wow syndrome
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Posted:Jun 13, 2016 5:35 am
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2016 4:25 pm
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Everybody seems to want the Wow Effect when they meet someone interesting, this sounds great but is not what you want emanating from the person of interest. What you want is the Ummmmmmmm Effect, when you meet someone that gives you the Ummmm Effect.....you know you have to get more. The Wow Effect can be caused by many symptoms and majority of them are not so great. The Ummmmm Effect does not blow your socks off but makes you comfortable,totally enjoy the moment and leaves you with a smile on your face. So, go with the Ummm Effect....it is always more satisfying and longer lasting.
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Simple thought .... with my disclaimer
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Posted:Jun 6, 2016 5:24 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2016 6:52 am
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Here is a simple thought on life, just to let you know that I am still alive and kicking.
A simple personal philosophy, a kind of existential thing. Life should be lived to the fullest....if you feel it then do it, it's quite simple. You create your own values and enjoyment of life. Now since we live in a politically correct world, here is my disclaimer... none of us want to hurt other lives or people but if you treat other people as you would treat yourself... then life is your playground and go play hard.
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AA meeting on Memorial Day
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Posted:May 30, 2016 9:23 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 9:10 pm
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OK, before you go what the hell....this is Attitude Adjustment meetings. All of us lose our edge... which may consist of humor,wit,positive outlook, sensual vibes or whatever that makes you unique. We may not have a clue that our edge is slipping until friends start shying away, that sly grin is not looking back at you in the mirror, you don't relish that pretty sunset or you walk around just pissed off. A good romantic session is the best remedy for this malady.....some kissing,touching and great sex sets the mind into neutral. The luxuriating aftermath period is a perfect time for a tension free discussion of your attitude, and that finishes the cure......The edge is back.
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Park Sign for romance
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Posted:May 23, 2016 6:48 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 9:10 pm
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Oh, what a day in the park it was yesterday and today is even going to be better.{ For all of you newbies, Saturday In The Park is my parody of the old Chicago song about just how good life is and what you do with it]Anyway, at the park yesterday I noticed a sign that was very apropos and related to....you guessed it, Romance. The sign said: Sit down, Shut up, Don't think too much. Great message to enjoy the park and definitely the way to go with romance. In romance, too many people want to tell what they want, who they are, what they are going to do, what they expect.....and then want to over analyze everything. Romance does not appear on demand, it can't be forced and it sure as hell can't be directed. It is a natural flow and progression.....so, sit down....shut up and don't over think. Romance will come when it happens...so sit back and get ready for when it does. Now, off to enjoy another great day in the park.....it must be the 4th of July.
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Historical shout out..... and educational
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Posted:May 17, 2016 5:44 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2016 6:56 am
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Here is a big shout out to the people that created the internet[ no it was not Al Gore, but somebody give him a little love...he needs it]... for this technology has enhanced the nuances of romance. It has always been hard for people to articulate their romantic feelings and this hidden veil that the internet provides allows people to expound and explore some of the deepest reaches of their romantic soul. People tell true feeling and desires that have not and will not be told to another human being face to face. The release of these feeling and desires is very good for ones mental and physiological well being, plus makes damn good reading. I relate this to the early civilizations... when they had no clue to their sexuality and were trying everything from sacrificing virgins to blood letting of penises. So thank you internet geeks for starting a new sexual Inquisition and Renaissance.
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Bumblebee of romance
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Posted:May 10, 2016 6:00 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 9:10 pm
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I was having another great day in the park and started watching a bumblebee. Of course I'm always thinking of romance and I realized how much a bumblebee's plight in life is similar to romance. You see a bumblebee is aerodynamically not built to fly but it does not realize this and goes about flying and enjoying life. Now when bad weather grounds this fellow from flight it just holes up until it passes and then goes back out there enjoying all the benefits of flying. Romance is much the same way, there is no required form or personality to enjoy the benefits of romance. You just go out there and fly with it, when you get grounded by bad luck or bad people....you just let it pass and go back out there like it is a new day and fly right back into the enjoyment of romance. So go out and be a bumblebee and enjoy another great day in the park...Damn, it must be the 4th of July.
