Dudes, Guys and Men, Just Saying  

SakuraMar 47F
211 posts
5/15/2020 2:03 am
Dudes, Guys and Men, Just Saying

Dudes, Guys and Men, Just Saying

So, I was talking with a girlfriend about the difference between dudes, guys and men. We were having a good laugh how we were turning the tide on men who separate women into boxes of the bitch, the ho and so forth. Typical stereotypes that we get thrown in.
I am going to quickly throw in my disclaimer
DISCLAIMER ON SAKURAMAR
So, this is totally not a serious post. I am just kind of giving you a little peek into the minds of some of the women I know. I am not in any way shape or form speaking for all women or women in general. If any women who read this agree, well then Party On!
Dudes.... ohhh I could do a whole post on dudes alone. (insert eyeroll) Now a guy being a dude is not always the same if a woman says dude to a guy. Sometimes I personally just like throwing around the word dude in the chatroom or while messaging a guy because being playful. Some women use the word dude as a habit.
"Dude, you got to be kidding me"
" dude, I told you that you should not have had sex with your wall plug. It does not matter if it was a blackout"
You get my meaning.
Moving on.
A man who is put in dude status...tsk tsk. Dude status is a guy who sends unwanted dick pictures. It is the guy who shows how thirsty he is in a chatroom. He is rude and crude. Most of the time he does not like typing out full sentences or use real words
"Hmu babe"
"Wuts up. Hru"
"Ur sexy, lets fuck"
Dudes are annoying and disrespectful. Dudes like to play mind games and will pretend to be friends or to want a relationship. Dudes will say they love a woman and then on all of her friends to try to sext or have sex. Dudes are one night stands and fuck buddies.
FWB and Fuck Buddies are different, just saying
Lots of dudes get blocked or barely tolerated. Dudes can be amusing. Watching them desperately try to pry a woman away from a chatroom to privately chat and bomb. Yeah, it's funny. Dudes are more prone to MIDD meltdown
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Even though dudes are annoying, you kind of feel sorry for them.
Moving on to guys. Guy status is above Dude status. Guys can be good friends. Women like me can be drawn to guys for a relationship, but it is usually a bad idea. Guys are good to talk with and hang around. Most guys do not talk very much. But when they do, it is usually a decent conversation about sports, shows, cars, ect. Spontaneous brief chats. They can be good for flirting at times. They definitely like attention and want a little bit of a connection, but not too close. Guys want to flirt and chat a bit before sliding into sex chat or getting you to meet up for sex. Unfortunately guys are good at starting relationships when they get a wild hair, but they don't last long. Guys are more into having FWB, but will indulge in the occasional fuck buddy at times.
FWB and Fuck Buddies are different, just saying
Guys are good to have around. Keep things simple and light. Being put in Guy status is not too bad. Just do not get knocked down to Dude status. Then you are screwed.
Let us now slide into Man status (Cue the singing birds and soaring magic soundtrack) Now, there is the regular Man status and there is the very lofty Gentleman status (think fantasy unicorn for women)
When a woman thinks about a man or a gentleman, it brings a smile to our , a comforting feeling or even a heart skipping crush. A man is desirable. A man is polite and nice and sane (mostly or least what is manageable) The man is responsible (mostly). The man can make the absolute best friends and are good for relationships. Many in the man status are more into long term relationships or FWB. Man status is very desirable. We love having the man around and they are fantastic in chatrooms because are polite, funny, interesting and flirty in a classy way.
So, there you have it. Which one do you think you are?


Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything


SakuraMar 47F
108 posts
5/17/2020 11:37 pm

Put my comment on my blog.... like this?

Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything


loneleix 62M
973 posts
5/15/2020 8:50 am

Thinking is different from being..... at least that's what I believe.

Being a unicorn isn't all it's cracked up to be. That damn horn gets hung on everything and the muddy hoof prints in the house are murder.


SakuraMar replies on 5/16/2020 5:53 pm:

Doesn't mean that I'm not curious about the state of thinking for the Male species! Hahaha

Paulxx001 64M  
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5/15/2020 6:51 am

Happy Friday...😊 👍
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SakuraMar replies on 5/16/2020 5:51 pm:

Many thanks! I was wondering about that.... just trying something different

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