How to Find the G-Spot!
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Posted:Jan 21, 2010 1:23 pm
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2012 5:17 pm
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Physicians are not sure that the G-spot actually exists or even what it is, but this mysterious female antonimcal pleasure palace--when stimulated appropriately--can provide intense pleasure leading to powerful orgasms.
Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, for whom the G-spot was named, was the first to say it existed. A gynecologist known for his research on female genitalia, Grafenberg first wrote in 1950. Now researchers at King's College London in Britian have determined with a study of more than 1,800 female twins that there is no genetic basis for the G-spot. Rather, apparently, its existance depends on whether a woman believes she has a G-spot is based solely on environmental or psychological factors.
So where is it? It's a small area the size of a nickel on the front wall of the vagina. The reason it's so hard to identify is that it is more like a physiological change, such as swallowing  , than an anatomic structure, such as a nipple, said Dr. Irwin Goldstein, director of sexual medicine at Alvarado Hospital in California (where else!).
When the British study participants were asked if they believed they had a G-spot, 56 percent answered "yes," but since only 30 percent said they were able to achieve orgasm during intercourse, lead study author and clinical psychologist Andrea Burri thinks women may have been confused by the question. Stimulation of the G-spot, which would occur during intercourse, is supposed to induce orgasm. That means the percentage of women who say they have a G-spot and those who say they achieve orgasm during intercourse should have been about the same.
Who has a G-spot? The British study found correlations between a woman's personality (in other words you have to have one!) and whether she reported having a G-spot. Females who were more open to new experiences, had extroverted personalities and were more easily aroused were also more likely to say they had a G-spot, leading Burri to think there is a psychological component to it.
Debby Herbenick, author of the book "Because It Feels Good" and a research scientist at Indiana University who was not involved in the study, told CNN of the G-spot, "It's not so much that it's a thing that we can see, but it has been pretty widely accepted that many women find it pleasurable, if not orgasmic, to be stimulated on the front wall of the vagina."
The study findings were published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.
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one of the best articles I have ever read about relationships and love!
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Posted:Jul 12, 2008 9:26 am
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2021 1:19 pm
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the thing is:
DO YOU REALLY WANT LOVE? A RELATIONSHIP?
Are you kidding yourself?
Lying to yourself and others?
Are you a game player blaming everyone else instead of taking personal inventory?
THINK ABOUT IT...do you "PROJECT" your own issues on to others?
Example in sports: Joe Girardi says his team is inconsistant.
WHAT? He's inconsistant. I have NEVER seen a MLB manager take out a player that had 2 HRs in that game (e.g. Jason Giambi in the AZ series)...and I have been a MLB fan since I was 12.
Lots of us do that kind of thing and never assume responsibility.
JOE, your team is inconsistant because you take hot hitters out of the line up and make them warm the bench to give your second stringers a chance...that's because you were never given the chance you thought you deserved and yet as MGR of the NYY you can't handle it.
How does he expect to have anyone who is playing/batting "hot" consistantly? Joe is doing it to himself. This job is too big for him and instead of taking responsibility and CHANGING his managing style...he is doing the same thing BUT expecting a different result. That's insanity in MLB and in relationships.
This is a typical self-sabatoging type of psychology. Folks, this is a common psychological phenomena known as PROJECTION.
Please own your STUFF and move forward being
a responsible person.
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Find the love you want!
By Chelsea Kaplan
Those who’ve been through a divorce or widowhood are often faced with a challenge: When love comes your way again, will you be ready?
According to Dr. David Hawkins, author of Are You Really Ready for Love? 10 Secrets to Finding the One You Want, you can prep for love. It’s like learning any specific skill, such as playing the piano or learning a foreign language. “We must be intentional about learning all we can about love, and what healthy, loving relationships look like,” he says. “Approaching love naively will often lead to disappointment–and failed relationships.” When you’re looking for love the second time around, consider Dr. Hawkins’ tips:
1. Take notes on love
“Finding the love you want requires learning all you can about love and what it takes to have a wholesome, loving relationship,” Dr. Hawkins says. “Healthy, exciting, energizing love will not walk up to your door–you must seek it.” In order to do so, figure out the kind of person you want and the gifts you offer such a relationship. “Develop a self-assurance based on this knowledge,” he says. “This kind of confidence is incredibly attractive to others.”