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making some romance
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Posted:May 4, 2016 7:17 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 9:10 pm
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We are going to whip us up some romance, so let's talk about three key ingredients. Start off with a little spontaneity, when it hits you don't even think twice ...go with what you feel and the unexpected is always twice as nice. Now throw in some inspiration, you can't go through the motions.....be inspired, act like you are stealing the moment because you are and you may not have another chance to live this moment again. The final ingredient is perspiration, you got to work at romance, not be lazy and let it work you. A little sweat from a romantic encounter is like whipped cream with a cherry on top...just the finishing touches to a scrumptious dessert.
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The quiver
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Posted:Apr 25, 2016 5:49 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2016 6:05 am
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Yes, we have all had these and still it is a great mystery. It is that turn-on button that sends the tingle through the body....The Quiver. When someone gives you the Quiver, it is always unexpected and very confusing. The turn-on is caused by a person that may be your complete opposite, exactly what you are not looking for, has physical or mental characteristics that is normally a turn-off, or maybe from a completely different planet. But one thing this person does to you.... is that they give you "The Quiver". This electric jolt goes through your loins and has no explanation or diagnosis but it sure feels good and you want more. Just go on and do your Doo Wah Ditty down the street.... and when "The Quiver" hits, enjoy the hell out of it and don't try to be an analyst.
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Rainy Days and Monday
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Posted:Apr 18, 2016 6:57 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2016 9:11 am
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Ok...There is the moniker to the song, Rainy days and Mondays always get ME down. Well, let me tell you...Rainy days and Mondays are awesome. Billy Joel once crooned...New York State of mind, well Monday or whatever day you want is a great state of mind. I personally had a great day[ if you want details, email], anyway...if you have a great state of mind, everyday is awesome. It is the half empty or half full quandary....there is none. Enjoy every moment and chance you get. Off to make my next memory
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Zippidy Doo Da
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Posted:Apr 11, 2016 12:38 pm
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2016 3:07 pm
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Zippidy Day....Oh what a feeling this wonderful day. Great classic song for a Disney movie[ Song Of The South, I think] that should be the theme song for romance. Everyday should be Zippidy DooDa when it comes to romance. Don't let anything like money problems, civil problems, family problems, mental problems or problems in general take your Zippidy DooDa out of your romance. Romance is your other world and Zippidy DooDa energizes that world. So, it's Zippidy DooDa Zippidy Day...oh what a feeling this romantic day. Mojo is for general purposes but Zippidy DooDa is a romantic special...so start humming that song and have a great romantic day.
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Man with a slow hand
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Posted:Apr 6, 2016 5:47 am
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2016 5:33 am
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It has taken me many years to understand some of the underlying meaning to the line "Give me a man with a slow hand" from a Pointer Sister's song. A slow hand is very important to romance in two ways, one it is the human touch and that can cure hurts, change moods, just make you feel good, send tingles up and down your body...in other words it is a miracle therapy. Second, slow hand means meaningful and lingering enjoyment of feelings and surroundings. Why does it take us so long to understand and live by a simple statement from a hell of a song.
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Tude
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Posted:Mar 30, 2016 1:25 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 9:10 pm
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Yes that is attitude we are talking about and one of the key ingredients of Romance. This fact jumped out at me on my walk through the park yesterday...yes, just another day in the park. Anyway, there were two musicians playing in separate areas of the park. The first one I came to was very good looking, had the best equipment and great talent. But he was just sleep walking through his performance and his audience was falling asleep. Just off to the right was another musician who was of average looks, had just a guitar and sang off key on half the songs. But he was enjoying himself, putting everything into his performance and the large crowd was enjoying the music and having a very good time. Now you are wondering what these guys have to do with romance....well, as long as you have a great attitude and put yourself into the situation, you will have a great time. It does not matter about your looks or abilities, as long as you have a great attitude and don't sleep walk through romance...everyone will have a good time.
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Shake It up Baby
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Posted:Mar 24, 2016 6:28 am
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2016 6:03 am
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Jimmy Buffett keeps touring , adding a few new songs with the old..... if it is still working for him, me too.
JB did a song a few years back called" Attitudes and Latitudes" and you can really apply this to romance. There is also a business and sociological term called the Pendulum Effect, combine both of these and you have a remedy for good romance and a more enjoyable life. You have to have a change in routine and life every once in a while....just to appreciate what you have or to realize what you are missing. I do not know whether this is from laziness or fear of the unknown, but damn it.....shake things up a little and enjoy romance and life with a different perspective.
BTW...he does a version of Jesse Winchester's Rhumba Man which is one of my all time favorites in any genre.
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