My thoughts on Christmas
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Posted:Dec 20, 2016 7:28 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2017 11:14 pm
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Although it is supposed to be a joyous time of the year, I question why...the over commercialized holiday actually wears me completely out and I feel so alone in how I feel about it...
The long standing joke I always say is I am going to watch Norad and wait until Santa comes over my house...I am gonna shoot down that fast bastards sleigh, keep all the gifts and adopt all the reindeer as pets...and if any of them step out of line, there will be a BBQ at my house...and I know JUST who will start up it will be the freak with the glowy nose...and yes it gets laughs and giggles..a bunch of OH MY GODs here n there...and my boss who says Ohhh that isnt very nice in which I laugh...but sometimes I feel that way...
I long for the time when Christmas will actually mean more to me than a day of chaotic adventures that will only play out in my mind.
I dont bother putting up a tree..why..its only me...and i dont bother buying a gift..because it is only me..and i dont bother cooking because pizza works splendidly.
Yet I LOVE halloween...
So what can one do to make this holiday more positive in a whole...any ideas???
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The Christmas Season
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Posted:Nov 29, 2016 6:12 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2017 6:20 pm
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I am not exactly a big fan of Christmas, never really had a reason to be one, but I still love to listen to the hopes and dreams of people who absolutely love the Christmas season and make me "understand" the hype of it all so I am a curious George...I would LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVEEEE to know what inspires another to go nuts in the stores with all the lines and headaches, the food shopping looking for just the perfect somethings to add to one's bountiful feasts adorned on their tables, the tree...decorating...the cooking for days on end...the baking...the cards and the cramped hands from writing them out...the God awful taste of the stamps and envelopes...the paper cuts on the tongue...etc... and all the holiday flare some folks simply can't wait to come each year.
So....what I would love to know is what makes this part of the year so special to you...
Then I want to know if you could, what would you do to "pay it forward" so to speak for someone else...
All comments are welcomed, just please be in spirit of the season....and please don't be afraid to share...
I lost my drive for the Christmas holidays because of the over commercializing and the craziness, but lets see how many memories I will be blessed to read about that may just jump start my spirit...
READY FOR IT??? .......GO!!!!!.............
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no truer words.............
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Posted:Nov 16, 2016 11:54 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2016 6:24 am
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The real lover is the man who can thrill you just by touching your head or smiling into your eyes - or just by staring into space.
~~~ Marilyn Monroe
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Something I find extremely annoyoing with some of the men in here
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Posted:Nov 16, 2016 11:30 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2016 6:25 am
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Just to let ya know....and NO you don't have to agree with me...as this is MY blog so it is MY bitching session...  ...proceeding....
I do not like when a guy comes on too strong...I will not ask you for pictures of your dick, so don't just send them...
I do not meet many guys in here because quite simply... I am not into you like that...you have either come on too strong, got a bit above yourself...or think I am just in here to fuck some fly by night guy...no I am not.
I do NOT like when a man assumes because I am on a singles site ( I mean my address bar says FIREDATE.COM...what does YOURS say....) I am desperate, or looking to get laid...hey we all have itches to scratch...and I know where to get my scratches believe me..it is certainly not going to be with some guy who thinks he is Adonis, who has been with countless women, who does not know me in any way and who just has no respect for himself or others especially when you sex out so recklessly....(and women are guilty too folks..but I am NOT into women so I have to stay on the man's side for now)
I won't just *hookup* with some clown who has a picture that I have to go and block because it is either his dick....him getting head from someone...him sticking his dick in someone...*shm* seriously...not my circus not my monkeys...not interested...this is a dating site...you make it what you want it to be from YOUR profile not mine...and all I want is one really great guy.
