The Joy of Fisting - It's NOT What You Think...  

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11/4/2021 7:59 pm
The Joy of Fisting - It's NOT What You Think...


When you mention the term Fisting it often evokes images of brutal and painful anal penetration. But the truth is, fisting doesn't have be painful or brutal. In fact, far from it. It can be more intimate and sensual than any other form of anal penetration.

Many people enjoy anal sex, and are well aware of its multitude of pleasures... (read any of my other Blog Posts for more info about the pleasures of anal penetration, pegging and prostate orgasms). Typically, anal pleasure is achieved by inserting cocks, dildos, and other penetrative devices. In men, this can indirectly
stimulate the prostate, directly stimulate sensitive nerves inside the anus, and provide a wonderful and sensual feeling of fullness in the anal canal. However, some people want to experience an even greater sensation of fullness in their ass than the average cock or dildo can provide. And in this case, anal fisting can be just the ticket.

Hand Fucking 101

However, the term Fisting is actually a bit of a misnomer. When I penetrate a guy's anus with my hand, I never actually use my fist. And neither does most people who pleasure their partners anally with the entire hand. That's why, instead of referring it as fist fucking, I usually use the phrase Hand Fucking. When hand fucking the anus, the fingers are extended, and overlapping each other to create a sort of cone-shape with the hand.

After the usual foreplay, you would lubricate the hand with a thick, silicone lubricant and ease one finger into your partner's anus and begin a slow, rhythmic in and out motion. As your partner's anus relaxes, add a second finger, then a third. Intermittently, continue adding lubricant to your fingers. At this point, you might ease in a well-lubed butt plug or dildo instead of fingers. Continue until your partner is thoroughly enjoying being penetrated.

Then return to the fingers and insert all four fingers in a conical shape into their anus, slowly and gently easing in and out a little at a time. The hardest part will be getting past your knuckles. But, don't rush this. Let your partner's body open up on its own. Fisting (hand fucking) shouldn't be rough and forceful. If the Bottom takes your hand too fast, or too deeply, they could be injured. So, hand fucking should be done slowly, gently, and sensually.

Getting Ready To Be Fisted?

The two things you need to do in advance to make hand fucking a pleasurable experience are:

1) Clean your lower colon of fecal matter
2) Make sure your anus has been trained & stretched by smaller devices a few days prior.

During the days leading up to fisting, drink more water and eat more fiber. On the day before being fisted, take a mild, herbal enema. This will take about an hour to complete.

Also, in the days before fisting, penetrate your anus daily with dildos or butt plugs to stretch and relax the anus in preparation for getting hand fucked. This will help your anus relax enough to accept an entire hand.

Why Is Getting Fisted So Intensely Pleasurable?

1. The intense pleasure of a whole hand brushing the prostate again and again as the hand moves in and out of the colon.

2. The awesome sensation of pleasure from the pressure of a whole hand and sometimes forearm, pressing against the sensitive nerves inside the anus.

3. The amazingly intense sensation of fullness in having 5" to 14" of your colon filled and emptied again and again as your partner's entire hand, and sometimes forearm, glides in and out of you.

4. The connection and intimacy of feeling someone else so deep inside you.

5. The intoxicating sensation of willingly giving up control, and allowing someone else to take you to deeper levels of satisfaction than you may not have known before.

Closing Thoughts

Anally fisting (hand-fucking) a sexual partner can be a wonderfully intimate and deeply gratifying sexual experience for both of you. But it must be done carefully and wisely. This isn't exactly "vanilla sex" we're talking about. So, before you try this out, read a couple of articles about anal anatomy, and the Dos & Don'ts of fisting. Or get together with someone who is skilled at giving and receiving anal fisting to help insure you will safely enjoy this amazing experience.
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11/10/2021 11:32 pm

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