the spice of my life...
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Abandoned
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Posted:Mar 6, 2015 8:19 am
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2015 10:33 pm
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He probably don't even give a shit and on to the next poor woman that will end up like me in a few months. Abandoned, confused and wondering what the fuck happened. He seemed so sincere and laid back. Fun and our kinks matched So well. He said such nice things to me and treated me so good. I don't even want to trust Doms or Daddy Doms that tell me nice things anymore. Like they're all full of shit and just getting me to the point where I'm head over heels then... gone with not one word or clue anything was wrong.
I told him once if I ever do or say anything you don't like will you please tell me because I don't want to ruin this. He told me "Babygirl, there is nothing you can say or do that would chase me away. I'm a man, not like the you chased for so long"
I adored him so much. I would've done anything for him. He could've done any kinky freaky thing he wanted and I would've said yes please daddy thank you! Then out of the blue... nothing. He never demanded anything from me at all but I WANTED to do these extra little things for him. I craved to sit at his feet, kept my pussy shaved and always made sure I had a sexy outfit to wear for him. I would make myself lay a certain way next to him so I could hear his heart beat because I thought it was a beautiful thing. Even if my arm fell asleep and start feeling weird... I didn't care, fuck that dead arm feeling. I was listening to my daddies heart. When I would feel his skin start to prespire I would back off because I knew he didn't like to sleep hot. I'd back off and finally go to sleep myself. He would sit in this recliner I have and I liked to kneel between his legs, wrap my arms around his stomach, put my head on his chest and he would run his fingers through my hair. I felt so safe and special. Daddies special little girl. I called it "Daddy heaven" My own secret paradise on planet earth no other soul knew about. Gone. No word or anything just gone. I cry a few times a week when I go to sleep and whisper "Daddy why did you do this?" If he just wanted something casual and nsa he could've told me and I would've said ok cool. I'm gonna keep my search open then as we play. I cut off every guy I was fucking around with and he never asked. I did it on my own because I wanted to. I felt like if I want to fuck around on him I gotta find a guy better then him. I gotta fuck up, not down... just so much little things I'd never do for other guys. I truly felt like making him happy made me happy. I adored him and to him I guess I was nothing but something to play with until something better came along.
I asked him if he would be my daddy and he said "Of course babygirl I'll be your daddy" with the biggest smile on his face. Lies I guess.
I let my inner little girl cry over this anytime it's needed. The woman part of me has moved on, talking to other guys, . But I let my little girl cry as much as needed. He was my first real time daddy and he abandoned that little girl that he always encouraged to come and play. That part of me is so hurt and sad. Daddy left his little girl with no word or clue anything was wrong.
I will not chase, beg or try to get him back. You can't make someone be with you if they don't want to be. Plus he knows where I live and has my number. I refuse to let myself take the blame on this one. I try once in a while but I cut that shit off. I will not allow myself to look pathetic, desperate, or anything like that.
A few friends brought up... maybe he's married and wanted to live the fantasy. I guess if your careful, very good at hiding tracks and other things, of course it's possible. It doesn't matter now though because it all boils down to the fact that I'm more then likely the only one hurting on this.
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This is fucked up!!
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Posted:Aug 20, 2014 9:37 am
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2014 3:27 pm
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I was on messenger like I usually am now a days, anyway I start chatting with another guy and he wanted me to call him but I told him my phone was off and couldnt call anyone and the fuckin psycho start talkin shit to me! called me a cunt told me fuck you and why the fuck would he want to chat on here and all kinds of shit! I just told him he was a fuckin psycho and mad cause I couldnt call him and talk dirty to him while he jerks off, this isnt a free phone sex service loser fuck! then I blocked his loser psycho ass. heres his name ladies dont talk to him he's a fuckin psycho. I've never blocked anyone on this site yet so congratulations hungstudman you fuckin psychotic loser!!
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Still owned? I dont know
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Posted:Aug 18, 2014 4:43 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 6:36 am
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Hi all thought i would add another blog. I'm very unsure of things right now, but deep into this thing under the umbrella term BDSM and i really want to be an owned collared sub for the right Dom. I thought i had the right one, but not quite sure right now as you can see in my title. I'm going to be faithful and still not meet anyone until i know whats going on though. I do have to say I've talked to other Doms on a different site and have a couple that I would serve and be submissive too and want to collar me, so thats good. As i've said in the past blogs they will get compared to him. Dont know if thats sad or what, but he has what i want. Anyway I just had to get this out. thanks to the people that actually read my babbling lol as always have a good and safe sex filled day! ?*
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hello
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Posted:Jul 28, 2014 8:26 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 6:36 am
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well so much for that... o well shit happens n life goes on.
