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Maysturbation Day 21: Masturbation and Disabilities
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Posted:May 21, 2018 6:13 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2018 7:32 am
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I'm not sure what it is that has people believe that sex, masturbation and orgasm are only for able bodied people. It's as if we assume that anyone who is in a wheelchair suddenly loses their genitalia.
It's true, some disabilities may alter the way that sex is accessed, desired or performed but that doesn't mean that disabled people are any less deserving of happy, healthy, sex lives that are rich and full. We get to explore the ways that sex and masturbation can be fulfilling for those that we might not even consider want either or both.
Let's discuss
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Maysturbation Day 20: Masturbation & the Asexual Spectrum
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Posted:May 20, 2018 3:36 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 12:39 am
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The interesting thing about being a Sexuality Educator is that I get to see how much people understand (or don't) about themselves and others. One of the biggest challenges for people seems to be understanding that while we are ALL sexual beings some of us experience the concept of "sexual" differently.
Today I will be discussing the Masturbation and the (A)Sexuality Spectrum. This spectrum highlights a few misconceptions about attraction, arousal and masturbation. You might just be surprised about who masturbates and who doesn't!
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Cuddle Party...YES OR NO?
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Posted:May 19, 2018 7:46 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 12:39 am
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When you're single, it can be VERY difficult to honor your needs for safe, consensual touch that addresses loneliness and isolation. A few months ago I did an interview that helps people know how attending a CUDDLE PARTY can help with that. What do you think?
Could an open, CONSENSUAL space with JUST CUDDLING work? Why or Why not? Is it better to be single and cuddled without sex or is it better to just be single an never cuddled?
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Maystrubation Day 19: Tantric Masturbation & Orgasmic Meditation
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Posted:May 19, 2018 3:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 12:39 am
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Today I'm discussing the very powerful and amazing practices of Tantric Masturbation and Orgasmic Meditation. These are vital concepts to know and learn. They bring a sense of connection, wholeness and mindfulness to masturbation.
In so many ways people have been deeply wounded by the negative messages they've gotten about spirituality and sexuality. Tantric Masturbation and Orgasmic Masturbation can be a source of positive release, powerful manifestation and restoration in ways many people are not aware of and yet could really benefit by having access to.
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Maysturbation Day 18: Masturbation & Sexual Politics
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Posted:May 18, 2018 6:43 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 12:39 am
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Maysturbation Day 18: Masturbation and Sexual Politics.
of the things I find the most fainating about sex and sexuality is how they are deeply tied to all manner of human experiences This includes POLITICS. Not so much the Party you're affiliated with or who you might vote for, but how we GOVERN our bodies, our lives and ourselves. We are constantly making choices about our bodies. We are constantly allowing messages that we've been given to dictate our lives.
Masturbation and the love of ourselves falls into that category as well. It's going to be an exciting conversation and an opportunity to learn more about how these concepts are connected...no matter how hard we try to keep them apart.
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Maysturbation Day 17: If My Partner(s) Masturbate(s) Am I Bad In Bed?
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Posted:May 17, 2018 10:04 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 12:39 am
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Today we are going to be talking about what it means if your partner masturbates. Some people are very tied to the idea that if their partner is masturbating then something (or some) is VERY WRONG. However, what if that is not the truth?
What if your partner and their masturbation could be a ful and important part of your relationship? Today I'm talking about why your partner's desire to masturbate doesn't mean that you should feel like you're doing something bad or wrong. It could just be something for them, about them and by them...which is perfectly alright!
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#Free2Fantasize
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Posted:May 16, 2018 11:13 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 12:39 am
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It is important to fantasize. All people can have sex dreams. Sometimes it's your brain's of creating release. Not to mention, the production of "good" hormones can help you in many ways...even while sleeping.
If the dream is very vivid you may experience orgasm or "night emissions" . You might even wake up and still be aroused.
Last night I had this dream that was so sexually vivid I felt a bit bad for leaving it. I wanted to say THANKS and at the same time "Sorry I gotta go". Such a good dream. Such a great out come.