2. Understand your love history
Dr. Hawkins believes understanding your family issues and past relationship baggage is essential to finding the love you want. “Understanding your love history means you have to work on your issues because you know that problems denied are intensified,” he says. Look to your past and learn from it–whether it involves a messy divorce or a blissful marriage that ended with widowhood. What were the best things you two shared? What would you do differently if you could have a do-over? Doing so will show that you’ve found a silver lining to your wounds–say, by developing a greater degree of sensitivity and availability.
3. Be emotionally available
to both give and receive love in spite of being hurt previously, you need to prep yourself to take that ultimate risk–being vulnerable to another loving person. “This requires the ability to not only be loving in many ways (physically, emotionally, spiritually), but also to receive love–emotionally, physically and spiritually,” Dr. Hawkins explains. Having learned from past failures, you’re now more ready than ever to experience zest, joy, adventure and delight in love.
4. Eliminate any sabotaging character traits
Come on, and admit it… We all have them–childish behaviors that can totally destroy love, such as patterns of blaming others for problems. “Such patterns, when repeated, can kill love,” says Dr. Hawkins. For example, if you tend to harbor resentment when upset rather than share your feelings in an honest manner, you’ll not only frustrate a future mate, but also not get your needs met in the process. Working to identify these patterns and endeavoring to eliminate them will help you find – and keep – love. You can look to your past for clues, or ask a trusted friend to share his or her insights with you.
5. Practice total honesty
You’ve been hurt in the arena of love before. But if you’re looking for love or a committed relationship, don’t hide from that fact, says Dr. Hawkins. Accept it, and move ahead in a forthright way. “Make your intentions clear from the beginning, and then maintain that level of honesty throughout the relationship,” he says. “Many come to me complaining about game-playing, only to discover they’ve been active players in the game. Model what you want in a relationship and settle for nothing less.” Go out there with your head held high and find love again!
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new dysfunction affects women too
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Posted:Mar 11, 2008 10:36 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2014 8:08 pm
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Electile Dysfunction--the inability to become aroused over any of the choices for President put forth by either party in the 2008 election year.
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Friends with benefits?
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Posted:Jan 31, 2008 5:39 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2011 9:33 am
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5 Facts About Friends with Benefits
By Laura Snyder
Depending on what survey you read, upwards of 60 percent of singletons have had at least one "friend with benefits" abbreviated FWB. Most guys see this strings-free sex as nothing but a good thing, but there are drawbacks to even the friendliest FWB.
What you need to know:
Friendly Fact #1: There are rules.
Thought you were spared those 'where is this relationship going' chats with this arrangement? Think again. Because FWBs can be confusing - are you required to sleep over? Are you allowed to sleep with other people? How often will you hang out/call each other/hookup? - you'll need to set some parameters.
Friendly Fact #2: Someone will get attached.
Even if you both claim to want nothing more than a good roll in the hay, it sometimes happens that those good rolls - which release touchy-feely hormones like oxytocin - can make you feel more emotionally connected than you'd planned.
Friendly Fact #3: It rarely becomes a relationship.
According to a Michigan State study, only 10 percent of FWBs turn into something more. FWBs tend to be transitional relationships until one of you finds someone you'd rather be with more seriously - which can hurt the friendship.
Friendly Fact #4: You CAN stay friends.
You can stay friends - without the benefits - after hooking up (36 percent of the couples studied at Michigan State did), but don't expect things to stay the same. You may be closer from forging that physical connection, but it's more likely that you'll just feel weird around each other. And be prepared to lose your pal completely - 26 percent of the friends with benefits studied lost both their buddy and their booty.
from netscape
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DYNAMIC SEX
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Posted:Jan 3, 2008 8:11 am
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2008 12:03 pm
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Dynamic Sex: Unlocking the Secret to Love
"A fulfilling love life. How can I have one? How can I get the most out of sex?" University students worldwide ask these questions. Why? Because both pleasure and emotional fulfillment are important facets of sex.
One way not to have a dynamic sex life is to concentrate solely on technique. There is certainly nothing wrong with learning sexual technique--especially the basics--but technique by itself is not the answer.
Here are some keys to dynamic sex--
* a good relationship
* commitment
* communication
* love
* compatibility..........."
