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Home wrecker?
Posted:Apr 28, 2020 4:45 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2020 10:35 am
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Who is responsible if an affair breaks up a marriage if the affair is instigated via an online dating site?
Myself
The husband
Both of us
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Home wrecker?
Posted:Apr 28, 2020 4:36 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2020 5:04 pm
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Okay, so I've been looking for a married guy for a couple of weeks now and I've received a few comments, notibly from guys who accuse me of being a home or family wrecker. They seem to think that I am solely responsible if a marriage falls apart, and tend to forget that there is also a man involved in this process, a man who has actively been seeking a woman to have either sex or a relationship with whilst still being in a marriage.
There must be something wrong with the marriage in the first instance for a guy to be looking oustide of the marriage for female company. I suppose that there is an argument that I have low moral values, but I would say to that that it is not my intention to end a marriage and I would never make a guy choose between me and his wife.
I realise that embarking on this course of action could quite possilby have serious consequences, I have thought about this deeply so I'm not just in this for something to do because I'm bored. It is because I realise the severity of the consequences that I am looking for a long term relationship rather than just a fling. A fling that could end up in the break-up of a marriage and the affair all in one foul sweep. By offering a long term relationship I regard myself as helping a guy in distress at a time of need, and you never know, he could end up going back to his wife and who'd be the loser then - I would. So you see I have as much to loose as the either the guy or his wife.
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The search continues
Posted:Apr 26, 2020 3:39 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2020 3:50 pm
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So, I haven't logged for a while, I had a promising match for my affair, a guy who lived an exciting life style, was willing take abroad for holidays in his Florida mansion and the trappings of that kind of lifestyle, but I discovered that he has a temperament that would have made having an affair really difficult. I am looking for an easy going guy not someone who loses his temper if he doesn't get get his way.
I know affairs are basically about having sex, but I feel that I'm not being taken seriously. I have plenty of enquiries from travelling sales men who are looking for liaisons whilst they're away from home and our relationship would be one that revolves around the guy passing my area and just stopping off for a "bonk". That's not what I'm looking for and I will explain more thoroughly what I am looking for in my next blog.
Not withstanding the constraints of the difficulties imposed by the presence of the Corona virus, I feel that this is not something that will be resolved in the short term, indeed this can be regarded as a positive as I am able take my time really search for man who will exactly match what I am looking for and provide the best chance for a loving and long term affair, someone who I would be happy have a baby with and possibly end living with as a family unit.
Who can tell what the future holds? My search goes ...
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My search continues
Posted:Apr 11, 2020 4:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2020 4:05 pm
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So day two of my quest to become a mistress. I have received offers of acceptance which I am considering carefully. I have particular requirements and I am in no hurry to jump into bed with the first husband who asks, so I will wait and see what the future holds in store me, love Steffi x
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