Wishing and hoping
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Posted:Aug 20, 2018 6:18 am
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2020 5:56 pm
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I am loving living a life of kink, but I'm also looking for something more meaningful. I'm probably asking for the impossible male version of a unicorn, but here's hoping!
I'm looking for a serious alpha-male dominant. I need someone who is strong enough to dominate me in ways that we both find earth shattering. I want you to be able to send me into submissive bliss from across a crowded room. It takes some powerful dominance and connection for that to happen. I am looking for a man (or possibly couple) that will leave me in a puddle of goo with their words, actions, and glances. Someone who will let me play as I please, but know when I am with them, everything I do is to please them, show them how dirty, naughty and giving I am, to seduce them. I want magical, raw, sensual, powerful and intense sex. I have a HUGE sexual appetite. I am seeking a connection so deep that my thoughts become yours, that I both loose myself and find myself while we are together.
You should have extensive experience in things like: caning, flogging, whipping, paddling, and several other things that we can discuss. I want to feel owned AND free. If you're still interested, please continue to read...
I offer myself, and all of my joy in life, my excitement for this lifestyle and kink, all of the passion, enthusiasm, submission and desire you can possibly handle. I offer an adventurous spirit willing to try many new things, push boundaries, and submission with a little bit of attitude. I have a LOT of energy and a high sex drive. Take my breath away, then breathe new life back into me. Then I want you to take more.
Non-negotiable
-You're wearing a condom every single time you enter me, no matter if we've been playing together for a year. I don't plan to be monogamous and you won't be either. It's safer for everyone.
-You don't have to be a fitness buff, but you do have to have a care for your body on SOME level, I'm no super model myself. But I go to the gym 3 days a week to try and get in shape, and I stay active.
-NO married men, unless you are an alpha dominant couple who plays together.
-Be active in the BDSM community. References are appreciated.
-Have your own job, life and place to live. Be established and solid. You can't be a true dominant if you don't have your own shit together. I have my own, and want nothing from you in that regard.
-I am currently a cigarette smoker. I'm hoping to quit, but life and the pressure of full time college makes that difficult. If you have a problem with that, please move on.
-As you can tell by this post, I am no mouse. I was silenced for many years and refuse to be silent again. I live my life out loud and proud. I am not ashamed of who I am, and you shouldn't be either.
Negotiable
-No BBC, that's just my personal preference.
-My general age range guideline is 35-55
-Live fairly close to Gastonia, NC or surrounding areas
-Be able to have some sort of face-to-face interaction at least once or twice per week
-Have a play space of your own, St Andrew's Cross is my super kink. Love it, want it, need it, please.
-Be able to talk to me on the phone once per day for at least a few minutes. (Is that really too much to ask?). I don't want to be your afterthought, I don't want to wait for days to hear from you. I want to be as important in your life as you are in mine. We're going to be building a solid relationship, the effort is worth it!
Do not go into this with any intentions of trying to change me fundamentally to fit into your mold. You accept me as I am, or not at all. I am always working to improve myself in some way, and I grow more every single day. But a healthy relationship can't be based on what you "think" I may become. Accept that I am evolving! We should encourage each other to be the best versions of ourselves we can be. We'll BOTH be adjusting based on that 
In the meantime, I will be having an exciting time exploring while I wait for you to find me. I've got a LOT of living to do!
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