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Troll Logic: NO One is Normal here..No one is a friend or love to anyone..Damaged people are HERE !!
Posted:Mar 31, 2010 12:44 am
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2020 12:10 am
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Hello My Faithful readers...

I titled my blog post as such to get your attention..for our ongoing tale of woe involving the grotesque Grandmother trolls trying once again to ruin this site and the happiness of members here in the chat rooms they use. These dangerous idiots think they can ruin lives, threaten members and truly believe that anyone BUT them, who use this site are mentally deranged and ill.

For the past several weeks these GGLT's has been absent from the room and of course our minds..One of them out of desperation to be noticed, created a fake handle of a 22 year old cocktail waitress/escort...Of course we all saw through it right away and it is just so pathetic that instead of seeking out her own senior room and talk to people her own age, she uses our chat room for her hunting ground for new victims. She has even been following friends of mine into the France room among others demanding to know why they are not in our usual room and uses the France room to bother a very close friend of mine who is happily ensconced in that room where there is alot of love for her. Pitiful, it really is so sad and disgusting.

In the wonderful time they both have been away and causing havoc in their own families lives, we have had untold joy and happiness..Every day some one came to me and said "This room is so much fun" and "How do you do it ? Other rooms there is fighting ..here there is friendship and peace". I let them know how hard all of us work to maintain calm and order. Every single day new members found their way to us and thanked us for welcoming them to a "fun" room. "This is awesome" I heard constantly. Longtime members who found their way back to us cheered us on and shared in all the good times.

Fast forward to this week..a man who once came to the room we use decided to confess his indiscretions involving members at this site. His name is not important. Everyone knows I am talking about it now. I did not like or trust this man the first time I saw him. Something smelled rotten all over him. You know the kind of so called "man" I mean..The one with the smart aleck mouth always making rude or nasty comments than falling back with a "I am just just kidding" ..the one who goes on Instant messenger to bug women and brag about his so called conquests of multiple women. FYI spy : If you have to brag to a woman about how many women you are having sex, than you are not having sex with ANY women. I will give him what his other victims won't, credit for stepping up and admitting what he has done. I know several female members and was not aware that they began trusting this idiot. He was sent to SPY on the M/East and India rooms. His "mission" was to collect as much personal data and information for the..wait for it....YES, you guessed it..for the Grotesque trolls. They ordered him to become friendly with people, collect information, addresses and photos and hand it all over to the GGLT's. You see these horrible women have lost so many friends who ran as fast as they could away from these monsters that their only recourse was to find a way to get rid of alot of members all at once. I can count on my one hand, how many "men" are still even talking to them. What I would like to ask the spy is a 2 parter..

1) What were you supposed to do with all the personal information that would be used against members here ? Were the family members and of your victims in danger ?

2)What on Earth would have possessed you to do such a stupid illegal thing ? Were you paid in cash or credit cards or were you promised sex with the trolls who are old enough to be your Grandmother ? Also didn't it bother you a little bit that the women you were spying for are well known racists who deeply HATE your own country and its people ??

I doubt my darling readers that we shall have ever have those questions answered. Sadly Hell began to vomit the filth back onto us again and last night the GGLT were in their evil glory in the room. Only one of their so called "men" spoke to them. Everyone else in the room spoke to me and others flashed me asking why those 2 old creatures were even allowed on the site. They proclaimed that since they had been gone, the room, Our precious little battle scarred and bloodied room, was now dead..One of the trolls declared the room had been awful as people asked each other how are you ? and asked how life was going on..You know what NORMAL people who like to chat with their friends talk about. The conceit and vanity of these monsters to think that because Hell swallowed them up for a brief wonderful time, that the room had died in their ugly abscence. One of them has come back as now a male handle...LOL..how appropriate . One of the last men who was cybering with her, and told me he thought it was the BIGGEST mistake of his life and his life long regret..came into the room months back and told everyone she is a man..He saw her on cam..perhaps he knows better than the rest of us do. This is bone deep soulless evil...Just no other word for it. BTW, when we are all in the chat rooms we have a marvelous time..a happy time..and not one word to or about these GGLTs...Yet when they climb out of whatever pile of crap they have hidden under, all they do is talk about US..wow, I am the most boring member on this site..and yet they can not stop talking about us..I told my friends to be flattered..that the GGLTs and their pathetic and useless lifes are so empty that all they can talk about is US..amazing...