So very glad to celebrate Maysturbation
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Maysturbation Day 11: What if I (Have you ever been) get caught
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Posted:May 11, 2018 6:53 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 12:39 am
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Sex (of any kind) can put people in a vulnerable position. Our defenses are down and we aren't as aware of our surroundings as we'd normally be. That's great when you're trying to tune into your body, relax or orgasm.
This is especially true if you the mood strikes and you're with or around others. Sure you could sneak off for a quickie but the fear of getting caught can stress people out. When you're masturbating, this can be even more of a concern because there's no one around t "cover your back" in both the physical and the literal sense.
Today I'm talking about what you can do if you do get caught and how to handle the concern ahead of time. In fact, being aware that you might get caught, taking care of things in advance and actually thinking of what you might say if to does happen is one of the best ways that ensure it never does.
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About Me:
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Posted:May 9, 2018 7:31 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 12:39 am
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I'm a Sexuality Educator with more than 14 experience, education and exploration in the world of Human Sexuality, Relationships and Psychology. I have a Post Graduate Certificate in Instructional Design from Walden University and a Master's of Education in Counseling and Human Relations from Northern Arizona University. My undergraduate studies were in Sociology and Family Studies. I am also a certified in the areas of: Cuddle Party Facilitation, Our Whole Lives Sexuality Education, Triadic Model Approach to Surrogacy Partners and Professional Cuddling (-on-).
I've always pursued an interest in Human Sexuality and I find the topic fainating. I've always known that I was a bit different than other people. As a younger person concepts like monogamy and treating those were are sexually different, seemed odd and often confusing to me. Sex was always something that I had an interest in knowing more from the logical and practical aspects. While people were diussing kissing and who they had slept with, I was far more concerned about their feelings and thoughts behind the sex that they were having.
Growing up, sexuality education was accessible and accepted in my home. Many girls didn't know about their bodies and they would come to me to have conversations that their parents wouldn't have with them. It's easy to say that I've been doing this work my ENTIRE LIFE and now FriendFinder-x is helping me create a way to make that knowledge accessible to you.
When you follow my blog, you are getting well thought out, authentic and empowering conversations about sex and sexuality that you may not find anywhere else. I am sharing more than bits about bits. My commitment is that your thoughts, ideas and personal relationship to sexuality is transformed to bring healing, power and freedom by working with me.
I know that the work I'm doing is important and it has value. There are Sexuality Educators who charge much more for their time, training and expertise. and perhaps day I will. However, I know that healing the harm d in society comes by way of making sexuality education accessible, easy to digest, comfortable to participate in and available on demand.
FriendFinder-x is a wonderful platform for this balance. Your contribution to my FriendFinder-x allows you to save time, ask questions and learn while having fun. You are also providing me the support I need to continue developing the resources you want. It truly is a win-win!
I am not sure when you'll read my blog, I only know that when you do you'll become part of my community. A community designed to transform the world, orgasm at a time. I look forward to working with you and making the world we live in happier, healthier and more sex positive, because we can!
Love well and Live well.
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Maysturbation Day 9: Shame & Guilt Be Gone!
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Posted:May 9, 2018 6:02 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 12:39 am
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Too many people feel guilt and shame about masturbation. Be it because they were told that they'd: "have hair palms", "go blind" or "never be happy with a partner" we have have all been told some really damaging lies about masturbation.
The benefit of having people afraid of masturbating is that it becomes this dark secret that can then be catered through with porn, shame and guilt. Thus the cycle begins. If you can convince people that they shouldn't be doing something....they'll want to do it. In fact they'll invest millions and millions of dollars into finding ways to do it. More than the money, that guilt will cost them peace of mind, self acceptance and happy narratives about themselves and others.
That is too costly a price to pay. When we remove the shame and guilt around masturbation something affirming happens that is worth more than the millions we spend trying to pretend we don't masturbate any way.
Today that is what we'll be talking about during Maysturbation Day 9. Feel free to join the conversation.
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