Easily Create a BETTER Profile!
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Posted:Sep 6, 2021 6:22 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2021 11:26 pm
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We'd like to give some advice to the throngs of couples who are not generating as much suitable interest from their profile as they'd like. (Hint... it's not FriendFinder-x's fault!)
Here we go...
1. PICTURES (post a lot of them!)
a. NEVER have a "dick pic" as your primary photo. At least 75% of the M/F couples here include a bi-curious or bi-sexual female. So lead with your strength... HER.
b. Post AT LEAST 5 pictures. Make sure ALL 5 (or more) include HER. Make one a SEXY couple picture. Yes, they are curious what the dude looks like, but he is not typically why we are here. Yes, do a "dick pic", but be creative. Put it in HER hand,
mouth, etc... just make sure she is included.
c. Take QUALITY pictures! We cannot express this enough. Dark or blurry shots will get you a "swipe left".
d. the background. It speaks VOLUMES. Tidy up, simple. If you're painting a wall, take your photos from another angle. Your complete Beanie collection on the armoire will earn you no special favor!
e. Leave politics of your pics. For example, whether you are pro or con about masks, it is not the prefered way to disguise your in the LS. If you are concerned about internet anonymity, there are a hundred other very sexy ways to hide your without turning some people off.
2. INTRODUCTION
a. Be friendly. No one is interested in contacting and spending their fun time with "salty" or demanding people. Think of nice ways to convey your boundaries.
b. Check your spelling (and then recheck it). No one says you have to be Whitman, but poor grammar will not generate interest from quality couples. Oh, and leave the abbreviations to the .
c. Convey your message, but keep it as short and simple as possible. Unless you're a professional novelist, you WILL lose interest WAY before they reach the seventeenth paragraph.
d. Never say "Just looking". All you are saying is "we are not serious about meeting you". So why should they if you finally do decide to reach out?
FOLLOW-UP!
a. When you get a message, flirt, I.M. or friend request, promptly reply. Remember, this is what you want to happen! Besides, wouldn't you appreciate the same?
b. If you get a message from someone that you feel wouldn't be a good match, REPLY and pleasantly tell them that based upon OUR profiles, we don't feel it's a match for us and THANK THEM for reaching out and wish them the best.
c. If you are communicating with someone, but are unable to lock down a /time to meet, that's okay. It's life. Unless something changes, keep communicating with them until all parties can commit.
d. As mentioned, anonymity is important for many people. However, after have committed to an initial meeting, you shouldn't be a problem with sharing photos prior. It is actually the last necessary step to ensuring good physical attraction. Beyond that, it's important to know what they like when you arrive! It's also much safer not to arrive "blind".
A final note... remember this is not . Your goal should be to make good personal contacts, not to build a huge "friends" list. It is quite frustrating for those here seeking lifestyle connections, to be added to a friends list, never to be contacted again.
Thank you for reading and we forward to your supportive or constructive input! Feel free to share (with ).
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Am I a Dom or a sub?
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Posted:May 24, 2021 4:36 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2021 2:32 am
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Basically a "Dom" prefers be dominant during sex. While a sub prefers to submit, i.e. be dominated. It follows that a sub pursuing another sub, or a Dom pursuing another Dom, is looking for something that his love object can't really offer. avoid this kind of heartache, you should figure out whether you are dom or sub, and how much so. Maybe you even swing both ways, although I believe this isn't very probable.
What follows will clarify the concept of doms versus subs.
Sexual dominance needn't accompany other forms of dominance. The literary image of the bold politician or CEO who leads others in mighty enterprises, only head home be tenderly spanked by his wife, has its counterparts in reality. People who are only mildly dominant or submissive probably find themselves in such paradoxical situations more often. In other words, being submissive doesn't make you a pansy.
Being submissive is certainly not worse than being dominant. It is what it is. Desires in the bedroom has nothing do either way with demanding social, political or economic inequities. If feminism numbers among its demands female pleasure during sex, allowing oneself be hogtied can, for the right person, be an act of supreme feminism.
Admitting that you are submissive or dominant does not oblige you experiment with B/D, much less S/M. Sexual power relations can be expressed in less overt ways, such as choice of sexual position, style of dirty talk, fierceness of pumping, and selection of lingerie.
Dominating someone in bed does not mean being mean them. Actually it is the nicest thing you can do if they are submissive.
Being a submissive man, or a dominant woman, doesn't mean that you're gay. Sexual preference in general is independent of whether one is a dom or a sub. Gay people are just more likely be aware of both preferences, since both members of a gay couple obviously can't subscribe society's stereotype of dominance and female submissiveness. It's harder for straight people say things like "I wish I could go out with a man in a woman's body" or "I feel like a lesbian in a man's body" because they've been living in a mental straight-jacket.
Discussing this topic with your partner is important. Anyway it goes, I hope that your conversation at least "degenerates" into some erotic talk! 
Be happy with yourself! ?*
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