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Hi!
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Posted:Jul 27, 2014 1:14 pm
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2014 8:07 am
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Daddy and I are looking for a bi female sub to play with. This is exciting but I dont really know how to find one. I've been on i.m. and waiting for the right female to message me. She will have to address him as sir or master because he's my daddy. I put in my profile that I like women, and finally told daddy that i've been wishing for a woman. It's been a long time since i've had one so this will be an interesting experience! I dont want one thats looking for a dom, just one that likes to play. She must be very submissive and like rough sex and talk.If your into 420 thats a bonus for me. He dont do that. She must also like anal sex and play.You cannot keep in touch with my daddy on the sly or secretly!!
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THE WORK BEGINS!!!
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Posted:Jul 26, 2014 1:30 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 6:36 am
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I'm pretty happy and excited, i get to call him daddy again and very aware of my mistakes. I was very selfish and only thought of myself, guess that happens when you spend most of your life being single. Like I said in my status I'm only going to be on here to chat with him and blog about my experiences. I'm only going to answer I.M.s from him. Want to thank you guys for your comments it's very nice to have support and I appreciate it all! I hope that he will own me again and someday collar me. I will never take him for granted again and will no longer think single and selfish  I am a very happy (hopefully owned) slut!! I'm not going to meet anyone or make plans for it so dont waste your time. There is a sub that I will talk too and consider a friend s/he is one sexy bitch!! I love her dearly! I'm glad i have my daddy back !! The rewards are already rolling in for me and i'm ready to work for more. Thank you daddy for making me think, your already teaching me good!! He's the man I need to keep me in line and my definition of a man!! I always thought men only think with their dicks, but learning that some of you guys are deeper then that! Hope you have a H&SFD!!!
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I need to say...
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Posted:Jul 25, 2014 10:04 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2014 3:54 am
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Ok ever since i posted that i'm a sexually submissve woman i've been getting i.m's from guys that think they can talk shit and be rude. I'm tired of it and thats one of the two reasons i havent been answering any of them. I'm submissive for one man. If you dont know me or anything about me, dont come at me like that.It was fun at first but it's wearing thin. A real and experienced dom comes at you in a good way and i respect that so thank you. To all you others that have a hard on for a little control dont bother me and fuck off. I'm not into being dominated for the 5 minutes it will take you to get off. To anyone that reads this and respects it thank you. To anybody else that thinks i'm a bitch o well, now ya know. Just a little schooling for ya. Thank you and have a good and sex filled day!
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I've thought this through
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Posted:Jul 22, 2014 1:23 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2014 8:49 pm
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I've been thinking good and hard all day and I have to post this. I better not start anything with any other doms. I dont want to waste anyone else's time until i know for sure that there's no chance in hell of daddy taking me back and giving me another chance. I'll chat with you if you want, but wont make any plans to meet even if its just a booty call. I better concentrate on him and try to make it better. I'm ready for any punishments he has in mind. I still get to talk to him so i better straighten up and show an effort. When I find out for sure i'll post again. thanks for reading people and I hope you wish me luck. ?* Have a good and sex filled time!!!
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I know what i want now.
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Posted:Jul 22, 2014 6:56 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 6:36 am
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When i first got on this site under a different name all i wanted was sex, dont get me wrong i still want that, but things have changed. The dom i had offered me my fantasies and was going to collar me. I fucked up bad so what i want isnt gonna happen now. My last fuck up made me realize how important he really is, but i have to suck it up and move on. If he ever decided to take me back im on it. I realize after this that im a flighty bitch and stupid about men but i would love to learn better. He found me sexy even naked and that was an awesome feeling. Like i said in my profile all doms will be compared to him, but i wont tell you my true fantasies, because no one can fulfill them like he was going to. I probably sound kind of fucked up in the head but im mature enough to admit it, and own up to my faults. In public you have to treat me right, but in private do what you gotta do. I dont really know my limits because im fairly new at this stuff but im willing to test them with the right dom so thats why you have to be experienced at this. If you push me too far i'm gonna run. I want to find something that could turn into long term.. I'm still down for booty calls and have my own place, just no car so cant go to you. condoms are required until i get to know you more because i cant lie, i like it raw. I'm gonna close off with this. I will always regret my mistakes.
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