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this site has changed my sexual preference over night AGAIN
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Posted:Oct 27, 2007 5:29 am
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2008 8:19 am
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Fellas, I am not responding to several of you because your prefernce is GAY according to the site. Something seems ascew here. Please check your profile. This is the second time mine has been changed in less than 48 hours. What's going on?
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check your sexual preference; the site has messed up
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Posted:Oct 26, 2007 6:13 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 5:44 am
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Take a look at your profile, please? Many of the straight profiles have somehow gone to "bi-curious" and some have gone "gay" yet have photos of sexual acts with members of the opposite gender. Another mess up or is it some evil force that keeps the business churning?
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Reading the Net...men are afraid of women who cry?
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Posted:Feb 21, 2007 2:46 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2008 4:39 pm
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come on...are you?
Look, if a man is a mature man and he is dealing with a mature woman...he cannot go wrong with hugging her. It's as easy as that.
If you feel like you are being manipulated, then you probably are. You guys have intuition, too. Please use it.
The gender gap is something both sides of the aisle need to work on. We women (yin)know you guys (yang) can help us see things logically and rationally. You guys know that we women can help you see things emotionally. The Yin and Yang of life.
Guys over 50 often have a problem in this arena,
not because you can't feel but because society never allowed you to express your feelings. So, many of you did substances to help that soft, vulnerable soul that lies deep within survive.
It's understandable. We women may not have had equal pay, etc. but we always had the right to have feelings. You guys got a bum wrap.
So, if we women cry, we are expressing what you guys had to sublimate. A man can never go wrong with a hug and, you know what.....we women need to be more sensitive to guys being bottled up and knock off the accusatory stuff, learn to listen, lower your voice, stop being shallow and grow up.
Don't ask for the truth unless you can handle it.
Don't ask questions you don't want to hear the answers to.
The gender gap...it isn't a male/female thing. It's that there are too damn FEW people making the effort to heal and grow and be the best they can be. If more of us did our own homework, we'd have better relationships, feel better about our selves
and experience more joy out of life.
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News? Orgasmic platform?
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Posted:Jan 17, 2007 5:24 pm
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2007 5:45 pm
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I read on the net today:
It appears that the "normal" woman requires 20 minutes of quality fooling-around time to reach what sexologists call is their "orgasmic platform." It may sound like a long time, but you can't argue with science, nor rush an arousal cycle. Don't worry about sounding demanding or high-maintenance; the good guys aren't going to mind. Well, good guys...are you willing? lol....
I am at my orgasmic platform hearing that the Rocket might be coming back to NY? WOW...I am wondering if Andy(Pettitte) and he are bi--lmao.
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NFL this "passed" weekend.....
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Posted:Jan 16, 2007 10:16 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2007 4:54 pm
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I can't believe that the Superbowl can be any more exciting than the games this past weekend. I saw
every minute of the Seahawks game....wow...and most of the others as well. My team isn't in the mix but exciting football without alligiance is great.
Pretty soon it will be pitchers and catchers reporting and, perhaps, with Andy Pettitte back
things will get better for NYY. I still think Joe ought to go....not because I don't love the guy but
his team seems as lifeless and listless as he does.
Here's one vote for Don Mattingly. Willie Randolph had a great year with the Mets. Willie is such a smart baseball man.
Well, I am looking for someone special to watch baseball with....you can kiss me between the strikes and I will kiss you between the balls....that's a Soupy Sales line. Loved it then, still do.
To the Bozo from Howard Beach who e-mailed me tonight...act like a gentleman and MAYBE you will
get to first base (not with me) meanwhwile expect your Ks to add up. You're OOOUUUUTT!
Keep warm. ;o)
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IS SEX NECESSARY? If you want to live a long life it is says FORBES MAGAZINE
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Posted:Jul 17, 2006 3:23 pm
Last Updated:Sep 1, 2006 6:41 pm
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Is Sex Necessary?