I shall end with a quote from a fav film of mine...I may have mixed up the order of words but you can get the jist of what I am trying to say..

Dean Wormer talking to Flounder, "Animal House"..

", going through life fat, drunken and stupid is no way to live"...

Flounder as all good do, promptly threw up on our Dean Wormer.

Be Brave my fellow members...One of these days....these evil ugly GGLTs will be gone from this site..and once again men can look at cams and not see the horror of these two on them.

Your Faithful Journalist..

Ana

PS: Just came out of the room after some of the worst filth and abuse ever levelled at a woman on our site. The Spy for the GGLTs is now denying he ever admitted anything..calling two women he admitted it to liars..and other worse words..and Just so all of you know..according the the one GGLT, NO ONE can be on this site and be happy in their private life. I came here to learn about people and cultures around the world from my own backyard..I have a very wonderful loving fiance who knows all my friends here and has spoken with several on the phone. But in the Monsters eyes , No one can be normal here..there are no real friends or relationships made..No one to be trusted..No one who comes to a sex site can be a happy person ?? This from a woman with no life whatsoever..so who the hell would believe anything that came out of that mouth ?? Thank God for the ignore button.
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The Time for Cowardice is NEVER
Posted:Nov 21, 2009 12:11 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2013 3:12 am
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Hello My Readers..

I have been trying to find a way to thank my friends who stood by me when I lost my Best Friend Alex..and who are praying for her sister Rhonda to be healed from her cancer. These are amazing folks who came here to chat and have a good time, yet when death stared us all in the face and took away Alex..they were here for me..I have told them thank you and was realizing as we face yet another FriendFinder-x TROLL problem targeting them, that the time for me to stand was NOW..

Over my years here I have always tried to do what is right, good and helpful. I have listened, comforted and supported. I have never insulted anyone nor taken any pleasure when it is done to someone, even those trolls we so often as forced to deal with. I am the journalist of all the trials we have seen and suffered through over the years. I have often stood amazed at what cruelty can be masked by a fake handle..Even more amazed, I have watched MEN..grown up men seeking women here..sit and stay silent as evil trolls abuse, harass,stalk and threaten the very women they are begging to talk to them. I have always been the one folks call on when they needed questions answered about the site, or a problem fixed with the site as I always seem to know the right folks to contact. I do not mind lending a hand as long as a fellow member benefits from whatever I do. Being here to me is a priviledge and not a given. So I ask myself..why do these grown men sit and stare while harpies and trolls/villains yell and scream their threats at innocent men or women ? Is it because they are to timid or frightened if they stand up for the innocent then they too will become a target of the very trolls ? Is it because we have all become to afraid to stand for even 1 innocent person ? What happens when it becomes their turn to be picked on ? Who will stand for them ? Will there even be anyone left to stand and say "THIS is wrong" ?

When did it become okay to attack someone for the colour of their skin ? Their nationality ? Their sexuality ? Their religion ? When did being as cruel and as viscious as you can be become the norm ?

In our chat room, I am a member of a group of friends who have come together and said "Enough is enough." We gave ourselves silly nicknames..ask each other, how are you ? the family ? how is work going ? When any of us suffers a loss like mine, or illness we come together and pray for a remedy. We do not attack others nor do we condon the attacking of anyone, not even the trolls who are helping to destroy this site. Yet on most nights, if you venture near our room, you will see Me, Ana, with our friends and if the female trolls are on the hunt you will see bloodshed/lies/obscenties/threats. We do as the Legal dept of this site asked us to do.."IGNORE THE TROLLS". I am thinking of having t-shirts made with that logo on it. We say it to each other on flash or IM to remind ourselves that we are not the bad guys nor do we wish to follow any of their examples.

