TayTiki 52F
91 posts
1/21/2021 7:35 am

As human beings, we do not have agree everything. Diversification what our world has become. History has made this way and our recourse now is accept .
We can not change what was or what will be.
We can not change our friends and neighbours, just what inside of ourselves. one and thing in this life that we have total and complete control over is what is inside of us. You can blame no one else for your thoughts or actions.
Remember, you can never take back anything that has already been done, but you certainly put your best face forward and make things better.

Leegs2012 49M  
92100 posts
1/21/2021 8:35 am

Words well written!!!

TayTiki replies on 1/21/2021 8:53 am:
lol.. you sure you dont just love what i write cuz im cute?

84kev89 37M
13 posts
1/21/2021 8:39 am

I agree. I use my past mistakes as fuel to push forward for a better future

TayTiki replies on 1/21/2021 8:54 am:
yes! regrets feed failure.. reliving old ways breeds self loathing... life is about moving forward.. btw.. ur super cute lol

Friendly19566 65M  
7 posts
1/26/2021 7:04 am


Again, much wisdom here. We 'humans' will never agree on everything, so very true. If we did, there would be no more wars, no more hurt, no more diversity. Boy, what a vanilla world that would be!

Agreed, you cannot change outside influences. We cannot change the past, agreed. You cannot take back what was done and you cannot blame others for your thoughts and actions. There's always a 'bill' to be paid for what you have done and your actions. The cost is yours alone to bear.

I do disagree, you CAN change what will be. You can change your friends. You can change your future. If you don't like your present path, your influences, your present thoughts, you CAN change them.

We all have the ability to make change within our confines, within our abilities. I'm not saying that anyone can easily change their life situation, the cards we've been dealt or our environment.

That said, we can always affect change by changing our attitude. We can always change our perspective. Often a change in our outlook can change our lot in life. If we only look at our personal situation with negativity, we can't change how we move forward.

Change is incremental. Change happens one small step at a time. Changing your path requires taking a different fork in the road. We all have it in us to do, the question becomes, do we want to affect the change and work to make that change happen.


TayTiki replies on 1/26/2021 7:40 am:
you are right!!!!

MrWrong4RghtNow 55M  
2369 posts
1/26/2021 7:22 am

Living in the past means forsaking the future
Forgetting the past means revisiting your mistakes
Embracing the future means looking ahead
Accepting your mistakes is half the battle
The other half is living a life with an open mind

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment

TayTiki replies on 1/26/2021 7:42 am:

b1243b 34M
15 posts
1/30/2021 8:55 pm

Very true

OldTeacher5 65M  
64 posts
2/5/2021 5:34 pm

People fear change. But they shouldn't. After all; it's the ONLY constant in our lives. One can't control 'change'; the only thing they can control is themselves; their reaction to the changes.

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