After reading a LOT of complaints about the lack of responses from women, how hard it is to connect, etc. I've decided to put up a sort of "HOW TO" post in the hopes it will inform the male population and increase their chances of making real, in-person connections.

I've checked out tonnes of profiles on here and believe I might have some STEP BY STEP suggestions. If you're interested that is....

First - PUT UP A PROFILE PIC!!! I hope I don't offend anyone here, but if you look at profiles in general, you'll quickly see that most guys don't bother to put up a pic! Seriously - how do you expect women to be interested if all we see is a blank man's silhouette? And please don't use that tired old excuse of needing to be discrete in public, cuz of work, neighbours, etc.!!!! The same thing holds true for most women too, but we still make an effort to entice the guys. Put up something that would get a woman interested in having sex with you. Seeing an unflattering pic does NOT encourage a woman to give you more than a passing glance! And please offer more than just a dick pic! The following poses are interesting and encourage a more sexual response.



Second - sorry, but most profiles are just boring... To attract more attention from potential partners, do not leave anything as "prefer not to say". And then, fill out the rest of the darn questions!! At least let a woman know what interests you have, and what you fantasize about. A good way to do this is by incorporating these little 'bling' pix. So.... get creative and remember - you're trying to entice a woman to respond to you. In other words - put in some effort!

Third - what do YOU have to offer a potential partner?? What can you offer that will make it special for the woman??? If you have a sense of humour, give us an idea of that by incorporating humour into your profile. If you have a raunchy nature, this is the time to bring it out. (Remembering to still be respectful tho!!) Quite honestly - we don't just want to be something that provides friction so you can get off. We want to enjoy the experience as well. So let us know what kind of experience we can expect from you.

Fourth - READ THE PROFILE!!! A woman will always give clues of what to talk to her about, so you're not stumbling around with your dick in your hand saying, "I wanna get laid... " Women tend to put quite a bit of effort into what they write in their profile and if guys would just take the time to actually read, they'd know everything they need to get their own desires met.

Fifth - join a group - or two or three - and write some responses, make some posts, write blog posts of your own, etc. (And not just that you're available! So is everyone else on here - big deal!) How do you stand out from the crowd?? This gets you and who you are 'out there' and generates more interest in connecting with you. It all comes down to the same old thing all the time - if you wanna get some, you've got to give. Respect, time, effort, and a real interest in who the woman is, will almost always get you laid!

Finally - Sixth and last one here - Respect is always key!!! Give some consideration to how you approach a person and what kind of impression you're making on them. This also means being honest in your answers.

So you see? It all boils down to one thing!! You have to put in the effort to achieve your dreams. Whatever they are!

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