The trolls on this site seem to think by "virtue" of their age (almost 60 in most cases) that they can run this site and order others to do their bidding. We do NOT agree with this. The trolls think if they target you long enough and scream threats at you, you will leave. NONE of Us have left nor do we intend to. The trolls believe if they tell enough lies someone will believe them..or listen to them..Or if they can find a friend of yours, take them away from you and turn them against you. Sadly, all they have done is to break up a number of men/women who had a real nice shot at a relationship and crush those dreams into dust.

They have even made terrorist threats on this website and threatened to kill women by slitting their throats..So tell me all, please..what did this woman do to deserve that ? Nothing..She did nothing..the innocent never do..and since we won't be quiet or silent to their criminal ways, we must be threatened and our countries also.

I know what you must all be thinking..why not leave ? Why not flee for the nearest hole in a wall and hide ?? WE did nothing wrong so why should the innocent flee why the guilty thrive and punish decent people just trying to enjoy a website ? WHY are we letting the trolls tear down and destroy a site that was created for all and not just these older sad women and men who think they are above all of us ? WHY are folks just sitting their while these criminals scream their lies and abuse ?

Hacking, stalking , death threats, terrorist threats..lies, abuse..identity theft..I have seen it all here and now am asking to see something else..I want to see US all stand as ONE and say ENOUGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH..as loud as you can...Enough with these horrible trolls and their attacks..STAND up and be counted when you seen someone being targeted by these trolls. (I know every room has trolls..I get that..Our Trolls seem to only be strong when there are more then 1 of them around..Just like the cowards they are they wait until they have someone else to scream with them)Stand up and say NO..don't be Nice to them..don't greet them with hellos and civility because you are afraid you will be targeted or seen as the bad guy for talking to us instead of them. If enough people have the courage to stand as one..we can defeat any size enemy..Our forefathers did it and theirs before them...If enough people see through them and their lies we can show every troll/stalker on this site that their kind of behavior will NOT be tolerated..

Remember if you do not stand for others in their time of need..who will be left to stand for you when it is your time to be attacked or abused ?

DO what is right and do it because you know it is the right thing to do.

All for one and One for all..

I am standing..
I am saying Enough..

Who else will stand and say it with me ?

Your Faithful FriendFinder-x Journalist,

ANASTASIA666...

JUST CALL ME ANA...
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SEXY Music to make love to..What are your favourites ?? :) Wanna play some for me ?
Posted:Feb 2, 2009 2:19 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2013 1:38 am
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Hello all,

Yes it is me..your faithful FriendFinder-x journalist back again to ask you what music makes you feel soooooooooo good..what turns you on in that special way ? What song makes your body throb with passion ??

I took an informal poll in our chat room and we all decided that the group Enigma and their first cd, is the CD to make love to..Hands down...very erotic.

I am posting a couple songs here of my choosing that help set the mood. When I posted them in our room I was rewarded by the women copying the lyrics to keep and the men telling me their erections really appreciated my words..LOL..

Feel free to add to this thread...Share with us all..what makes you so hot you could listen to it over and over again as you make love ???

Happiness and Hugs,

Ana...

Here are my first 3 choices:

Lyrics to "Come Inside" : By the group Intro:

[Chorus:]
(Let me) let me, come inside
(I'll keep you) I'll keep you satisfied, tonight
If you want me, if you need me
(Let me) turn down all the lights
(I'll make you) I'll make you feel alright, tonight
Come inside, come inside

[Verse 1:]
I'm thinking about you
The last time we made love,
And I fantasize,
So many things that I dream of
I wanna do with you baby
And tonight won't be the same
I wanna come inside I like to hear you call my name

