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The Gang Bang — Part Three (The Four Men)
Posted:Oct 19, 2019 7:48 am
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2019 1:50 pm

Most of the at the parties is organic and spontaneous. Usually we pair off (or off or four off), and head one of the several bedrooms designated for . However, usually we have at least one pre-planned scene per party meant for an audience. Mine would be such a scene.

For a man, performing before an audience can be a challenge. I needed scene partners that could get hard and stay hard while party guests watched. With that in mind, the first hot stud I thought of was Jacob. We have fucked one-on-one a few times now, and I have loved it everytime. And I have watched him fuc He's got a beautiful average sized penis. If it were just a tiny bit bigger, he could be a pornstar.

Jacob is chiseled. He is six feet tall with blond hair and piercing blue eyes. I imagine that he looks like a Swedish cross fit model. He comes the parties with a FWB, Amy. He and Amy don't get together all that often, but they always accompany each other to the parties. Amy is a gorgeous skyscraper. She has light brown hair and deep dark brown eyes. She went to college on a volleyball scholarship, and she looks like she could still today. Both Jacob and Amy are in their early 40s, but they look younger than that.

Paul has a dad body. He's a couple inches taller than me, so he's about five-ten. He's handsome with salt and pepper hair and hazel eyes. Paul and Jane, his wife, met while they were in college and they have been together ever since. Jane is barely five feet tall. And she always looks like a million bucks. She’s put together. She is curvy. I so love her tits! They're both in their early 50s. They discovered kink soon after meeting, and now they're both masters. Paul is a wizard of oral.

When I was new to the group, the first person I really clicked with was Jen. She's built a lot like me, about five foot seven and physically fit. She's got dark dark brown (almost black) hair and blue eyes. She's stunningly beautiful. Jen and Nate, her husband, met through kink only a few years ago. They both had long-term previous marriages. Nate is a giant. He’s six-four and (guessing) a solid two-twenty. I am pretty sure that he quite a bit of time in the gym. He is a powerful man. He’s another blond blue eyed man. But, he doesn’t exactly blend in any crowd.

I now had my men. I asked, and they all agreed to do the scene. Now I had to sketch out and plan the scene. I wanted it to start out as a bondage scene with me tied to the bondage table. Where did I want it to go from there?

To be continued…………..
The Gang Bang — Part Two
Posted:Oct 13, 2019 8:50 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2019 7:55 am

I wanted four men for the scene.

be honest, looks matter. It's no accident that your top movie stars are attractive people. But if I like someone, they don't have to be movie star good looking for me to with them. And then there's chemistry. Do I get that tingle when we kiss?

There are twenty people in our group, ten men and ten women. This includes seven committed couples including Adam and Connie. I attend with a longtime friend (with ) that lives in the Twin Cities metro area. The youngest member, Angela, turned thirty this last summer, but most of us are in our forties. I think all the female members are beautiful, and all the men are quite attractive. The members are also all college educated middle-class people, except for maybe Adam and Connie—they are fairly wealthy. Connie and Adam have been careful and selective in choosing the members.

I have attended eight parties date. I have played one-on-one with everyone in the group. I have only had intercourse with five of the men, but I have put my lips or hands on all ten penises. For my gang bang, I wanted choose mostly from the five that I’ve fucked already. But, it might be fun have one guy who’s first time with me would be as part of a gang of four.

Adam was a no-brainer. I truly love him. I would never actually date someone his age, but he’s a prince of a man. He loves his wife. He’s kind. He’s considerate. He’s thoughtful. And he can fuck like a pornstar. “Connie, are you okay with Adam being part of a gang bang scene with me?”
“Of course, Honey. I can’t wait see it. It’s going be hot.”

[To be continued]
The Gang Bang — Part One
Posted:Oct 8, 2019 7:42 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2019 7:35 am

I have been going to parties Adam's house for over a year now. All attendees have been thoroughly vetted. Getting an invite is like receiving a top secret security clearance. And now I think we have 20 people besides Adam and his wife, Connie, that have open invitations to the parties.

Adam and Connie live in a neighborhood of mansions. And theirs is one of the biggest and nicest houses in that neighborhood. It’s the perfect venue for the parties they host. Adam is in late 60s. He’s handsome. He’s tall and lean. He’s been an athlete his entire life. Connie is in her early 60s, but she looks like she could still be in her 40s. She’s beautiful. She exudes . Adam and Connie have been married for almost 40 years. They’ve been swinging for over 20 years. And they’ve been active members of the BDSM community nearly as long as they’ve been swinging.

Recently, I attended a party where I (with the help of four men) performed a gang bang in front of the guests of the party.

To be continued..............
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The Sex Party — Part Two
Posted:Oct 5, 2019 12:48 pm
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2019 11:13 am

I arrived at the party prepared to do an impact play scene. I am a fairly good rigger. And I also crack a mean whip. My play partner, Tim (a very handsome and fit man in his thirties) and I planned how the scene would play out by text message before the party. It went better than planned.

He was brought to me by two men playing guards. He was wearing only a pair of boxer briefs. They held him as I tied him to the wall standing up with his arms spread and his face to wall. I also tied his ankles so his legs were spread shoulder width apart.

