How To Get Your Girl To Take It In The Ass And LOVE It.
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Posted:Dec 20, 2016 1:28 pm
Last Updated:Dec 25, 2016 7:56 am
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How to get your girl to take it up the ass and LOVE it.
1) You are NOT going to fuck her ass tonight. You are NOT going to fuck. Her ass this week. If that's what you want quit reading and move on.
2) There are two psychological "humps" that you have to get over before before you can put your dick in her ass; the "ewww" factor and the "owww" factor. The "ewww" factor is actually a couple things. It usually sounds like "that's gross," "its an exit not an entrance" and "only sluts do anal."
4) In order to help a woman get over the "ewww," DO NOT TELL HER YOU WANT TO FUCK HER ASS. Start slow, think "baby steps," and get ready to eat a LOT of pussy. Day 1) Go down on your girl. As your eating her tongue her taint. Pussy and taint, do a good job. Fuck her pussy. That's it. DON"T SKIP STEPS. (These days don't need to be consecutive but they do need to be in order.) Day 2) Repeat. (Feel free to repeat any day you want. Slow and steady for the win.) Day 3) Eat her pussy. Tongue her taint. Tongue her ass. Make it wet. Do a good job. Fuck her as usual. Day 4) Repeat. The goal here is for her to enjoy minor anal stimulation. Don't draw attention to the fact that you're eating her ass, make it part of good oral sex. A couple of things are going to happen here; she's gonna see that you don't have an "ewww'" reaction to her ass and she's going to start to see that she can receive pleasure through her anus. Day 5) Eat her pussy, lick her taint, eat her ass. This time you're going to eat her to climax. As you eat her, put the flat of your thumb against her anus and apply gentle but firm pressure. ONLY the flat of your thumb. DO NOT PENETRATE. IF YOU EVER WANT IN HER ASS, DON'T PENETRATE. The muscles that contract during her orgasm are tied to the muscles of her anus. As you put pressure there, it puts pressure on the muscles that will contract when she cums. When you eat her to orgasm, she WILL cum harder than normal. Lesson to her (whether she consciously realizes it or not) is that ass play leads to great orgasms. Day 6- Repeat. You are teaching her that ass play is part of good sex. Don't rush it. She may even say that she's ready to try anal. She isn't. If you fuck her ass now you risk ruining everything. By this time, the '"ewww" factor is largely extinguished. But still DON'T talk about wanting to fuck her ass, that "only sluts do anal thing" is resilient.
5) Overcoming the "owww" factor. In practical terms, you can put something in your ass the size of your turd without too much effort. But of course your ass wants to open to poop. It's not used to opening to let something in. Anatomy fact: the muscles of the anus aren't ONE ring, there's an inside ring and an outside ring. So, with that knowledge, Day 9) Eat her pussy, her taint and her ass. This time as you eat her to orgasm, you're going to press your index finger against her anus. If it isn't wet, you haven't eaten her pussy well enough. Make sure its wet. You're going to put one finger, one knuckle deep into her ass. One knuckle only passes the outer ring of her anus. DON'T go any further. You've come this far, don't fuck it up now. Eat her till she cums. She will cum hard because that muscle is now stretched. If she asks you to fuck her ass tonight, or tomorrow. DON'T. Day 10) Repeat. Day 11) Repeat, you can move your finger as you do it. Moving it in circles aren't threatening. A little in and out is ok. You'll probably be passing through both rings of her ass doing this. Be gentle. Day 12) As you eat her to orgasm, finger fuck her ass. Don't be rough, slow strokes. Two knuckles deep. Maker her cum. Day 13) Repeat. Day 14) The same as 13, but this time, use your thumb. Its thicker than your finger be gentle. Day 15) Repeat.
6) Anal. At this point, she's probably ready to try anal. First, make her cum with your mouth, your cock, her vibe, what ever. Now, your cock is thicker than your thumb (at least it should be). So its going to stretch her a bit. Today is NOT ABOUT YOU. Use lube. Lots of lube. On her ass. On your cock. If you haven't made her cum before you try anything, you're an idiot. As you press the head of your cock against her ass, tell her to gently push like she's going to poop. This will help her ass open. Your cock will probably "pop" into her ass. At this point stop. Wait. Give her time to adjust. Then slowly and gently fuck her ass. Either you or her should be rubbing her clit right now. My girl moved from riding my cock to sitting on it. She set the pace, she set the depth. Once she got herself comfortable, she rubbed her her clit till she exploded. It was amazing. It was beautiful. I'll never forget it.
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Our Swing Diary: Descent into Depravity
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Posted:Nov 17, 2015 9:28 am
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2016 4:55 pm
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First a bit of history...
About 7 years ago my ex and I dabbled in the lifestyle. We attended Exotica in Calgary (now closed) 4 or 5 times. Mostly to flirt and to watch. The furthest we went was to make out with another couple.
Fast forward to 2015...I was telling my friend (Rainbow) about my experiences at Exotica and she insisted that we go. So in late September she and I rounded up a small crew (safety in numbers) that included her roommate Wild Flower, a couple Delicious and Her Boy and another guy Ill call G, to balance the numbers. (As an aside, I'm in my mid 40's and none of my friends were even half my age.). 
Having done a search online, I decided that we were going to go to Club Rendezvous. Getting there went fine, we found the club to be well appointed and not sketchy at all (the women had some concerns about what a club would be like). All our concerns were unfounded. The club was comfortable, the hosts were personable and the company was good.
Having put our fears behind us we got down to enjoying ourselves. Drinks were had, friends were made, inhibitions were lowered and before long Delicious proposed to my GF Rainbow that she'd lose her clothes if Rainbow did as well. So up the stairs we went. Kisses were had, boobs were groped and tasted and pussies were eaten.
We had two interactions with people that we met at the club. One was a couple, who I'll call Viking and Flirty, and one was a single guy who I'll call Stray. Flirty and my friend Wild Flower hit it off right away. Both gave and received enthusiastic pussy eating on the big ottoman. I can report that Flirty has tasty boobs.
Meanwhile on the couch Her Boy was having his first taste of pussy (can you believe it?) and lots of groping was going on. This was where we made our first mistake. Stray was part of the groping and touching. Everyone figured that someone else had invited him. In discussions afterword Delicious and Rainbow were kind of creeped out by him. But being our first visit we hadn't set up any plans for dealing with situations like this. We've learned.
Eventually Delicious and Her Boy left early. It was a case of sensory overload / too much too fast / and creepy guy Stray.
Rainbow and I had a good time. As did Wild Flower and G. I enjoyed sitting on a barstool downstairs with a nude Rainbow leaning back on me. The looks from the men made me think I just joined the Weiserhood.
In conclusion, most of us had a good time and we learned some important lessons.
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