[Bridge 1:]
(Slowly) I'll give it to you baby
(Only) if you promise me you'll let your mind run free
Grab a hold and love me totally
I wanna slip and slide dip and dive,
Do everything to make it alright tonight
Just let me come inside, oh baby

[Chorus:]
(Let me) let me, come inside
(I'll keep you) I'll keep you satisfied, tonight
If you want me, if you need me
(Let me) turn down all the lights
(I'll make you) I'll make you feel alright, tonight
Come inside, come inside

[Verse 2:]
Baby just imagine I can do anything you please
I can set your body on fire, or soothe your soul with ease
Just a kiss, I'll taste your sweet sweet lips
All of the passion I have inside of me
I know you won't forget

[Bridge 1:]
(Slowly) I'll give it to you baby
(Only) if you promise me you'll let your mind run free
Grab a hold and love me totally
I wanna slip and slide dip and dive,
Do everything to make it alright tonight
Just let me come inside, oh baby

[Chorus:]
(Let me) let me, come inside
(I'll keep you) I'll keep you satisfied, tonight
If you want me, if you need me
(Let me) turn down all the lights
(I'll make you) I'll make you feel alright, tonight
Come inside, come inside

[Bridge 2:]
Let me rub you down
(Let me caress you all over your body, baby)
Move in closer now
(Feel my inner rise)
Hold on tight and don't don't let go
Coming home together baby
[Talking until song ends]

"So Good" lyrics By Coco Lee

Let me get that.
Uh-uh-uh-uh -
yeah that's it.
You feel that? I know you feel that... Let's ride.

[Verse 1 ]
Big Daddy close the door.
What are you waiting for?
I'm crawling on the fours.
Come join me on the floor.

I want this rug to burn.
You're greedy it's my turn.
You've got a lot to learn.
Cause I'm on this job to work.

[Pre-Chorus]
Hush now - whose is it
Don't talk - just hit it
I need a little more - than a minute
I wanna pass out - with you in it
Don't stop - baby take it
Deeper - till you break it
Open - cause I need it.
Harder, harder, harder, harder

[Chorus]
I feel your flow
The vibe is so sexual
Got me feeling like letting go
Think I'm gonna ride you all night long
Cause this feel so, so, so, good...So, so, so, good...
Oh -
I know you feel that.
Yeah - uh

[Verse 2]
Lay back and just relax.
Don't mind the candlewax.
With nails upon your back.
I'll do it just like that.
Lust sitting on your face
Tongue kiss my inner place
And as I start to shake
A sensual escape

[Pre-Chorus]
Hush now - whose is it
Don't talk - just hit it
I need a little more - than a minute
I wanna pass out - with you in it
Don't stop - baby take it
Deeper - till you break it
Open - cause I need it.

Harder, harder, harder, harder

[Chorus]
I feel your flow
The vibe is so sexual
Got me feeling like letting go
Think I'm gonna ride you all night long
Cause this feel so, so, so, good...So, so, so, good
I feel your flow
The vibe is so sexual
Got me feeling like letting go
Think I'm gonna ride you all night long
Cause this feel so, so, so, good...So, so, so, good
I feel your flow.

[whispers]
Give me some of that.
Whose is it
Just hit it
Till you break it
Cause I need it.
Yeah - cause I need it.

[Chorus]
I feel your flow
The vibe is so sexual
Got me feeling like letting go
Think I'm gonna ride you all night long
Cause this feel so, so, so, good...So, so, so, good
I feel your flow
The vibe is so sexual
Got me feeling like letting go
Think I'm gonna ride you all night long
Cause this feel so, so, so, good...So, so, so, good


"Freak Me"


Artist: Silk

Let me lick you up and down
Til you say stop
Let me play with your body baby
Make you real hot

Let me do all the things you want me to do
Cuz tonight baby I wanna get freaky with you
Baby don't you understand
I wanna be your nasty man
I wanna make your body scream
And you will know just what I
(you know what I mean)

24 carat gold
To warm the nights when you get cold
I wanna lick you up and down
And then I wanna lay you down
C'mon silk

