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♫ My life is a song ♫
 
The people you meet affect your life in so many different ways. I have some wonderful (and hilarious) stories to share. =)
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Anticipation
Posted:Dec 13, 2008 9:01 pm
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2014 8:49 pm
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He texted me as I left the building... "where are you?". I told him - I'm on my way but have my boss in the car and she's insisting on having dinner together. He replies, "it's ok baby - I will wait for you in your room."

We go to the restaurant right beside our hotel. I know he's in my room - just waiting for me. I'm so impatient and the waitress is no where to be found. All I can think about is how I'm losing time with this man.

Finally - we order and our drinks are served. Another text message, "where are you now?" I'm driving myself crazy with anticipation of spending one more night with this man. The food arrives and I eat as fast as possible. Now the waiting.. waiting for her to finish her meal, waiting for the check, the receipt -- even for her to get her coat on. My god, seconds continue to click off the clock - all the while, this man lies naked - waiting for me in my bed.

I finally arrive at my room, only two doors down from my boss's room - maybe that made it even more naughty. I open my door.... the room is lit by candlelight and soft music plays in the background.

He lies there, on his side - his head supported on his bent arm - covered with only the sheet. The smile so wide on his face melts me immediately. "Hi baby" is all he mutters.... I nearly run to the bed.

Within minutes, we are a tangled naked web of legs and arms - our bodies one. This man takes me to new heights. After all my experiences, he is able to bring new things to me.

I'm emotional. And somehow, he matches me. Truly, the perfect storm. When you least expect it, and in places you should perhaps never find it --- passion and loves finds you.
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Break
Posted:Nov 13, 2008 6:22 pm
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2013 5:10 pm
7330 Views

Hi all.. I have turned my profile off for a few ... I know I'm a total hopeless romantic, but I have met someone that could develop into something very special -- so I'm turning my attention to that for now...

I'll probably be back soon - these things never seem to last - but wish me well!
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Getting recognized offline
Posted:Oct 26, 2008 9:22 am
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2014 8:47 pm
8282 Views

Have you ever been somewhere and someone gives you that look? It's undeniable -- he has seen you somewhere - but where? He continues to stare at you enough to make you slightly uncomfortable. Later, he seeks you out when you're alone -- and actually apologizes for staring - saying that you look exactly like a woman he used to ...... know.

By now you're blushing and your mind running wild. Could this business associate recognize you from your online life? You compare notes -- what area did you grow up in, maiden names, where have you lived. Nothing rings a bell. Perhaps you met because of a previous job but no, it's not that.

Five full work days go by and the attention is noticable by others. This is your career. You can only hope he has enough class to forego mentioning his seen your ass spread in the pages of FriendFinder-x.

This is the experience I went through this week in Columbus. Anyone else ever get recognized in "real life"?
~Tina
5 Comments
How to dress
Posted:Sep 4, 2008 4:02 pm
Last Updated:Nov 1, 2013 7:16 pm
7858 Views

Hi everyone! I'm asking for your opinion again. As you might see from my pictures, I love dressing up - thigh highs, heels, etc. I've had a few guys actually want me to wear some slutty stuff in public. Low cut shirt - short shirt - stiletto highs but I feel like I'm too large to do so. Here's my question:

When you see a woman of size, if she is wearing slutty clothes do you think she looks ridiculous? That's my biggest fear!

Answer this poll - BIG GIRLS SHOULD:
wear whatever is comfortable!
save the slutty-wear for private!
be a little slutty - either top or bottom but not both!
slut it up from head to toe!
2 Comments , 59 votes
Dream Girl?
Posted:Aug 3, 2008 1:33 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2014 8:30 pm
7455 Views

Guys -- how do you define a "dream girl".

I would define a dream girl as someone that loves sex, all aspects of sex. Sex in the morning, sex at night - playing here and there... someone that wants to touch you. Someone that would take you to a swing club and ENCOURAGE you to go for whatever you want.

My closest friends have described me as a nyphm. It's pretty accurate. I love sex. I love lots of sex. I can have mind-blowing, toe-curling sex.. and 10 minutes later, want it all over again.

I like passion. I'm not an animal, you can't just mount me. Kiss me, caress me, touch me... you'll open my every door.

So anyway . . . just had a bad weekend, and needed to vent some thoughts running around my head.
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Vegas Bound
Posted:Jul 27, 2008 10:46 am
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2008 3:21 pm
7452 Views

Mr. Big and I are traveling to Vegas again early October. We're looking to fulfill more fantasies and maybe even create some new ones!

If you are going to be in Vegas or live there -- please send us a message. We are looking for couples mainly this time out, but you never known when he might call in an extra guy for "backup!" =)
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My fantasies
Posted:Jun 18, 2008 4:07 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2008 10:44 am
7901 Views

Recently I had the chance to fulfill a fantasy and WOW, it was hot! Hot enough I thought I'd share with everyone! =)

My very dear friend, Mr. Big, decided to fly me down to Ft. Lauderdale for just 1 night while he was in town. We had talked about what the night might hold.. but DAMN -- talking didn't live up to the actual night!