Which brings on problem 2...you talk to a man, he seems really awesome and you are willing to let your guard down and actually give him a shot...so you want to meet him....because he originally wants to meet you...then ...you don't... and he is on...not talking...look..I do NOT have time for the game you wish to play...I am a very busy woman and when I have to move things about because YOU mentioned something...and then you drop the ball...just walk away ...or..step up..but never think I will ever wait around for YOU while you sex text some other woman who is helping you rub one off...or now all of a sudden someone is busy...or the sports game is on...or you need to watch the grass grown at 10 pm at night..or watching the cams and videos of the next women to meet your mother..*rolls eyes* hey..step up or step out...
some of the women in here simply do not have time for the bullshit... I don't need 20 and 30 somethings trying me on for size...honey you aren't even in the right department...no less near a changing room...
Guys all I am saying is..say what you mean..and do what you say...or walk the fuck away from her and when you do...and then all of a sudden you realized you fucked up flounder...then don't think it will be ok if you drop her a line from time to time..because you probably already have been replaced...and you will know by how quiet she got with you after you got quiet on her...today's bitching session is now closed..thank you for reading this far....and yeah...go ahead...COMment away....
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The Frustrations with these singles sights for me..,
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Posted:Nov 12, 2016 6:21 pm
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2016 7:32 pm
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I am not too sure who else may have the frustrations I may have, or why I am even wasting my time writing it because I really don't see where how I feel matters too much to anyone considering the gold members who write me never seem to do the simplest things to not waste my time, not waste their time and not piss me off...
I love to talk to people, yes I do but when you send me shit in my messages I never asked you for...ummm like your penis pic...or you getting head from some other chick...
it frigging annoys me....
All it takes if a few seconds to read what I am looking for and then you won't have to waste your time uploading penis pics to me and earning your proper place on my block list....It says on my profile I don't want attached or married...and how much clearer can I say it...
Does anyone read these things anymore or are y'all that hard up to stick your dick SOMEWHERE that it doesn't matter to find out what it is you're sticking it in???
I am a STRAIGHT oman...yet I get offers from women all the time...
I guess I just needed to vent this out and see if maybe anyone else is going through this bullshit too...I thuoght POF was b ad... *SMH*
*frustrated*
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I need honest opinions here...
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Posted:Oct 25, 2016 12:02 pm
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2016 6:30 pm
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This has nothing to do with the site and I am simply trying to get completely honest and non-biased opinions on what should be done.
Problem: Long time school chums...sisters...live in a town...I go see them...notice one sisters house is completely torn apart...being redone in the living room and dining room with a facelift going on in the kitchen. Turns out it was an insurance thing and the man hired to do the work is the other sister's boyfriend who started this job 6 months ago...well it is almost HALLOWEEN and the place is not finished, the 3 said rooms are inhabitable....the basement where he put all the wood...the dining room...and the living room...the kitchen is the only working room besides the bedrooms which weren't touched. The boyfriend hasn't shown in two weeks but cashed the insurance check...can't figure out how he did because it required a 2nd signature...
On top of sall this..the boyfriend has some of his stuff stored in the garage of the house...in the backyard as well..and that has been sitting there for many months...he also has some furniture at the girlfriend's (the sister) apartment taking up 90% of her Florida room.
Last night at the house (not the apartment) this comes up as an issue. I told my GF to tell her boyfriend to get his shit out of the other one's garage and back yard, and to get his shit out of her Florida room...since she complains about it so much...but she has excuses...it went to a huge argument last night because sister said fire the boyfriend and hire another to finish the work...i explained to sis that her boyfriend took a very large 2 signature check and cashed it...(which is insurance fraud to a degree) and did so with one signature>?? makes no sense. I asked her if she was ok with her sister firing the BF and getting the insurance company involved...she kept bouncing off into never never land wouldn't stop talking was told to shut up like seriously 60 times...and I asked her where her BF is every day..she said oh well he is working very hard and a lot..I said "not here" and house owner sis burst out laughing...
I told her she should intervene because after all they are sisters..twins no less..and that bond is very big and to let this man you are dating the last 11 months is screwing her...so what I wish to know is how to make this workable for all involved..what would you do...because right now sis got thrown out for good from the house...over a non-working contractor who happens to be dating him...ideas??
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The Married man...what we women know...