*chorus*
I love the taste of whipcream
Spread it on don't be mean
(baby don't be mean)
You know I can't resist you girl
I'll fly you all around the world
(all around the world, oh baby)
I wanna make your body drip
C'mon let me take a sip

(c'mon, c'mon, c'mon)
Take off what you cherish most
(c'mon,c'mon, come on, come on baby)
Cuz when I brag I like to brag and boast

*chorus*
You, you, you, you
Oh you
You, you, you, you
Let me freak you
You, you, you, you
All of you
I want it, I want it
You, you, you, you
Oh you
You, you, you, you

Let me do you
Cuz tonight baby, I wanna get freaky with you
*chorus*



"Dance me to the Beauty of your love" By L. Cohen, this song was given to us here by my friend Hassan..Enjoy..

Dance me to your beauty with a burning violin
Dance me through the panic til Im gathered safely in
Lift me like an olive branch and be my homeward dove
Dance me to the end of love
Dance me to the end of love

Oh let me see your beauty when the witnesses are gone
Let me feel you moving like they do in babylon
Show me slowly what I only know the limits of
Dance me to the end of love
Dance me to the end of love
Me to the wedding now, dance me on and on
Dance me very tenderly and dance me very long
Were both of us beneath our love, were both of us above
Dance me to the end of love
Dance me to the end of love

Dance me to the who are asking to be born
Dance me through the curtains that our kisses have outworn
Raise a tent of shelter now, though every thread is torn
Dance me to the end of love

Dance me to your beauty with a burning violin
Dance me through the panic till Im gathered safely in
Touch me with your naked hand or touch me with your glove
Dance me to the end of love
Dance me to the end of love
Dance me to the end of love
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I am a Legend ?? Hell Yeah, Hear me ROAR !!
Posted:Dec 22, 2008 1:48 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2013 3:14 am
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Hello all,

Your faithful FriendFinder-x Journalist is back among you once more. I was in our favourite chat room and happily chatting away when this nice gentleman from the NZ/Aux area of the world comes in and greets me with, "Anastasia ? YOU are a legend"..I laughed it off at the time and we just kept chatting.

Later when I had time to ponder his comment and realized where he came from, I had to laugh. If little Miss Me is a legend it is only because we have stopped the criminals targeting the good folks who use this site. I must add that of those criminals, 98 percent come from his region of the world. I pictured him sitting in the Aus/NZ rooms and hearing Lord only knows what being said about me. That is what makes me laugh and how sorry I feel for those who live in fear of being caught for their criminal activities so they talk about me constantly. I am their "Boogeyman" it appears. I title I shall gladly wear with my new Legend Tag !!

Then another friend happened to remark to me that outside of our room, and yes sadly, even in the room we all use, that some folks talk about us in a not so nice way when we are not there..(ohhhhhhhhhh, how sad..to be talked about and in vain...sigh)The HUGE fear running through their little brains is that I have been known to report criminals and FriendFinder-x security deals with them. I just shook my head and wondered why innocent folks have anything to fear..if you do nothing wrong at this site,you fly under everyones radar...It is only the stalkers and criminals who need to fear being caught. If you are innocent why fear the security dept or abuse dept ?? Why fear being reported if there is nothing to report ??

And this my dears is why I am now a LEGEND...Never wanted the position but if this is my legacy here, than I shall proudly wear the mantle and I shall roar quite loudly whenever I want to..

LOL & Happy Holiday Hugs,

Anastasia666***
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"The Only way Evil succeeds is.."
Posted:Aug 16, 2008 2:52 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2013 3:17 am
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... when good people do Nothing"

Hello Once more dear readers...

Just when you think you have seen it all and you think, they can't do anymore can they ? They surprise even our jaded eyes.