I walked into the room where he greeted me naked and he pushed me against the wall. Kissing - groping... mmmmmmm. I had to stop him for a second. I wanted to change into something sexy for him and he had work to do too!

So I throw my goodie bag at him and slip in the bathroom to freshen up. Upon my return, I see he has totally prepared for me. I walk out, dress in a black sheer nightie and gorgeous stappy heels. He loves the outfit and shows his appreciation! My eyes dart to the bed and he smirks... immediately he grabs my wrist and leads me over. I'm restained now - wrists and ankles and there is a porn playing on the dvd player beside the bed -- a bondage porn. He faces my head to watch a few minutes before slipping on the blindfold.

My senses are so aroused. He instantly dives into my pussy lapping as if it were his last meal. Fingers exploring me. I hear toys turning on and the vibrations bring me to a quick climax. Something slips into my ass. I'm so into the moment I hardly even notice. Another vibe slips into my dripping wet pussy and Mr. Big brings his cock to my hungry mouth! My body is writhing under his control and I'm totally submissive to his every want and desire.

The bed under me is soaked. He continues to abuse my every hole however he likes and I'm in heaven. He finishes me off by fucking my ass like I've never had it fucked before. He falls on top of me, still restrained, totally exhausted, both of us totally spent.

Later that evening, I returned the favor with the restraints and nearly drown him while I sat on his face.

Fantasy ==fulfilled!
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Friends?
Posted:May 4, 2008 6:57 am
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2009 8:06 pm
7739 Views

Do you think it's actually possible to find FRIENDS in this lifestyle? I mean... if you took sex completely out of the equation, would you still want to be around some of the people you've met here (or through other lifestyle events)?
Yep... friends are friends regardless of the sex
Nope.. lifestylers are all about the sex, just the sex.
Maybe... some lifestylers can have both.
2 Comments , 44 votes
Proposition . . .
Posted:Apr 10, 2008 5:03 pm
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2010 7:07 am
8341 Views
I'm wondering . . . why is prostution illegal? I mean, it's my body. I can "give" it away all day long if I choose. So why should it be illegal for me to make just a few bucks satisfying the needs of a consenting adult?

I have been propositioned on this site. I have to tell you the idea of accepting money for sex is a HUGE turnon for me! The guy walks in - throws some money on the night stand -- and it's on! Does it really hurt anyone? We are both consenting adults.

Does this idea turn anyone else on? I'm not talking about being the accepting $20 for a bj in a car behind the dumpster but selecting my men from a site like this -- where every one here is just looking for some fun.

3 Comments
Vegas bound . . . .
Posted:Feb 25, 2008 4:36 pm
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2008 9:30 am
7642 Views

and bound in Vegas? =)

Heading to Vegas on March 10th and looking to fulfill some fantasies!
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What DO you men want?
Posted:Jan 21, 2008 2:38 pm
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2008 8:10 pm
7967 Views
OK.... a guy from FriendFinder-x emails me ON FriendFinder-x.... he's all into me. He invites me to his house - I go over.. the conversation is good - all is well. As the night winds down, I finally start to leave - he grabs my hand and leads me into his bedroom.

He guides me to his bed, lays me down - and slowly takes off my pants... then licks me -- sounds good huh? Then he moves back up to my lips.. mmm... past my lips he moves to me ear and whispers... "hmmm, you're so promiscious". This was not to be a compliment... but a slam.

I've never hid the fact that I actually do meet people from this site and have a good time. I post my testimonials.

It seems every guy wants a woman that knows what she wants, but a virgin at the same time.....

Tell me guys - WHAT DO YOU WANT?!

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We want . . .
Posted:Dec 30, 2007 5:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2008 2:18 pm
7718 Views

A very good friend of mine sent this to me. I'm going to try to live by this philosphy a little more.

A quote from Garrison Keillor:
"Craving only causes frustration, intense desire makes the object recede. If the game is really important, you're going to lose. If you're wildly in love, you're going to lose and you know it. The trick is to keep it from being that important. Be cool. Don't want it that much. Want it less. When you get to where you don't want it at all, then you're more likely to get it. And if you don't get it, you don't care so much."
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This is MY fantasy . . .
Posted:Aug 10, 2007 5:42 am
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2007 4:04 pm
8702 Views

OK... I believe my profile to be very concise and articulate. I truly outline what I am, and what I'm looking for. I do so because this life is a supplement to my real life. This is my fantasy life.

This morning I received this email from brwnswngrs5: "What "black" guy would want an over the hill overweight babe anyway???"

Listen, I know many many many women who's only fantasy is to be with a black guy. I've watched many black guys fuck and, wow, they get the job done quite nicely. I'm sorry if offends anyone, but sleeping with a black guy is not a fantasy of mine.

Having said that, there have been instances when I've received an email from a black GENTLEMAN that has truly intriqued me and further correspondence has transpired.

We're all on here for different reasons, yet the same. We want to find good sex and live out some fantasies. I don't email people to tell them they are not my fantasy - please don't subject me to that.
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