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Posted:Oct 24, 2016 8:33 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2016 11:46 am
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The married man is something I swore I'd never tangle with. As a single woman, I am out and about meeting people from all walks of life and enjoying the acquaintances I have made along my path. If a man is clearly not happy he should leave...there is no reason feasible in my mind to stay...because quite honestly..tell me you're staying for your ...but in the meantime you are disrespecting their mother...they will turn one day...trust me...they will...because unless their mother is a total POS, they will stand in her corner..because bottom line is..you still have to pay for your whether they like you or not...you are disrespecting them as your own ...that does damage to them that can't be reversed if you aren't careful..and if you are a repeat offender...you should know better, because telling the woman you found love with outside of your marriage that you are staying with your and for finances is bullshit... we know it...you think we don't but we do...this is totally my opinion and the things I have gone through in my young teenage years with my father and his stupid moments in time...don't try saving your 20 plus year marriage...you're just helping yourself get over the guilt you should be suffering through...but you can't go home to a house you are miserable in..I get it...so why not just leave...let her find her happiness with a man who will love her unconditionally...you find a woman who will love your unconditionally and call it a day..because dragging others into it...and even worse...shitting where you eat..because one day the bitch in the bar you decide to screw around with may very well know your wife and you will lose everything in the worst way...your will hate you...cut you right out of their lives...and then you'll sit through your golden years asking yourself why you are in the position you are in now..which is alone...guys..really ...think about it...we women know..but this woman calls it like it is...and i know most are going to blast me every direction and sideways for this rant of mine..but i'm not joking here...its not just YOUR life...and you're just being selfish...ok..so I said it..go ahead..blast away...I'm not running anywhere...today's rant is over....
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Chav's dumb question moment is here...
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Posted:Sep 8, 2016 10:27 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2016 5:07 pm
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OK Guys and Gals....and those in between... here is my dumb assed question for this portion of today, at least until the next dumb assed question comes to mind...
So... what is your all time bestest favorite movie....and WHY...(the why is the hard part) so...... ready..set GO!
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Maggie says it all!!
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Posted:Sep 6, 2016 10:01 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2016 5:26 pm
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“Men,you say you want a strong, intelligent, truly independent woman who wants you rather than needs you, who inspires you, who pushes you towards being yourself, who can stick by you through the hardest times, and who can be your rock through life's obstacles.
But you need to know that a truly strong, independent woman does not walk through life with her heart wide open. She has had to put up walls to block toxicity to obtain her strength. She is skeptical and always on alert from a lifetime of defense against predators. She is going to be a bit jaded, a little cynical, and a little scary because those qualities come with the struggle of obtaining that strength that gravitates you. She is going to doubt and question your good intentions because it has become her adaptability instincts that have allowed her to thrive.
She is not a ball of sunshine. She has flaws. She has a past. She has her demons. She knows better than to just let down her barriers for you simply because you voice a desire to enter. You have to prove your right of entrance. She will assume the worst of you because the worst has happened. If you want her to see otherwise, prove her wrong.”
― Maggie Young
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August 31, 2016 TODAY'S 3 QUESTIONS....
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Posted:Aug 31, 2016 8:39 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2016 5:33 pm
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OK folks...another day that I wish to know more about the folks around this site...this is a non-blocking forum today only because quite honestly..i AM asking for it so...here goes the today"s 3....:
1) What is the first thing you notice about a woman/man you just met?
2) What would you do if you won the lottery?
3) What is your favorite time of the year and why?
And...its go time...tell me it all..I am curious... 
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life
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Posted:Aug 30, 2016 2:38 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2016 9:44 am
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Life isn’t a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, latte in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming ‘Woohoo WHAT A RIDE’!
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Bored as sin today so here I go...
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Posted:Aug 29, 2016 7:38 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2016 5:37 pm
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Lots of things shuffle through my mind at any moment on any day and God help me I can't figure out why some things just come up out of no where...so today...I am bored as wood can be and decided eh...why not write something really dumb and see what happens...
so.....I want preferences today...so..here are my three questions for today..and yeah humor me..I am freaking bored!!
1) What is your favorite color?
2) What is your favorite Ice Cream flavor?
3) What is your favorite OLD SCHOOL car??
Lets see how this goes...
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