For the faithful readers you might remember when this blog started I mentioned a person who was stalking female members here and drove a dear friend off this site in fear of her life..The women of the room nicknamed him "Dickless wonder" for a reason. We sadly thought he had done his worse when he stole my friends identity and than another womens pictures and wrote a obscene blog where he had his fake write how much she loved and missed him and then went on to write horrible things about the folks who still used the room long after she fled this site. In fact after she fled the site, the stalker seemed to fade away and we all hoped it was for good. Alas, nothing good seems to last around this fiend and he came slitering into the room and some of these folks forgave him ! (He threatened her life and stalked her and they forgave him..amazing) Then he waits his turn and writes that blog nailing these so called forgiving folks to the wall.

Once more he fades back into his own personal hell and lo and behold, I am back for 1 day before he starts in again, using a female fake handle..(You have heard me mention the she/he before) and the attacks begin anew. This time on a male friend of mine. Than another fake arrives to intercede on the victims behalf. (The stalker is well known for creating handles to harrass you and then suddenly a new handle shows up to defend and befriend you. He did this to my friend and others many times.) All I wanted was to see my friends who remained here and enjoy our time. Had he and his fakes left us especially me alone, I never would have known he existed, let alone his fakes. Yet he felt he had to attack a male friend of mine..Pain is his pleasure and unless he is doing evil or supervising it, he is not a happy nutcase.

Once more onto the breach dear friends..here we go...I ask you all to make sure this blog post is seen by as many folks as you can. Let them know the problem has resurfaced and made his problems ours once more. If I do nothing, if I keep silent or flee this site as his past victims have done, than evil wins. I for one, do not believe in standing by while innocent women are targeted by a twisted little psycho. Had he been smart and left us alone and sought his pleasure in his own Australia room and among those who think as he does, he would have been left alone to do whatever his sick heart wants to do. If anyone needs a new updated fake handle name list, please email me here at the site and I will happily provide it. My friend ran for her life from her after being brutally targeted and hunted by this freak. I am not going anywhere. You can fool some of these people who wish you were real. We on the other hand, know exactly what you are and see right through your fake "royal" status. We see through your jokes and fake flattery..We know how you threaten and then arrive to save the day in another fake handle. Every insult you typed against any of us, you still use now. You are an empty little man. I thank God you are so transparent.

One bit of gallows humour to toss out here..I was speaking with one of the 3 women targeted for extermination by the Aussie Nasties. I am one, my friend who fled to save her life is another and there is one more woman..(sadly, with this group there will always be one more woman..or victim) I said to the other woman, "Well if I have to be on a list to be done away with, I sure am on the best looking list I have ever seen.." The other women are quite beautiful which may be why the stalker is so obsessed. Me ? I am just me. Happy to be just me.

At least I am grateful for one thing..When another friend confirmed to me it was indeed the stalker using the fake handle, a couple people in the room who are close to "it" got quite defensive. One has become quite close to the "real and nice lady" who has been asking alot of members questions about me...Guess who she is quite close to ? Yes, the stalker. Lovely isn't it ? I was lucky enough to say Goodbye to them in a good way. A happy way. My way. My friends who left ? They never got a chance to say bye to anyone. (except through me) I am lucky I had these folks as friends but we all make our own choices and I choose to stand with the real people on this site and not with a madman who will one day turn on them as he has done so many times in the past to those who tried to be a friend to him.

Feel free to share your thoughts. I will update when I can.

Hugs,

Your Official FriendFinder-x Journalist,

Anastasia
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Happy Ho Ho HO Holidays to One & All !!!
Posted:Dec 22, 2006 12:57 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2013 3:21 am
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Hello My Fellow FriendFinder-x-ers,

I received this from a dear friend today and it made me think of how I could share this with as many folks as possible, so here I am with these simple but well meant words..

Hope you enjoy them and Happy Holiday Season for you and those you love.