Alan Farnham
Forbes.com
(this was not marked with a copyright and the author is credited as well as the source)
New York - Fans of abstinence had better be sitting down. "Saving yourself" before the big game, the big business deal, the big hoedown or the big bake-off may indeed confer some moral benefit. But corporeally it does absolutely zip. There's no evidence it sharpens your competitive edge. The best that modern science can say for sexual abstinence is that it's harmless when practiced in moderation. Having regular and enthusiastic sex, by contrast, confers a host of measurable physiological advantages, whether you're male or female. (This assumes that you are engaging in sex without contracting a sexually transmitted disease.)
In one of the most credible studies correlating overall health with sexual frequency, Queens University in Belfast, Ireland, tracked the mortality of about 1,000 middle-aged men over the course of a decade. The study was designed to compare persons of comparable circumstances, age and health. Its findings, published in 1997 in the British Medical Journal, were that men who reported the highest frequency of orgasm enjoyed a death rate half that of the laggards.
While possession of a robust appetite for sex--and the physical ability to gratify it--may not always be a prescription for perfect health, a reluctance to engage can be a sign that something is seriously on the fritz, especially where the culprit is an infirm erection.
Dr. J. Francois Eid, a urologist with Weill Medical College of Cornell University and New York Presbyterian Hospital, observes that erectile dysfunction is an extension of the vascular system. A lethargic member may be telling you that you have diseased blood vessels elsewhere in your body. "It could be a first sign of hypertension or diabetes or increased cholesterol levels," Eid says. "It's a red flag that you should see your doctor." Treatment and exercise, says Eid, can have things looking up again. "Men who exercise and have a good heart and low heart rate, and who are cardio-fit, have firmer erections," he says. "There very definitely is a relationship."
But is there such a thing as too much sex?
The answer, in purely physiological terms, is this: If you're female, probably not. If you're male? You betcha.
Dr. Claire Bailey of England's University of Bristol says there is little or no risk of a woman's overdosing on sex. In fact, she says, regular sessions will not only firm a woman's tummy and buttocks but also improve her posture.
Dr. George Winch Jr., an obstetrician/gynecologist in Elko, Nev., concurs. If a woman is premenopausal and otherwise healthy, says Winch, having an extraordinary amount of intercourse ought not to pose a problem. "I don't think women can have too much intercourse," he says, "so long as no sexually transmitted disease is introduced and there's not an inadvertent pregnancy. Sometimes you can have a lubrication problem. If you have that, there can be vaginal excoriation--vaginal scrape."
Women who abstain from sex run some risks. In postmenopausal women, these include vaginal atrophy. Winch has a middle-aged patient of whom he says, "She hasn't had intercourse in three years. Just isn't interested. The opening of her vagina is narrowing from disuse. It's a condition that can lead to dysparenia, or pain associated with intercourse. I told her, 'Look, you'd better buy a vibrator or you're going to lose function there.' "
As for men, Eid says it's definitely possible to get too much of a good thing, now that drugs such as Viagra and Levitra have given men far more staying power than may actually be good for them.
The penis, says Eid, is wonderfully resilient. But everything has its limits. Penile tissues, if given too roistering or prolonged a pummeling, can sustain damage. Or, in cases you'd just as soon not hear about, permanent damage.
"It is possible for a young man who is very forceful and who likes rough sex to damage his erectile tissue," Eid says. The drugs increase rigidity; moreover, they make it possible for a man to have second and third orgasms without having to wait out intermission.
"I see it in pro football players," says Eid. "They use Viagra because they're so sexually active. What they demand of their body is unreasonable. It's part of playing football: you play through the pain." This type of guy doesn't listen to his body. He takes a shot of cortisone and keeps on going. And they have sex in similar fashion."
There's a reason the penis, in its natural state, undergoes a period of flaccidity. That's when it takes a breather. The blood within it is replenished with oxygen. "During an erection," explains Eid, "very little blood flows to the penis. During thrusting, pressure can go as high as 200 milliliters of water. Zero blood flows into penis at that time." To absorb oxygen, the tissue must become relaxed. "If you do not allow the penis to rest," Eid says, "then the muscle tissue does not get enough oxygen. The individual gets prolonged erections, gets decreased oxygen to tissue and could potentially suffer priapism." (We recommend you get a medical encyclopedia and look it up.) "The muscle becomes so engorged, it's painful," Eid says. "Pressure inside starts to increase. Cells start dying. More pressure and less blood flow. Eventually the muscle dies. Then there's scarring. That's why it's considered an emergency."
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