He was at my mercy. I whispered in his ear, "Are you ready?" He nodded.
"They have brought you to me so that you can be punished." I shouted.
And then I cracked the whip, hitting him just between his shoulder blades.
After a brief whipping, I took a pair of his scissors and cut his underwear off.
His ass was beautiful. I then concentrated on hitting his cheeks.
There was never any blood, but he took a good a good whipping.
His ass was bright red.

"Release him!"
And scene.

After the scene Tim got dressed and we hung out for a while in one of the bedrooms. First I gave him a big hug. I couldn't help but notice (even though he was wearing jeans) that he was hard as a rock. "Would you like me take care of that for you?", I asked. Less than five minutes later I was swallowing his hot cum. Then I gave him a big passionate kiss. And then he said, "Let's do that again someday soon."
"Yes, let's."


Later that night, I dd something I rarely do these days—I was a submissive. And not just any submissive. I went all in on a gang bang scene. More about that later. But if you'd like to see what it looked like, search "Rain DeGrey Gangbang."
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The Sex Party
Posted:Aug 2, 2019 6:00 pm
Last Updated:Oct 5, 2019 11:55 am

A little over a week ago I attended a sex party. The party was held at a beautiful and big house in the Twin Cities metro area. All the guests, about twenty of us, had been carefully vetted. And I although I am going to write a bit about my experience that night, the people that attended the party are people that can be trusted to not to mention anyone's name outside that house.

I arrived at the party just after 9 PM. I had a suitcase of my gear with me. The host greeted me at the door. "I see you have come prepared."

More soon.
Ask Neko
Posted:Jun 25, 2019 4:11 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2019 12:22 pm

I'll soon be writing something about cybersecurity. I am thinking about titling it, "15 year old hacks dad's laptop and finds nude photos of his math teacher."

That will come soon, but today I am open for questions.

Would you like some advice?

Ask me anything.
My Favorite Podcasts
Posted:Jun 18, 2019 8:00 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2019 12:22 pm

I very seldom listen terrestrial radio these days. When I want listen music, I choose Spotify. When I want hear smart and entertaining talk, I choose podcasts. And there are a lot of good great podcasts there.

Sex Podcasts:
Shameless Sex — I love this podcast.
Girls on Porn — Stars
Sex with Emily — Meh+
Loving BDSM — Can be boring at times
Kuldrin's Krypt — and Miss

Non-Sex Podcasts
The Moth Radio Hour
This American Life
All Songs Considered
The Memory Palace
Daniel and Jorge Explain the Universe
Le Show with Harry Shearer
"I like a big brain and a normal dick."
Posted:Jun 1, 2019 8:15 am
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2021 8:45 am

Nina Hartley couldn't have said it better.
37:39 Nian Hartley says, "I like a big brain and a normal dick."
Dirty Talk - Ep 008

I find larger than average penises attractive and even fascinating. They are great to , and maybe even handle, but I would rather not have them inside . I am certainly not going to take a big dick in my ass. For that, I prefer a good hard average dick.

What do you think?

Check Rain DeGrey's podcast. Some of the episodes aren't that great, but her talk with Nina Hartley is quite good.
My Secret Life - Part Two
Posted:May 25, 2019 8:55 am
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2019 7:47 pm

Like I wrote in a previous blog post, I live in the closet. If I were a lesbian, I would probably come out. But it's more complicated than that. I'm poly. I'm queer. I like boys, and I like girls—a lot. I am also kinky. I don't live it 24/7, but BDSM is an important part of my life.

Our group, or as I call it, “our house,” consists a four people, three women and one man. The man (Ben) and one of our female members (Pam) live together in a house about two miles from where I live. The other two women live together in a house only two blocks away. One of those two women, Tanya, is my primary partner. Tanya spends the night and has breakfast with me here at my house about four times a week. Mary, Tanya’s actual housemate, often hosts Randy (an associate, not full member of our house) on nights when Tanya is spending the night with me.

I rarely have sex with Mary, but I do play with her occasionally. I love tying her up. I love tying almost anyone up. What’s not to like about it? And, I like to cane her. All five of us do scenes together in some combination or other, but we don’t all sleep together, or fuck each other. From ten-thousand feet, our arrangement probably looks crazy. Even open-minded people can find it hard to grasp. But on the ground, it works for us. we genuinely all love each other.

To be continued……
Tell me what you think. I do love getting feedback.
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My Secret Life
Posted:May 23, 2019 9:47 am
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2019 5:01 am

I have a secret identity. Most all of my friends, my entire family, my co-workers, and my acquaintances, know me as Debbie—vanilla Debbie. These people have no idea that behind closed doors and down in my dungeon that I am also Neko—Mistress Niko the Dominatrix.

Although I would love to live my life in the open, I can’t. I am in the closet. I fear the slut shaming that would follow my being outed. I can not take risks that could lead to that outing, so only a handful of people (very close friends and lovers) know that I (Debbie) and Neko are one and the same.

I our relationship “our house,” although we don’t all live together. We all know what a couple is, and now a lot of us know that a three person relationship is a “thruple.” At this time, we are four (but soon to be five), three women and one man.

To be continued….
Let me know if you’d like to read more about our house.
I really appreciate the feedback.

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