Hugs,

Ana***

Today...I wish you a day of ordinary miracles- > > > > A fresh pot of coffee you didn't have to make yourself. > > > An unexpected phone call from an old friend. > > > > Green stoplights on your way to work or shop. > > > > I wish you a day of little things to rejoice in... > > > The fastest line at the grocerystore. > > A good sing along song on the radio. > > > > > > Your keys right where you look. > > > > > I wish you a day of happiness and perfection... little bite-size > pieces of perfection that give you the funny feeling that SOMEONE is smiling > on you, and > holding you so gently because you are someone special and rare. > > > > I wish You a day of Peace, Happiness and Joy. > > > > They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to > appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them
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Why it is so important to use the "Magic" ignore button !!!
Posted:Sep 13, 2006 12:26 am
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2017 12:42 am
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Hello all,

As you can imagine, the M/E room is quite the center of controversy these days. Folks are attempting to have each other banned on a regular basis. I truly believe that the ones causing the problems, The stalker, the filth who has not been around as much Thank God, and the stalkers little friend Puppet Master and his copycat "K" guy are the ones who have to go. I was asked last night by a dear friend and someone I trust to write in my blog about this and the wonder of the magic "Ignore button". I used to think I would never have to resort to that type of thing. Who would I ever want to put on ignore ??

Lets see how this plays out..When I am asked about the stalker and he is in the room with his fake handle waiting for my friend to appear so he can stalk and watch her, I usually announce the fake name. My women friends and I discuss it and than like the coward he is, he goes away only to come back later and spew abuse in everyones direction. Hence the magic button comes into play. I copy and paste and report as the owners of FriendFinder-x have instructed us all to do. Than I warn everyone else and they have their say and they hit the ignore button with me. That is how it is supposed to work. Usually the mental case goes away and the room goes back to normal. I suppose crazy Al the stalker is there, but when he types no one reads his words after the intial chat abuse reports. He is talking to dead air and maybe that is comfort enough for his deranged mind. I just do not know.

Now we throw this mess into the mix. We resolve as best as we can the situation with the Al the stalker and the next thing I know 2 good friends of mine are suddenly at each others throats. This puts the rest of us in the awkward postion of defending one or the other. Or as I tried to do last night, get them to talk or ignore each other. Insults flying right ,left and center, no way that either of those options is going to work. She refuses to talk to him, he is demanding she talk to him. Honey, it so ain't gonna happen. Where does that leave the rest of us who came in merely to have a simple chat and talk about our day or my blog.(thanks for making it a success by the way) Here is the only forseeable option I think that will work.

IGNORE EACH OTHER !!! Yes, that is right. He won't get the answers he seeks by trying to force her to talk to him, she won't get her satisfaction by insulting him and than using the button. Darlings, we love chatting with you in the room but there has been so much hell because of the mental freak squad of hackers and stalkers that the room is bursting at the seams with all this drama. Can we have one night where no one gets insulted ? Where a woman is not attacked by some maniac who is sick in the head over another woman he drove from FriendFinder-x ?? Where no one posts comments stirring up the pot and fire with insults than start using the magic Iggy button ?? How about pretending the person who hurt you or banned you isn't there in the room ?? WHY give them power over you to make you feel sad and force folks to take sides ?? Why can't you just leave the drama at the door and come in and visit and see your friends and chat ??

FriendFinder-x has asked me to remind you all once again about the power or copy and paste...REPORT..REPORT...REPORT !!! If someone is lying about you or faking a handle in your name, report it..If someone is abusing you in the chat room or your friends, copy and paste and report what they say and their handle. It doesn't help FriendFinder-x if you wait to tell me what the stalker has done when I am not there, you have to step up and report what you heard and saw. If someone is making derogatory remarks about someone's lifestyle, and you see it getting racial or abusive, FriendFinder-x asks you to report it. You can't blame someone or ban them from the room because you do not agree with their lifestyle choice or whether or not they are married, according to FriendFinder-x that can you banned if you try to do that or continue doing that. This site and the rooms belong to the FriendFinder-x owners and they allow us the priviledge of using it. There are no guarantees they can or will keep this room open if these horrific scenarios keep playing out. THE IGNORE button was created for a reason. Use it !!

Hugs,

Ana***
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