While I'm venting
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Posted:Jun 30, 2014 1:04 am
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2014 7:10 am
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I have no desire to date or be with or sleep with black men. It is NOT a racist thing. Yet, if I put in my Cupid preferences that I don't want to date black men, I get hate mail like you wouldn't believe.
I already get plenty of hate mail. So, if you feel the need to educate me on the proper etiquette for replying to emails because it's horribly Rude not to, I say this: Walk a day in My shoes. Or any woman on here. In real life, women outnumber men. Online, men outnumber women. I'm just guessing here, but bet it's about 1000/1.
Now that you can imagine the odds, now imagine the reality that men are Very visual and women aren't so much. Then imagine men were created to be proud of what God (in whatever form, if any) gave them. So, men, being visual and proud, decide to join. Then, as if that isn't enough, they read online that women love beards. So they not only post pics 'o dic, but also sport the "rugged" look. THEN, as if the odds weren't bad enough, they decide to Not fill in any blanks or answer any ??? And state "ask me anything you want to know".
Ha ha. We don't prefer to see pics 'o dic as a main pic, we prefer face pics with no facial hair as much as you don't want to see us unshaven for a month. We want to know basic stats bcse we haven't seen you in person, so that's only fair. Tell us something that makes us Want to know more about you.
I don't want to, nor have time for 20 questions. Not being haughty, just real. And, I don't want 1000 men, just one. So, bear with us girls as we sift through it all to find you 
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I'm on a rant. This is Bullshit
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Posted:Jun 30, 2014 12:40 am
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2016 11:24 am
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I have repeatedly requested that when we block a member that it also blocks OUR view so we don't have to see them EVERY time we log in. I come into contact with people on here that I work with or am in contact with on a daily basis and the LAST thing I want is for my coworkers, employees or customers to be able to VIEW my Personal Profile and photos!!!!!
This and all dating sites have enough trouble getting and retaining women, yet they won't fix whatever stupid code rewriting it takes to make us feel safe And happy!
I will give kudos to the programmers over the years for either listening to my requests or having the intelligence to do what I requested even if oblivious to my requests. Somehow they have the wherewithal to fix what's annoying or broke and who cares why, just that's it's fixed and or more user (female) friendly.
If this does not change, I will delete my profile. I have found that most every site But this one blocks both ways, even Facebook.
Email or call FriendFinder-x and Passion requesting mutual blocks if you agree and want to have more women to choose from. I don't know about you, but the LAST thing I want to see Every day when I log on is my customers junk etc. And, I shouldn't have to pare down my preferences to Not see them.
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Basic
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Posted:Sep 8, 2013 12:50 pm
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2014 12:42 am
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I love to laugh and have a good time no matter where. I'm laid back yet high energy. I prefer more mature and real (imperfect) men. If your profile consists of a few stats along with a dozen "prefer not to say" answers, then either take a few minutes to add to it or at least tell me about yourself in an email...also send a face pic especially if you have emailed me a dozen times with no response...or don't...but wonder not why you get no responses from the ladies. I am not interested in married or men living with or involved with women. This email system is slow and most take two hours to appear in our inboxes...so expecting instant results is futile most the time. It also shows I'm online more than I actually am. This site can be whatever you want it to be from chat only to group things...if you learn how to use it to your advantage...
Kisses,
C
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