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Forced Orgasm
Posted:Aug 25, 2021 5:18 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2021 8:46 am

From Wikipedia: Forced orgasm
A forced orgasm is consensual BDSM or kinky sexual play whereby a person consents to be forced to orgasm in a way that is beyond their control. The person being brought to involuntary orgasm would typically be put in physical restraints to deprive them of the ability to control the onset and intensity of orgasm, and to increase the feeling of helplessness, a situation which some people find sexually arousing.

I have had, to some extent a unconscious desire to participate in this over the years. The women or couples I have been involved with have never brought the subject up nor have I but I have tried to extend play, until she just shut down, no means no thing. Lately I have been seeing other members here showing a bit more of this in their videos and I must admit I find it highly arousing and intense at times.

I have seen bound and unbound (restriction is body to body at times vs actual restraints), and the later is what really can be intense. The consensual act of allowing one to bring another to multiple orgasms with no or little stoppage, seeing the one receiving, twisting, turning, moaning, whimpering, begging then asking for more is something I need to explore more of. Finding the people who would actually entertain the thought and actions seem to be illusive.

If you are interested, have participated and have thoughts to share on this please reply and add. If you are local to me and wish to take it to the next step drop me a note.
Outside bliss
Posted:Jun 7, 2021 1:57 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2021 9:48 am

He said I need to service you, it's been awhile. I agreed and we went to a local spot that for the early part of the year was rarely used. He said lets walk back by the trailers, ok why not it was a nice day. We turned the corner by the trailers away from easy view and next thing I knew my pants were at my ankles he on his knees and warm lips on my slowly enlarging dick, his hand cupping my balls...well this was a bit different. Been decades since I had outside sex, of any type. Birds chirping, warm breeze against my body and warmth of his mouth on my member as I started to move back in forth between his lips. Sun shining on my face made the mid spring day feel so nice, my mind started to wonder off as the feelings got more intense, slow moans coming from me as he got me closer and closer, I leaned back against the trailer as my legs began to feel weak, my head swirling as he worked it all, in and out, me thrusting then he would work my balls and back again, one hand trying to find my ass and then I let out a series of deep moans as I came...he didn't stop...the orgasm was intense and rolling for what seemed forever if only for body wouldn't stop I had to hold from pushing him away, I wanted more! After I recovered for a minute we walked back toward the parking lot, smiled and said next time...there was.
Summer - fall 2021 plans
Posted:Oct 16, 2019 9:44 am
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2021 10:02 am

Who is interested in a day time party? Looking get a few folks together who enjoy sex in various flavors to have a laid back, no drama, sane, clean ddf time during the day. Would like to make it a regular thing. Couples, bi, m/f couples let us see what we can come up with.

Only thing I would not want is over the top attitudes, ill behavior or being disrespectful of limits or actions, vaccinated. No means no and no judgement zone.
Daddy's Girl
Posted:Aug 9, 2019 10:09 am
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2021 8:04 am

Characteristics of a Daddy
*** I do not take credit for this I found this

The following are some of the fundamental characteristics, and indeed needs, that all Daddy dominants seem to share universally:
1. Her Number One Fan, the Daddy usually believes in his girl more than she herself does, and often uses the wisdom of his age to see her not only for who she is, but also for who she can become. A Daddy’s eyes light up when his girl enters the room. He is proud of her and praises her for not just for what she accomplishes, but for what she attempts, and for who she is. He accepts her for who she is, flaws and all.
2. And he knows all her flaws because he is also her ultimate Confidant, allowing her to bare her soul to him beyond all others. She may have many different relationships and types of friends in her life. But Daddy will be her “umbrella confidant.” The one with whom she can talk about absolutely anything and trust that what she tells Daddy stays with Daddy. He is the one from whom she withholds nothing. The one who doesn’t mind if she needs to call and talk at 3am.
3. He is the Protector of his girl against real or perceived threats, dangers, and bad people. Sometimes a little girl just needs to curl up in Daddy’s arms and smile at some of his bluster, and sometimes the Daddy may have to act on his protective instincts. Pity the person who messes with a Daddy’s girl.
4. Her Teacher and mentor shows her new things that come from a longer and possibly wider set of life experiences. Daddy likes to take his girl to places she has never been, feed her foods she has never eaten, and do activities she has never enjoyed before. He is never so happy as when he can look in her eyes and know he has given her something she has never had before. This also translates into sexual adventurism for some Daddy/girl couples. He symbolically deflowers her on a regular basis, whether that be sexual or just in exposure to new life adventures.
5. He wants to be her Guide and advisor. As the girl makes her way in the world, Daddy wants to be there to answer her questions, calm her fears, make her insecurities go away, and give her sound advice based on his years of experience.
6. Anchor. The Daddy dom is an unyielding, unmovable anchor in the storm. No matter what happens in the girl’s life, she knows her Daddy will be right there where he has always been, and she can hold onto that even if she is blinded by her own tears. Daddies know the storm will pass, and she will be safe, but she needs something to hold onto that will not move.
7. Disciplinarian. When the girl acts badly, she expects to be disciplined or punished for the infraction. Most Daddy dominants find it occasionally difficult to keep this up, especially as the affection for their girl grows. They would love nothing more than to spoil their girls, but they realize this is the path to ruin. One a girl begins to believe she can manipulate Daddy, she no longer sees him as her dominant, unyielding anchor. A girl needs the stability and protection of a man who is more dominant than she is. To demonstrate that characteristic, Daddies must sometimes be excessively strict and rigid, more so than they would in normal relationships. The act of disciplining the girl may be used as part of a sadomasochistic activity.
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Pleasing them both - True Story
Posted:Jun 10, 2019 9:37 am
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2021 7:15 am

