New here and learning how this site works...  

SexcapdesinChi 40F
10 posts
7/16/2021 8:17 am
New here and learning how this site works...


I think people can post on here without using any points or so someone told me in a chatroom. Does anyone else have advice on how to make this site work better. Not sure I want to use a credit card on this site, prefer to protect my information.

forgotforgetting 55M
7975 posts
7/16/2021 9:25 am

Good questions. Not sure I have good answers. Welcome to the blogs. Good hunting.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


profcoquin27bis 57M
4189 posts
7/16/2021 10:00 am

standard member can't interact here, the blog work, hi from France


CuriousCpl6774 54M/47F  
182 posts
7/16/2021 10:18 am

Yes, that is our understanding as well, that standard members can comment on a blog post, and we believe can also enter the chatrooms, without the need for points. Unfortunately, standard membership is fairly limiting.

With that said, we wish you much success in your journey!!


SexcapdesinChi replies on 7/16/2021 12:04 pm:
Thank you the information, interesting but a little frustrating of a site....kind of like our sex lives during Covid...lol

1bighammer1000 56M
4230 posts
7/16/2021 11:22 am

A good idea about not using a credit card, I was a paying member at one time, took a act of congress to stop the automatic payment deal. You can set up a blog that you have to approve the replies to before others can see them like a private blog. Welcome to blog land. Have fun

Anything worth doing is worth doing right


thinkingofyou12 65M
3904 posts
7/16/2021 11:38 am

Buy a gift card MC/Visa use that instead of a credit card. Welcome to the Blogs, you're photos are very sexy!


Go_Down_Cowboy_2 60M
927 posts
7/16/2021 7:28 pm

Yeah, this site is very restrictive to Standard Members. I've been with FriendFinder-x for over 20 years and have seen such big changes...and not for the better. But, still I am here...as a standard member.
They used to offer a Silver Membership, which would allow you to see and read profiles, send messages to folks, and actually find someone on here. They got rid of that years ago. It was the best for meeting folks. Now, with Gold, you get all that crap I don't need to pay for.
These blogs are the only way to communicate with other members, and its still no charge. Oh crap, now that I typed that...their going to take This away from us too!!! lol
We all just wanna have a little fun. Make FriendFinder-x Great Again!!


Rayateu 65M
261 posts
7/16/2021 7:37 pm

Your wise to not use your card. Identity theft is hard to fix, trust me.


jajo696 66F
4034 posts
7/17/2021 2:14 am

Nothing new to add. They are all correct.

Welcome to Blogville ~


Chichatman74 53M
17 posts
7/20/2021 4:13 am

Gift cards will work, Target, Starbucks, Home Depot....generally $25 gets you about 16 days


CuriousCpl6774 54M/47F  
182 posts
7/20/2021 2:12 pm

You're welcome for the info, at least as best as we understand it. There are always anomalies on here and patterns that we cannot quite figure out. Sometimes standard members can reply to our messages, and sometimes they cannot.

Like you said frustrating ... just like sex life during COVID.


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