Work was getting a bit boring so I took a chance a early lunch with a couple who wanted me to please them both together, orally and manually the same time. A challenge! Showed up a roadside hotel to find them both naked in bed and in short order the 3 of us were there together. She said she wanted to see him get sucked and to suck a guy, his first time. He said he wanted to watch and hear/feel her while I did the same to her and him...well without hesitation I saw he was already hard so I started there. slowly taking it in my mouth, tongue moving around, feeling his balls, stroking the shaft, I then started to use my other hand to with her pussy.. quickly finding her clit and teasing, rubbing my hand over it, moving around her pussy, inserting, teasing her upper level and then back to her clit....she responded with her hips moving...all this time I was still sucking, licking him...then as she was getting more into things I moved to her with my mouth, still holding his cock, caressing his balls while I used my tongue to work her into a orgasm as one hand found her right nipple and worked it until she was bucking my face and moaning and little little whimpers from the work on her nipples....when she pushed back I went back to work on him orally still touching her belly, chest and then after a minute or two started again to with her pussy once she calmed down, she quickly started to move to my touch while he also worked her pussy while I got his dick firmly between my lips, one hand on the shaft....after awhile I went back to her orally and again worked her into what seemed like a long orgasm as my face was wet....stroking his cock...he worked her top while I was soaked in her now multiple orgasms...when she needed a break I went back to him and I swallowed what he had...I then laid between both and while she stroked my thigh, teased my cock and balls she told him it's his turn...he was nervous if not sure at all but she took his hand and placed on me...he slowly started to rub up and down....she said kiss it....he reluctantly did and after a couple of starts he had me firmly between his lips while she moved down to him...they took turns licking balls, shaft...and she was prodding my back regions turning me on even more until I was just wanting it all to happen....I want to find a couple for this again and for more regular times....
Daytime meets
Posted:Nov 6, 2018 8:07 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2019 11:31 am

Thinking of how some of us can make the time to get together so here is an idea based on the fact they most have to work or give the illusion of doing so. Perhaps we could meet at a hotel or home and as long as there is wifi we could "login" while there to catch a few emails, or do a little work while others or take a break...sounds a little crazy but this would take care of 2 requirements, 2 of us it would extend the time for fun while not compromising work and personal time/space.

Let me know your thoughts. I have done this in the past although a few years ago and it worked well. A few hours verse for the moment would make for a more enjoyable time among sexual friends.

Couples, single, married, , bisexual, bi, alternative, cuckold, D/s all good
Clean, sane, ddf, respectful, rules no means no.
Honey, who is here? True Story
Posted:Oct 20, 2017 8:13 am
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2020 7:32 am

That's the voice you never want to here when you are upstairs in their bed with a spouse that doesn't know. Well, I heard it awhile back and it scared the crap out of me. We had been together before, several times in their bed. I would come over, typically lunch time, get naked, lay back and got orally serviced...dressed and left without much fanfare.

Well this day was beautiful, warm sunny and I had a late lunch, I got a invite to come over a bit later...we went up stairs, it was hot...I was so hot I was squirming like a little submissive it felt so good...warm mouth, fingers, hands roaming amd probing...I was lost in the moment. "Honey, who is hear?" WHAT! "Honey where are you?" I said someone is hear, just kept working on me....Honey? I tapped out, as the voice had the air of concern now. I ran with my clothes into the bathroom, the only thing I could think of....I was shaking, what's next?!!

I got dressed, fumbling like a fool...1000 thoughts racing, what if this or that? Oh shit, now what? I heard a knock on the door, "you OK"? I followed down the stairs, not knowing what to expect, what I would hear or face. Lucky the stairs were near the door, some words were mumbled but I just made a direct path toward my car, which was parked all the way in the driveway...I put the car in reverse, and got out, down the road I went....thinking oh shit oh shit oh shit! My mind raced the balance of the day...I got an email later, "this will be an interesting conversation..." was what I read...I never heard back....I feel bad...stunned, ashamed, bad for what happened...but I need the touch, the orgasms, the feeling....
The Office Surprise - true story
Posted:Oct 19, 2017 7:44 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2020 5:08 am

Come to the office and let's chat he said. So I went to the office, everyone had left he said but he was uneasy. He kept looking at his phone, he had a tracking application on her, where was she. It kept indicating she was nearby but she told him she was going food shopping then home, perfect. Or so I thought.

I sat in the leather chair, took the shoes off getting ready to lower my pants but he was pacing in and out of the office with his phone. "not sure" etc....I had my belt undone, he looked smiled then back to his phone...this was uncomfortable, finally I said if you are not sure about it let's not. Then, another door next to his office opened.

She came out of her office, shoes off, it was his wife! She said, "yeah, might not be a good idea.." or something like that as my chin hit the floor. He was standing between us for a minute unsure of what was next. She said "...I thought I'd see who his lover was...". Well she found an interesting twist. Now what, do I run, do I engage in conversation...She said a few more things, asked my name, I told her Bert. I wanted to stay, to see where this would lead, would she secretly want to play or cut them off...I looked at him, her and my flight instinct said it was time to go. She said nice to meet you, I said thank you as I took the biggest steps I could to leave.

Should I of stayed to see where the action would lead? We have since continued in the office and home at limited times. He loves to service me without recip, I enjoy it, he plays with my bottom which drives me wild when it all aligns but I always wonder. Should I stayed that time to see, to possible expand or did I do right by running to fight another day?

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